"It is said that he relies on his father, but I don't know that his father is the one who is the most ruthless to him."
Speaking of Guo Degang, everyone knows that he is a crosstalk master, and now he has become a "bearer" in the crosstalk industry.
However, in the identity of the father, he is "quite unkind", and for his son Guo Qilin, he has always been educated in the "strict father's form".
Others may think that it is very successful, but Guo Qilin "lost his self-esteem" at a young age.
It is obviously a second generation of stars with a bright life, but when he really enters his life, he is a little "lowly".
In an interview, he once said: "My life is too tired, and I often blame myself for not being polite enough to people. ”
He even said: "If I go up for a few years, I may be lying on the ground and talking to someone." ”
What exactly did he go through? Why do you live so humbly?
In 1996, Guo Qilin was born.
People who pay attention to Deyun Society know that Guo Qilin was very inferior when he debuted, firstly because of his size, and secondly, because of Guo Degang.
Guo Qilin has been speaking crosstalk on stage since he was 16 years old, and once performed "Yin and Yang Five Elements" with Yue Yunpeng during his tour.
But because he was on stage for the first time, he didn't perform well, and the response on the scene was very poor, but Guo Qilin still did his best to finish this crosstalk.
If it were other parents, they would definitely hold their child and cheer him up, but Guo Degang turned his head and struck a hammer.
He angrily scolded Guo Qilin, saying that anyone can make mistakes, but he can't, because he is his own child.
From this point, it can be seen that Guo Degang is cultivating Guo Qilin and has high requirements for him.
He probably wanted Deyun Society to hand over to him in the future, so he had great expectations for him.
But such repression has made his relationship with his son more and more estranged, making him eager to escape from this home immediately and get rid of his father's "control".
In 2014, Guo Qilin decided to lose weight, so he started fitness.
In addition, at that time, his performance venue was in the east of the city, but the fitness place was in the west of the city, but he still insisted on going back and forth every day, coupled with a strict diet, he had lost 70 kilograms in a year.
Two years later, in order to give Yue Yunpeng a scene, Guo Qilin in the second season of "Happy Comedian", it can be said that he is completely new, quite an idol style.
It was also from that year that Guo Qilin became more determined in his career, no longer participating in the performances of the Deyun Society, and instead participated in various variety shows alone.
At the same time, he also began to study his acting skills.
In 2019, Guo Qilin even played "Fan Sizhi" in "Qing Yu Nian", with his fresh and vulgar performance, the whole drama was full of laughter.
And Guo Qilin's past was gradually unveiled at this time.
When Guo Degang first established the Deyun Society, he was a poor bastard, with so many people performing at a time, and sometimes not only could not make money, but also had to pay for it himself.
But this is his ideal, he is unwilling, even if he ruins his family for this, he will never be able to raise his head in front of people.
In this era full of college students, it is hard to imagine that there will be people who have not received compulsory education, and Guo Qilin is such a person.
Perhaps because Guo Qilin's previous appearance gave people an extremely knowledgeable and talented feeling, everyone thought that he was a high-achieving student who did not show mountains and waters.
In fact, Guo Qilin has dropped out of middle school.
Although Guo Qilin is only a junior high school graduate, it is very strange, he has an upper-class temperament, knowledge is wider than many high-caliber students, and his temperament is also quite excellent.
Therefore, education level does not determine a person's future, let alone whether a person will become excellent.
Although Guo Qilin dropped out of school halfway, Guo Degang did not indulge him much, but let him read through Chinese masterpieces, and at the same time let him learn etiquette and know how to distinguish right from wrong.
From this point, we can see that Guo Degang actually poured a lot of fatherly love into Guo Qilin, but unfortunately the means are somewhat "distressing".
When Guo Degang founded the Deyun Society, the economic situation was not good, and this is a well-known thing.
Although there has been some progress later, on the whole, it is still "destitute" and completely unrelated to the scenery.
At that time, Guo Degang had many disciples, and in order to show his sense of responsibility to his disciples, he would often invite them to eat at home so that they could take care of them.
Although he was not rich in hand, in order to save face in front of the disciples and make the disciples eat better, he specially enriched the meals, including meat dishes.
But when Guo Qilin was at home, he rarely had the opportunity to eat meat.
And when the brothers came, it can be regarded as meat, Guo Qilin, as a child, is still childlike, naturally he can't wait to eat it, but Guo Degang is stunned and refuses.
When Guo Degang saw that Guo Qilin wanted to serve meat, he immediately snatched his bowl, served him a plate of greens, and then asked him to go downstairs to eat, completely ignoring how hurt his son was in his heart.
Guo Qilin felt very uncomfortable, but he was very afraid of Guo Qilin, so he could only sit on the steps alone, crying while eating.
Indeed, Guo Degang never gave him the slightest bit of fatherly love.
Guo Qilin was born in Tianjin, originally the life of a family of three was okay, barely able to live.
However, Guo Degang has a dream of crosstalk in his heart, and he has no intention of thinking about the life of "wife and children hot kangtou", and he thinks every day about how to talk crosstalk and how to open the door and accept disciples.
In the long run, the family's financial income could not make ends meet, and the ex-wife directly packed up her things and left, and went to Japan to start a new life.
Guo Qilin, only four years old, is not very sensible, and before he has time to experience maternal love, he has no chance anymore, and can only rely on his grandmother for life.
Without the love of his parents, Guo Qilin's personality has also become very inferior and sensitive, no matter what he does, he is a promise-only look.
Guo Qilin, who is timid and fearful, has become the target of "ridicule" by his classmates.
With no one to love, Guo Qilin began to indulge his appetite and slowly became a fat little guy, perhaps only in this way can he better protect himself.
But when he was in school, because Guo Qilin was short and fat, he was bullied even more, which made Guo Qilin, who had little self-esteem, more and more depressed.
Fortunately, things took a turn for the better, Guo Degang slowly settled in Beijing, married Wang Hui, and also took Guo Qilin to Beijing.
Although he has never been bullied by his classmates again, Guo Qilin's life has fallen into another dilemma.
When his father remarried and faced his stepmother, Guo Qilin always felt that he was a "foreigner", not like the children of this parent, and even inferior to his "stepson".
It is said that when Guo Qilin followed Guo Degang to Beijing, he didn't even have a room of his own, and Guo Degang would not prepare anything for him, washing supplies or anything, everything he bought himself.
So at that time, Guo Qilin did not regard this place as his home, and the only home in his heart was the countryside where his grandmother lived.
Probably because of Guo Degang's strict requirements for him, Guo Qilin's grades in school are very good, and he is the top student in the class in every exam, and he also became a class leader.
But as soon as he entered junior high school, he dropped out of school on his own because he wanted to learn crosstalk with Guo Degang.
For this problem, Guo Degang did not "scold" his son, did not blame his son's foolishness, and even was a little happy, after all, his son can take over, and he has an extra inheritance.
But when his son really wanted to learn crosstalk, Guo Degang's ruthlessness returned.
Guo Degang let other disciples practice for three days, but Guo Qilin only had two days, and if he didn't remember it after two days, he would be scolded and beaten.
Especially in front of so many fellow students, being said like this, Guo Qilin's self-esteem has been greatly hit, but it is precisely because of this that he dares not make mistakes.
It is because of such an education method that Guo Qilin has not been able to raise his head for more than ten years, and even became depressed because of this, and did not dare to interact with people, but he was humble and courteous, but he also made a deep impression.
The well-known host Zhu Dan also said: 'This Guo Qilin looks very elderly. ’
After being greatly suppressed, Guo Qilin even showed a humble character similar to "habitual flattery", and at any time, he would show a humble attitude and suppress his youthful vitality.
Gradually, Guo Qilin began to distance himself from his father, and did not even dare to answer Guo Degang's calls.
After Guo Qilin became famous, Guo Degang had more difficulty seeing his son.
Private meetings are almost impossible, and it is all because when attending the show, the staff invites one of them as a guest.
Guo Qilin, who grew up alone since childhood, does not know how to get along with his father, but is polite to his father, like a "stranger".
In one episode, Guo Jingfei once said to the father and son: "Oh, you two are quite polite." ”
In 2019, Guo Qilin shined in "Niu Tianci", winning the applause of all the audience in the drama theater, and what made him even happier was that Guo Degang actually came and praised him.
That day, Guo Degang did not tell his son that he was going, so the moment Guo Qilin saw him, he cried on the spot.
At that time, for twenty-three years, Guo Degang had never praised Guo Qilin.
And this time, finally let Guo Qilin let go of his guard, and hugged his father.
To this day, some people still call Guo Qilin the "second generation of stars", but under the "torture" of his father, Guo Qilin's ability to resist blows has become stronger and stronger, and he is not affected at all.
And discerning people can know at a glance that Guo Qilin can get to this point, Guo Degang has helped him a lot, but the real credit is Guo Qilin's own.
Not long ago, "Ordinary Road" won four consecutive ratings titles and attracted much attention, among which the male protagonist is Guo Qilin.
However, just when the movie "Ordinary Road" was about to be released, Guo Qilin's performance was criticized.
How did Guo Qilin get "CCTV resources", he used to play supporting roles in online dramas, but now he has become the male number one of CCTV, is it because of his father?
However, whether Guo Qilin's acting skills are worthy of this drama has also been answered after the release of the play.
"Ordinary Road" tells the story of a college student named Pan Yan, who is forced to live in a rented house with his mother due to his poor family.
Without a skill, he was rejected again and again, and finally had to rely on his girlfriend's "relationship" and got an interview.
Netizens empathize with the fact that it is normal for graduates to lose their jobs, and everyone will be forced by life to find a job.
Inside the elevator, a group of well-dressed upper-class people, fluent in English, but Pan Yan was wearing a tattered sportswear, with his head bowed, and his face was envious and self-ashamed.
Guo Qilin vividly shows all the dazedness and helplessness of a young college student who has just stepped into society.
At this time, Guo Qilin can finally hold his head high and say: I am the second generation of stars, but I am also a powerful person.
Finally, Guo Qilin lived his life, and even his father had to rely on his popularity to promote the Deyun Society.
It is really gratifying to have this ending.