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Today, we may no longer just see the word "Ma Bao" as a joke, but as a common phenomenon. However, no matter how we portray it, the adult "Ma Bao" plot is often complex and deep. This article will guide us through the deep dive into this phenomenon, dissecting its causes, how to help the "mommy" type partner change, and most importantly, how to love yourself in the process.
First, the different steps of psychological growth
According to a prominent psychologist, Eric Erikson, a person's psychological growth can be divided into eight distinct stages, each accompanied by a specific task of personality development. However, this psychological growth is not always synchronized with physical growth. Some people's psychological maturity lags significantly behind their biological age, which is where the "Ma Bo" plot comes from.
"Ma Bo" episodes are most common in people who have suffered from over-control or over-doting while growing up. This can lead to a lack of emotional maturity and over-dependence on others, especially their own parents or partners. This dependence is directed and manifests itself in dependence on parents or dependence on partners. As a result, they are unable to live independently and cannot process their emotions, which often negatively affects their intimacy.
Second, change the "mom and baby" partner
To help the "mommy type" partner change, we first need to make it clear that the influence of the original family is difficult to completely eliminate. Therefore, if you are clear that you need a mature, responsible, emotionally stable partner, your best bet may be not to be with a "mommy type".
However, if you decide to stay with such a partner, then you need to be patient and mentally prepared. Changing a "mommy" partner is a long and complicated process. In this process, you need to focus on the following key aspects:
Inspire independence: Encourage your partner to take on more responsibilities in life and help them gradually become independent.
Communication and emotional management: Help partners improve emotional self-control and learn to express and process emotions appropriately.
Draw boundaries in your life: Make sure your life is not swayed by the other person's dependent behavior and learn to say "no" to the other person.
Gradual acceptance of failure: When your partner tries to be independent, accept the possibility that they may make mistakes and encourage them to analyze problems and improve.
Take care of your own life: With a "mommy type" partner, you may get less care. Therefore, you need to learn to take better care of yourself.
III. Conclusion
Ultimately, whether a person can overcome the "Ma Bo" plot depends on the individual's will and effort. The partner's role in this process is to guide, support, and encourage. While the emotional growth of "mommy" couples may lag behind physical growth, they still have the opportunity to change and mature. Love is a process of growing together, it takes time, patience and understanding, and ultimately, it can help people get rid of overdependence and become more mature and strong individuals.
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