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This article is a bit long, it's all dry goods, and you must read it to the end.
The first person in pediatrics was Qian Yi, a famous doctor in the Song Dynasty.
He wrote a pediatric medical codex "Pediatric Pharmacological Certificates", which is the first systematic and complete pediatric medical dictionary in the history of the mainland.
Because children can't speak, it is more troublesome to see a doctor, and many doctors are reluctant to study in the field of pediatrics. Today, I share Qian Yi's parenting scripture that has been neglected for thousands of years, and I have an ultimate wish, that is, I hope that the flowers of the motherland will grow strongly. I also hope that mothers across the country will look carefully and carefully, and they will never have to ask questions in the future.
Newborn: Mom, you must have a good confinement
Reminder, you must not do two things during confinement: eat raw and cold, and blow the air to wither.
Many mothers' confinement diseases are caused by doing these two things, especially blowing the air conditioner, which allows the evil wind to enter the body, resulting in sore joints and unspeakable suffering. Keep warm, and key areas such as neck, shoulders, waist, and knees must not be exposed.
How to make up for it after giving birth? It should be cool before giving birth and warm after giving birth.
Note that the warm supplement is not a big supplement, a strong supplement, every day ginseng bird's nest, every day chicken, duck and fish, warm supplement is to gently replenish qi and blood. After giving birth, because of excessive blood loss at one time, when the body's qi and blood are extremely weak, the spleen and stomach are also relatively weak, and the recovery of the spleen and stomach also needs a process, so at this time, the tonic must be gradual.
It is recommended to drink millet porridge porridge oil, millet is the king of grains, and porridge oil is the essence of millet porridge, which greatly replenishes qi and blood, replenishes but does not dry. You can put some red dates and some yams.
You can also drink chicken soup, stew black chicken soup with astragalus angelica, but be sure not to be greasy, and remove the oil on top when drinking chicken soup.
In short, confinement tonic should be based on the premise that the spleen and stomach can be transported.
Now talk about the baby, the baby should be bathed after the arrival, the ancients were very particular about bathing the baby, and would use willow branches, peach branches, and mulberry branches to bathe the baby.
What are the benefits of bathing in this way, because these branches are a symbol of spring, but also means the beginning of a new life, the branches have the nature of germination, can bring out the fetal poison in the baby's body, so that the baby will not get eczema in the future.
If the baby gets eczema in the future and is not good at taking medicine, you can also use honeysuckle vine, that is, honeysuckle vine boiled water to bathe the baby.
There is another problem after the baby is born, that is, the fetal yellow, which is brought from the mother's womb, there is no need to panic, and it will generally disappear in about a week.
What if it doesn't go away or even get serious?
There is a recipe in traditional Chinese medicine that is specially used to treat jaundice, which is called Yin Chen Artemisia Soup.
Yin Chen, fried gardenia, cork, white grass root, tulip
This recipe is mainly used to treat yang yellowing caused by dampness and heat. Jaundice in babies is basically caused by dampness and heat.
Baby under 1 year old: Mom, please feed me with your milk
Babies within one year old have natural immunity, which is innate, so the disease at this stage is not the main thing, the main thing is three things.
First things first, cow's milk or breastfeeding?
Don't dwell on it, if you don't really have to, breastfeeding is recommended. Because the baby is the crystallization of the father's sperm and mother's blood, it has been in the mother's womb for a long time, and has long been accustomed to everything from the mother.
Breastfeeding is a transition for your baby to leave her mother and into this strange world, and this transition is necessary.
It's like if you stay in the north for a long time and go to Hainan coldly, there will be a problem of not adapting to the water and soil.
The same is true for babies, if milk is used at this time, it will cause both physical and psychological discomfort for the baby. It's just that the baby can't say it. And milk is a very cold thing, and it is difficult for the baby's spleen and stomach to move.
The second thing is that babies under 1 year old will have a unique physiological change, called steaming.
The so-called steaming is that the baby will undergo a change 32 days after birth, this change is obvious, every change is a growth, will bring surprises to the mother. Each baby goes through ten steaming. Mothers must remember the days when their babies become steaming.
There may be a fever when the baby is steamed, it is a low-grade fever, at this time, mothers must not panic, let alone take it to the hospital for infusion immediately, the baby is not sick, this is a normal physiological reaction to steaming.
How can you tell if you are sick or if you have a fever caused by steaming?
If the baby's mental state is very good, the ears are cold, the tail bone is also cold, and he can eat and drink, then there is nothing.
After steaming, you suddenly find that your baby will roll, sit, and teeth.
The third thing, the baby will increase complementary food after six or seven months, what should be added to the first bite of complementary food?
The suggestion is grains.
Rice cereal, batter can be, the best is millet porridge porridge oil, which is the most nourishing and the most digestible for the baby. Don't give all kinds of meat, eggs, milk, etc. for the first bite of complementary food.
The first time in life is crucial, and the baby's first bite of complementary food is crucial, which determines whether he will be picky eaters in the future.
If the first bite is meat, he remembers the taste of the meat and will not eat the grains and vegetables he will give him in the future. Once the baby is picky eater, it will be difficult to feed, which will lead to spleen deficiency and no meat.
Don't worry that not eating meat has no nutrition, this is unfounded, and grains are the foundation of raising people. A baby who eats well is much better than a baby who eats meat every day and doesn't eat.
1 to 3 years old: Mom, please take care of my spleen and stomach
The baby's illness is nothing more than two categories: one is the external feeling of six lewdness, which is commonly said to be a cold, and the other is the internal injury diet.
Internal injury diet is the focus, and internal injury diet can easily trigger external sensations.
The most important thing about the internal injury diet is to accumulate food, because the child's spleen and stomach are particularly weak, and they will accumulate food if they are not careful, so learning to regulate the baby's food accumulation at this stage is a difficult and glorious task for the mother.
First of all, it must be fed properly.
Nowadays, babies are fed by several adults, parents, grandparents, grandparents, grandparents, you take a bite and I take a mouthful, and it is easy to overfeed.
It is recommended to eat small and frequent meals, eating five meals a day, and each time it is six or seven minutes full. When the baby does not eat, you must not force the stuff, and do not scare the baby with a stick, the baby can not eat for a reason, the consequences of this simple and rough feeding are very serious.
You can imagine that when you don't want to eat, are you uncomfortable when others force you to eat? Since you are uncomfortable, why do you want your baby to bear this discomfort? In the name of love? Do you bully your baby and can't speak? This kind of food that is forced to eat is called a compressed meal, and it can't be digested after eating, and it hurts the spleen and stomach.
At this stage, the mother must learn to check the baby's stool and tongue coating, if the stool is dry and hard, sticky, smelly, the tongue coating is yellow and greasy, and there is bad breath, and the stomach is bulging, it means that there is food accumulation.
What to do at this time?
You can use Bohol Maru or Wang's Hochi Maru. If you don't have a bowel movement for several days, use fat pills.
If the baby has food accumulation and does not deal with it immediately, there will be restless sleep at night, such as crying, turning over, kicking the quilt, night sweats, etc.
At this time, you can use some bamboo leaves and rush grass to boil water for the baby to drink. Let the baby's heart fire come down. However, this is all a symptom, and the root cause must be adjusted to the baby's food accumulation.
Accumulated food can also lead to diarrhea, and undigested food must be pulled out, so Bao Ma should not take antibiotics to stop diarrhea immediately when she sees the baby's diarrhea, which is fighting against the body's self-help.
There are two kinds of diarrhea, one is acute, the stool is like water, several times a day, you can use Huoxiang Zhengqi liquid, and those who don't want to take medicine can also use Huoxiang Zhengqi pills to stick to the navel. At this time, it is necessary to drink millet porridge porridge oil, which can regulate both constipation and diarrhea.
There is also chronic diarrhea caused by spleen deficiency, that is, the stool is not formed and the stool is loose, which can be dispersed with Shenling Baizhu.
If you continue to delay and do not deal with the accumulated food, in the long run, the baby will get a disease called pediatric chancre, which is a disease that will only appear when the accumulation of food reaches a certain level.
One of the obvious characteristics of pediatric chancre is a large head, thin limbs, and a poor appetite and lack of interest in eating. This is the result of food accumulation that hurts the spleen and stomach. I used to like to eat, but now I can't even arouse my interest in eating. At this time, it is not only necessary to eliminate food and stagnation, but also to strengthen the spleen and appetize, and it is best to use children's spleen pills.
If the baby's food accumulation is not effectively treated, it is easy to cause a cold.
Because the body has accumulated heat, this is the body out of the heat, at this time the baby's body is a kind of damp heat pattern, this damp heat will cause the pores to open, the pores are opened is equivalent to opening the ghost door, the thief and evil wind will take the opportunity to enter.
At this time, there will be a double dilemma of both external sensation and food accumulation, what should I do?
There are two methods, one is to buy Baohe pills and Xiao Chai Hu granules, and the other is to buy children's treasure pills.
It is recommended to use the first one more appropriately, because the baby is easy to have a fever when he has a cold, and Xiao Chai Hu granules can solve the problem of children's liver and spleen.
What should I do if I have a fever? You can boil water with tangerine peel, bamboo ru, and silkworm sand to reduce fever.
These three medicines reduce fever quickly, and many people have tried them, and they are basically effective in one day.
These three herbs must be prepared at all times. After the fever subsides, it is necessary to replenish the righteous qi, nourish the spleen and stomach, use the Huaishan medicine to deal with the aftermath, and then drink millet porridge.
Remember, you must not take supplements for a cold, you must not eat fatty and sweet flavors, and you must wait for three days, otherwise it will trigger a cold again.
When the baby has a cold, it usually triggers inflammation of the tonsils, which is a symptom of a cold, don't worry, the cold will disappear naturally.
Do not give your child antibiotics as this can lead to long-term tonsil inflammation. It can be boiled and drunk with Houttuynia cordata, which is a natural antibiotic.
At this stage, the baby will often have symptoms of drooling and runny nose, don't worry, this is the reason for the baby's weak spleen and stomach.
3 to 7 years old baby: the baby has a little emotion, please soothe me
1 to 3 years old baby body has laid a good foundation, 3 to 7 years old to pay attention to the baby's psychological changes, according to traditional Chinese medicine, to flirt.
Because babies already know joy, anger, sorrow, longing, sadness, fear, and fright. If you don't regulate your baby's emotions well at this time, the baby will have small emotions and will lose his temper. If you don't guide it and let it go, small emotions will evolve into uncomfortable liver qi.
See if the baby's tongue is pointy, if it sticks out, it means that the liver qi is uncomfortable. If the baby is born with a sharp tongue, it means that the mother has uncomfortable liver qi when she is pregnant.
There are two extreme manifestations of the baby with uncomfortable liver qi: one is that the temper is very short-tempered, noisy, crying and yelling when he doesn't agree with him, often talking back to adults, you don't let him do what he wants to do, sometimes he will abuse small animals, bite strangers;
If these two conditions occur, you can let your child eat Xiao Chai Hu granules for a period of time.
When regulating children's emotions, mothers must pay attention to two points, do not beat and scold the child, do not suppress the child's nature, do not manage too strictly, give the child enough free space to grow, especially do not count the child when eating, this common problem many parents have, must be changed.
In addition, parents should lead by example, if the parents have a bad temper, the child will also have a bad temper, a family full of violent quarrels will directly lead to the child's liver qi discomfort, a family full of sunshine, joy, love, how can the child have liver qi discomfort?
There is another big thing at this stage, which is to guide children to read and write. Be careful not to let the baby touch the TV and mobile phone too early, and read the picture book first, read the picture literacy, and train the child's thinking.
Many parents of three-year-olds can't wait to send them to kindergarten, which has become a common phenomenon in this day and age. But if it were me, I wouldn't have sent it to kindergarten so early.
What is the most important task of a child? It is definitely not to study, it is to grow the body, only when the physical foundation is good, what can be done in the future can be smooth. Learning is only the second step.
Many parents get it wrong and desperately let their children learn this, learn that, all kinds of interest classes, piano, art, English, composition, Go, etc., hoping that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes, which is really good intentions.
But, I would say, no. The child is still a small sapling, and he can't bear so much baggage, and such a young child is worried about whether the child will have a future in the future, which is a bit too hasty.
The real interest of the child is not reported by the parents in the interest class, but slowly developed in the process of the child's growth and discovered by the discerning eyes of the parents.
Now force the child to study like crazy, and when he grows up and has freedom, he will play like crazy and get back the joy he owed when he was a child.
Another task at this stage is to remember not to give your child junk food to eat, and not to expose your child to junk food such as potato chips, jelly, and spicy bars, which have hormones and are addictive.
Also, don't drink all kinds of cold drinks like Coke and all kinds of lactic acid drinks as water, it's best not to drink them.
Some mothers will say, "Other children eat and drink, but I don't let you eat or drink, isn't it too ruthless?" If you are not ruthless now, it will break your heart in the future.
Because these junk foods will make children sick, be ruthless now, and rest assured in the future. When the child grows up and has an understanding, let him decide for himself whether to try these junk foods or not, because then he has self-control.
Well, at the age of 8, mothers can finally breathe a sigh of relief, the most important stage of the child's growth has been successfully completed, at this time, please thank yourself: thank yourself for such an excellent self for cultivating such an excellent child.
Say to the mothers of the whole country for the babies of the country: Mom, you have worked hard.
It is your sweat, tears and wisdom that have made me so healthy in body and mind! I will definitely remember your love, I will definitely love myself well, and at the same time sublimate this love into love for others and society.