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Preface
Ask everyone a question, do you think you are happy in life?
Or if you were given a chance to choose, would you be willing to go on this world again?
In this regard, in 2023, a girl with the online name Orange and Lemon has resonated with countless people with a nine-second short video!
In the next life, never again!
Just eight words, but quickly made millions of people cry about it, so what's going on?
In the next life, never again
If you want to choose the most popular online language in 2023, then this sentence should be in the top 10.
And the source of this contemporary quote is a short video.
In the short video, we can clearly see a girl wearing a mask, with empty eyes and a depressed expression sitting alone on the subway.
We can't know what happened to this girl, or whether it was the high-intensity work of 996,007 that made this supposed young and beautiful girl numb to life, or whether it was unemployment, or lost love, which made her feel that life was meaningless.
Anyway, in that moment, she collapsed.
She mustered up the last courage, left the moment of her collapse, and said the words that made countless people feel sad and cry:
In the next life, never again!
This is a short video with only nine seconds in time, and there is no sad music, and even the tone of these eight words is so calm,
However, once it was released, it quickly gained millions of followers!
The reason is very simple, because many migrant workers also see themselves in her.
Our education always tells us that we should be strong in life and face life's setbacks with a smile.
However, day after day, high-intensity work has made us lose our ideals, and setbacks again and again have made our future beautiful and shattered again and again.
Will we really be able to laugh out loud?
Although many netizens are in the comment area, they encourage people who are in trouble by posting their frustrations and life experiences.
However, can this bad life really be changed for the better by the change of our mentality?
Anxious times
The era we live in is indeed the best in history.
Yes, yes, there is no doubt about it, after all, living in the 21st century, we in China do not have to worry about the threat of war, nor do we have to worry about poverty caused by material scarcity.
In terms of living standards alone, our generation is enough to make all our ancestors for thousands of years envious.
But why is it that our conditions are already so good, but it is becoming more and more difficult for us to feel happy in this era?
As a post-90s generation, I have some opinions.
I used to think that as long as I studied hard and Xi, I would be able to have a bright future.
However, unfortunately, the place where I am located is Henan, and how difficult is the college entrance examination in Henan, needless to say, born in Henan, how difficult it is.
In the end, my grades could only barely get up to two.
However, at this time, I still had infinite expectations for the future, but when I graduated, things completely exceeded my expectations.
Because of the average conditions of my family, my parents couldn't help me find a job, and I didn't have much to say about it, but fortunately, my ability was not bad, and after a few interviews, I successfully joined a high school.
After that, I almost got depressed!
I knew the eight-hour workday was a joke, but what I didn't expect was that the school would be so frustrating!
At five o'clock in the morning, we teachers have to get up and patrol the campus, yes, we teachers are also responsible for patrolling.
In the words of the school leaders, this is to prevent accidents for students.
After supervising the students to finish the morning exercise and read in the morning, we teachers still have to follow the students to the cafeteria to prevent students from quarreling during meals.
Then it was time for the class, and in addition to preparing for the class, we teachers were forced to stay in the class for another five minutes after class and wait until another teacher came to the class before leaving.
Yes, that's right, there must be a teacher sitting in the class for ten minutes between classes, and those teachers who are not in class are not allowed to be idle, and they must stand guard in their fixed positions five minutes before class to monitor students at any time.
As for the students going to bed when they go to bed, that's also the job of us teachers.
Of course, monitoring is inevitable, and our teachers have to take turns to sit in the monitoring room, and catch violators in front of the video of the students in each class.
To be honest, I really don't understand, is this a school or a prison, and why does the school leadership have to keep the students under the teacher's surveillance 24 hours a day?
This is a high school school, and high school students even eat and sleep have to be monitored by teachers around the clock, isn't this a bit too much?
In addition to the endless monitoring of students, the various operations of the school leaders also made us tired.
The small meeting of the conference at every turn knows that what is being said is, but it still has to listen to what kind of learning task Xi time from time to time, so that we, the teachers, have a little spare time to deal with the leaders.
Yes, in most people's minds, aren't we teachers just a few classes a day? What's so difficult?
Please, even in the most conservative case, one teacher teaches two classes, one class has 60 students, and one assignment a day, that's 120 assignments!
Coupled with weekly exams, monthly exams, lesson preparation, and class research, the teacher's own work is really not as idle as you think.
However, the school is not the end of the wrong people.
Since my school is a private school, they really trampled labor laws under their feet!
Needless to say, I am a main subject of teaching Chinese, a teacher, responsible for the teaching of two classes, four main classes a day, and two evening self-Xi.
But the monthly salary is only 3,500 yuan.
If you deduct the food, utilities and housing bills paid to the school, there will only be 2,500 left.
But that's not the most infuriating!
The most infuriating thing is that the school really treats us as teachers and leeks!
When there were few teachers, they tried their best to let us work, and when we recruited a few new teachers, because the school contract stated that the salary was increasing year by year, they would try their best to get rid of us old people.
Under normal circumstances, they will deliberately stop our classes, and then, let us only have a basic salary of 1,500 yuan per month, stay up with us, and wait for us to leave on our own initiative.
As for why don't you just drive them away? Hehe, I'm worried that we're going to sue them with the contract!
After half a year in this shabby school, I almost got depressed!
It was during that time that I suddenly understood that in this era, it is so difficult to find a suitable job.
And no matter how hard you work, you may be fired by the boss at any time and become unemployed!
For a moment, I wanted to lie down, but could I lie down?
Suffering people
I remember that some time ago, there was a news article in "People's Daily", struggle is the background color of young people, and it was on the hot search.
In this article, perhaps to encourage young people to struggle. The reporter also cited a thief and his wife who sold fried skewers and said that they could earn 9,000 yuan a day through their own struggle!
In this regard, there is a lot of scolding on the Internet, and the reason is very simple, because the person who wrote this copywriting is probably used to being high, and he doesn't know how uncomfortable it is for the bottom people to live?
With high housing prices, jobs that can be fired at any time, and increasingly unbelievable marriages, it is really difficult for young people born in the 90s to find a stable future unless they have rich and powerful families.
This is also why in recent years, the post-90s generation has become more and more fond of taking the exam, not because they don't want to go out of their own way in the struggle, but they can't afford to lose!
Young people no longer believe in the so-called success myths, and even the fact that hard work, which was once held as the truth by an unknown number of people, can get rich, is increasingly resisted by young people.
Because we have really worked hard in the 90s, we have worked hard to study and learn Xi under the earnest teaching of our parents and teachers, and after entering the society, we have also believed in the boss's painting of one big cake after another for us, and believe that we can have an ideal life by relying on our own hard work.
But after our efforts, except for a very few lucky people who can eat those flatbreads, the vast majority of people can only be reduced to donkeys on the millstone.
Oh no, we are not as good as those donkeys, at least those donkeys are really not able to work, and they will be killed and eaten later, and we can be laid off at any time.
Before the epidemic, many older generations liked to stand on the moral high ground and say that the post-90s generation was the beat generation, saying that they did not know the blessings in the midst of blessings.
Yes, in their opinion, no matter how hard your post-90s life is, can you still be more bitter than their generation?
But after an epidemic, those post-80s and post-70s who are high up in the top have also collectively broken their defenses, for no other reason, because they are bankrupt!
In 2022, the number of people in debt in China will be close to 800 million, and 15 million of them will be forced by banks because of mortgage problems!
Well, now you don't have to blame anyone, because everyone has become poor.
All of a sudden, countless people are full of confusion and anxiety about the future.
Many people are reflecting on how we have lived like this, why are we always so tired and anxious in our lives?
Can't we really live a more relaxed life?