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Children, why are children so vulnerable now? Complain of depression for many years, and even take extreme ways to hurt yourself. Is it that this generation of children has become less resistant to setbacks? These questions plague many people. It wasn't until I listened to a lecture by a psychological writer that these questions were answered.
The psychological writer pointed out that children in the past also had psychological problems, but the problems faced by children at that time were mainly food and clothing and survival, and their inner problems were not paid enough attention. Today's children are relatively rich in material life, but lack inner satisfaction. This leads to a series of psychological problems, especially academically.
From an early age, our generation learned to be hardworking, to know how to farm, and to contribute to the family. This makes us understand our value in the family and develops self-confidence and a sense of worth. But today's children often have no actual responsibilities outside of studying, just get good grades, and the rest of the family is handled by the parents. This leaves children with a lack of self-identity and an intrinsic sense of worth.
To solve this problem, parents need to focus on their inner needs, not just academic performance, when raising their children. Allowing children to take on some housework, learn to take care of themselves, and understand their value in the family can help them shape a healthier psychology.
In short, children not only need love, but also feel needed. Only in this way can they be full of confidence, better cope with life's setbacks, and maintain a healthy state of mind.
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