57-year-old Zhou Haimei passed away, and everyone sighed, but she once said that she had no regrets in this life
Don't be sad, Zhou Haimei has already spent a life of doing her best and being open-minded and relaxed.
On the evening of December 12th, after a day, when people almost believed that it was just an oolong or a false alarm, Zhou Haimei's studio officially issued an obituary that Zhou Haimei passed away due to illness.
Yiren turned around, representing the fall of another bright star in the golden years of Hong Kong entertainment. Sure enough, our generation of old viewers has embarked on a journey of constantly waving goodbye.
Or is it because she can't relieve the complex that her youth has gone away, or because Zhou Haimei, who has just passed away, is too young, and as soon as the news came out, the whole network sighed - obviously she was fine before, so why did she leave so beautiful?
Today, even if the news of the death has been confirmed, there are still many people who do not want to believe that it is true.
So this bag wrote this article overnight, not for anything else, but to be responsible for reassuring everyone who is in a sad mood.
Zhou Haimei's departure is different from Coco Li some time ago, there are not so many grievances, grievances, anger, pain, and there are no uncertain "perpetrators", she is an optimist who does not need to be optimistic, in an interview a few years ago, she has firmly said: I have no regrets in my life, because it is very rich.
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This kind of sure satisfaction comes first of all from God's favor and the blessing of luck.
Needless to say, she is naturally beautiful, the key is that she also has a native family that is better than most.
There is not much specific information about her parents, but she once said that she and her sister went to participate in the beauty contest because her father encouraged her. It's not that they can get a chance to change their lives from a sparrow to a phoenix, so as to solve any specific difficulties in the family, but that each girl is only 18 years old, and I hope that they can preserve their precious years in a unique way.
It can be seen that her family atmosphere is more loving and open-minded.
Zhou Haimei also said that although her father was not engaged in literary and artistic work, he wrote a lot of love letters when he chased his mother.
This is a very important "clue".
Generally, family education problems are often due to putting children first, or simply using children as a bond to maintain marriage. In other words, assuming that the child is taken out, the husband and wife are basically unable to get by, and a lot of estrangement and contradictions are blocked between the two.
A family where parents love each other can provide a rich and relaxed soil for children's growth. You don't have to be burned by the eyes of 24-hour full monitoring to want to escape, but you can steadily Xi the ability to love in the loving eyes of your parents.
There is another "clue": Zhou Haimei once mentioned that when she was invited to sign a contract with TVB, her mother was strongly opposed, and compared with the "enlightened father", the mother seems to be more inclined to hold the child in her arms and block the turbid world.
From this, it can be seen that their family is likely to be a combination of "skin father and strict mother". This is a relatively common and reasonable family division of labor, the mother is responsible for caring for the calves and focusing on the internal construction of the family, and the optimistic and challenging father is responsible for laying the child's bridge to the outside world, triggering his interest in exploring the unknown and the courage to fight the wind and waves.
Without a "strict mother", the sense of security may be almost meaningless, and without the "leather father", the socialization after leaving the house may not be very smooth. And Zhou Haimei happens to have both.
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The unfortunate can use their childhood to heal their childhood, and the lucky can use their childhood to heal their childhood.
Sister Zhou's "initial configuration", not to mention that she was born in 66, many children born in the 10s are afraid that they will not be able to have it, not to mention those female stars who debuted at about the same time, some of them have been divorced since they were young, and some of them are working with large debts, either lack of money or love, in this case, it is not reasonable at all not to take a few detours after entering the circle.
And a girl like Zhou Haimei, who had a good start, entered the industry as a teenager and took the fast track to a rising career, which seems to be the same logical.
Her career luck is really good, and her first debut drama is the star-studded "Yang Jiajiang", including but not limited to: Tony Leung, Andy Lau, Huang Rihua, Miao Qiaowei, Tang Zhenye, Tao Dayu, Wang Mingquan, Carina Lau...... There are old drama bones, and there are also talented peers, to say that as a newcomer, she has no pressure to designate it is fake.
Zhou Haimei has said more than once that she was a blank sheet of paper at the time and didn't understand anything, so she chose the "stupidest way", watching movies one by one alone, making up for her homework little by little, just to make herself grow and not lag behind. Therefore, good luck is only one aspect, enough hard work and a good attitude to face difficulties make her qualified to catch good luck.
"Intolerable Love", "No Regrets in This Life", "Truant Weilong 3", "Heaven and Dragon Slayer", "Big Trouble Guangchanglong", "Heaven and Earth Pride"...... From the 80s to the 90s, the dramas were filmed one by one, and her popularity also rose step by step.
It is worth mentioning that the heroine of the MV of "Kiss Goodbye" is Miss Zhou. It was 93 years, she was 27 years old, wearing a short skirt with two hips, a white silk scarf around her neck at will, bright and charming, full of charm, not to mention the young schoolmate at that time, anyone who saw it would be confused, right?
With the gradual decline of TVB, Zhou Haimei also stepped into the journey to the north at the beginning of the century, although she could not continue the glory of the past, so that all the departments could play the leading role and the departments could explode, but she was still acting one by one and never stopped moving forward.
There is a saying that the harder you work, the luckier you get. As for Zhou Haimei, she actually belongs to the type of "the luckier, the harder, and then the luckier", even if there is no starlight, at least she has the happy satisfaction of making love, how can it not be considered another kind of luck?
As she herself said, I have played so many roles and experienced so many lives, where are the regrets?
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But hard work is hard work, diligence is hard work, and Zhou Haimei does not have the kind of boring and bitter feelings of life at all, on the contrary, she is very casual, very free, and her smile is super infectious, like a big sister next door who enjoys the moment.
Can you believe it? As a dignified female star, she is actually a foodie. She cooks different soups in different seasons, adds sugar and milk to her morning coffee, eats spicy cabbage and stir-fried white rice, and likes to be a regular eater at the bustling food stalls......
When the host showed surprise on her face, she replied with an even more incredible expression: "Why can't the food stalls eat?
The host asked again: "Don't you have to control it? Aren't female celebrities all eating rice and noodles?"
She replied, "I've controlled it, but I'm getting fatter!"
Sister Zhou, unlike those female celebrities who are only willing to take a shallow bite and set up a foodie persona, when it comes to food, her pupils are really dilated, the corners of her mouth are raised, and when it comes to cooking, she can really tell a lot of details. For "eating", an important part of her life, she is really enjoying it with her heart, probably because the happiness in it is too abundant, and her slightly rounded body almost does not reveal a trace of appearance anxiety.
Then about marriage and love, Sister Zhou has always been casual.
was married once, not long after Yu Ganghong, he and Lu Liangwei, because they did not understand the procedures for registration abroad, in fact, the two never became a legal husband and wife, and even in form, they were married for a year and then divorced.
Regarding the reason for the divorce, she once euphemistically said that it was a personality incompatibility, probably because the other party was older than her, and always wanted to take care of her and guide her, which made her feel constrained.
Yes, machismo, "always trying to teach you something", has nothing to do with character, but is just a "typical symptom" of being disciplined by traditional gender. But Sister Zhou is not a traditional woman, she said that she is a boy's character, strong, temperamental, and disobedient.
may have discovered in time that based on the understanding of men and themselves, they may not be so suitable for marriage, so they have never stepped into marriage since then, and they have thought about having children, but when they are older, they naturally let go of this demand.
is still talking about love, and publicly shared the sweet daily life with her seven-year-old programmer boyfriend, when it comes to holding hands and still feeling electrocuted, her face also shows the shyness of a girl.
It can be seen that after breaking through the shackles and not being trapped in "how it should be" and "how it must be", she is really pleasing herself.
suddenly thought of the "relaxation" and "female power" that public opinion has been keen to advocate in recent years, and many celebrities have also used relevant personalities for marketing, and our Ms. Zhou Haimei has long been a pioneer in this regard quietly and unhurriedly.
It's hard for you to see the obsession, hard work, and drill horns from her, and sometimes she even makes a little confusion, but this is her greatest charm, both the wisdom of grasping the key points, the brightness of moving forward happily, and the courage to stop losses in time and the freedom to let go.
Therefore, in this 57-year life trip, she did not miss the surrounding scenery because she was too attached to anything, nor did she continue to suppress her self-will because she was accommodating others or catering to certain external standards.
Then let's wish her all the best once again.