This year, the fan group with the strongest "combat effectiveness" in the mainland has appeared.
However, I am not a fan of traffic idols.
I'm not a fan of 85 Flowers.
Rather, it is the "aunt" fan of the big Internet celebrities.
A few months ago, Xiucai's fans aroused heated discussions on the whole network.
With their collective strength, they have turned Xiucai into a top elderly player in short videos.
Recently, Dong Yuhui's "mother-in-law fan" has been pushed to the forefront again.
The cause was Dong Yuhui's "small composition" incident.
Some time ago, when I was cooperating with the tourism bureaus of various provinces.
Dong Yuhui will read a specially written essay every time, so that he quickly gets out of the circle and is sought after.
This was supposed to be a good thing, but it turned into a Rashomon.
At first, Dong Yuhui claimed to have written it himself.
But the official editor responded that it was created by the team together, and also accused himself of being abused by Dong Yuhui's fans.
"But there are always so-called fans who, in the name of love, stir up trouble back and forth, and even cyberbully our editor. 」
caused Dong Yuhui's fans to be pushed to the forefront.
It wasn't until Dong Yuhui came out to explain that the "small composition" was created by himself and the team.
The turmoil has not subsided.
Dong Yuhui's fans are still labeled as fan circle culture.
In addition, most of these fans are middle-aged and elderly women, who claim to be "mother-in-law fans".
was also ridiculed by Dong Yuhui, "My mother usually likes you, but now you look at the comment area, saying this makes people feel so cold, my grandma, my grandma likes you." 」。
Among them, a gray-haired mother-in-law fan also responded to the controversy.
This has made the emotional needs of middle-aged and elderly women hotly discussed again.
Recently, a new drama interprets the emotional needs of middle-aged and elderly women from another perspective.
Today, we're going to take a look at it –
"Thousand Faces Gyurou"
Alphonse
The cast of this drama is strong.
starring Jean Dujardin, he is the first French actor to win an Oscar.
The performances in "The Artist" have left a deep impression on many domestic fans.
And the plot of this drama is a collection of cheating, threesomes, teacher-student love, mother-son indecent love......
There is also a father who took the initiative to be a "bustard" and introduced his son to the work of a cowherd.
Catch the horse to the extreme.
What's the story?
The male protagonist Alphonse is middle-aged, but he has achieved nothing.
The 23-year marriage has long since exhausted love.
The relationship with his wife is more like a roommate.
The content of the communication is only work and housework, and there will be no love words.
Even applauding love is a pre-programmed procedure.
Lay out clean sheets in advance, and follow the posture, time, and steps that have been strictly stipulated before.
Abandoned by his mother since he was a child and raised by his father, Alphonse has been fantasizing about the scene of his mother bathing him in his childhood.
Obviously, he didn't enjoy the intimacy with his wife at all.
Alphonse also lost his job.
He was a salesman who sold luxury watches.
But once, when selling, he accidentally let the gang snatch a watch worth millions.
He was unable to compensate and could only be dismissed by the company.
And because he made a major mistake, no company in the industry wants him anymore.
In this situation, Alphonse not only lost his life, but also could no longer afford to pay his mortgage.
This is actually the same as the 35-year-old crisis for many people in China.
The root is a money word.
At this time, he happened to learn that his father had a heart attack due to excessive consumption of Viagra, and he could no longer work as a lucrative cowherd.
Alphonse saw an opportunity in it.
So, I hit it off with my father, transformed my sloppy image, and took over the customers that my father had accumulated for 30 years.
It can be said that the son inherits the father's business in another sense.
Throughout the process, Alphonse welcomed customers all elderly women, the youngest of whom was 65 years old.
And he is like a fish in water, mixing better and better, but he has also experienced more outrageous things.
有母子不伦恋。
When picking up customers, Alphonse often only connects with customers by phone, not knowing the real identity of the customer on the other side.
And it just so happened that at this time, his biological mother, whom he hadn't seen for decades, happened to come back from abroad, and she also wanted to experience the excitement of a cowherd and called him.
So, without knowing it, Alphonse began to date his biological mother, kissed, and almost went further......
And threesomes.
In the process of being a cowherd, Alphonse's early departure and late return have attracted the attention of his wife, and his true identity has been discovered.
So, once, he was caught by his wife pretending to be a customer.
But unexpectedly, the wife did not get angry and did not make a big noise.
Instead, Alphonse and the female companion she brought with him had a threesome.
It turned out that his wife had already cheated on her mentally and found out that she liked girls.
So I chose to make it clear to Alphonse in this way.
I have to say that this drama has refreshed Xiangyu's perception of the Cowherd.
Alphonse doesn't just provide core services.
You also have to cosplay with customers.
Sometimes it's a fiancé, sometimes it's a language teacher, sometimes it's an officer who has returned victorious......
It is also necessary to have professionalism and not let customers play.
He has to be tough when faced with customers who like to be domineering presidents.
If you speak in a gentle tone, or help customers with housework, you will be complained about and will not receive a commission.
And these fantasies aren't just flirtatious and eye-catching gimmicks.
Behind this, it is actually focused on the emotional needs of older women.
Historically, many people have assumed that older women have no emotional needs and are prejudiced against them.
will only open a yellow tone and ask them if they have a boyfriend in a mocking tone.
Even many cowherds looked down on them and were very contemptuous.
Take the experience of hosting older women as your own talking point.
In reality, the nature of Dong Yuhui's "small composition" controversy is also similar.
Many people misunderstand Dong Yuhui's success as the success of "small compositions", and think that what everyone likes is just a talented image of exports.
But it ignores the emotional needs of the fans behind it.
They don't just like "small compositions", but also take Dong Yuhui as a role model and like the inspirational characters behind it.
Under the circumstance that the transformation of New Oriental was not optimistic, Dong Yuhui survived in a desperate situation, and led the company step by step to become the top stream.
Alphonse's reception of older women shatters that stereotype.
Most of them have experienced unhappy marriages and have had tragic experiences.
Some found out that their fiancé was cheating on their sister and chose to marry their sister.
Because of this, she has a very low self-esteem and feels that she is inferior to her sister in everything.
Some have no relationship with their husbands for a long time.
But because of the gangster background of her husband's family, she could only be forced to be together.
She also has to endure her husband's alcoholism, domestic violence, and cheating.
And after so many misfortunes, they still have an abundance of emotional needs.
So, find Alphonse, either relive the sweet first love and make up for the regrets of love, or dissipate the pain of betrayal and let the betrayed fiancé propose to her.
More typical, the story of Adele, an elderly woman.
She never forgets her Chinese teacher in middle school.
When she was young, she once boldly pursued and invited a Chinese teacher to come to her home for Xi.
But I didn't expect that the Chinese teacher already had a wife and didn't respond to her love.
And when Adele was angry, she tore her clothes and wronged the Chinese teacher for sexual harassment.
After that, she actually realized her mistake, told the truth, and wrote hundreds of letters of apology.
But to no avail, the Chinese teacher was still expelled from the school.
This became a knot in her heart.
So, he kept asking Alphonse to pretend to be a Chinese teacher and date her.
Atonement over and over again in this way.
From this point of view, the appearance of the cowherd in the play is like a different kind of hospice care, taking them to mend the broken moments in their lives.
In the Dong Yuhui incident, there is also a controversy about the fan circle culture.
Many "mothers-in-law" have already put Dong Yuhui on the altar.
not only analyzes the small composition verbatim, but also praises Dong Yuhui in a fancy way.
It even rose to "Dong Yuhui is a gift from God to the world".
Previously, Xiucai was also caught in this kind of controversy during the closure incident.
Many fans also show their love in fancy ways and show off their talents.
This is of course a fan mentality, but it has become an outlet for the emotional release of older women.
It's like in the play, an elderly woman.
After discovering that her husband was cheating, on the one hand, she missed the happy life with her husband before cheating.
So, she still pretends that her husband is at home, chats with her husband's photos, sends bouquets, and repeatedly watches her husband's favorite programs......
On the other hand, she could not forgive her husband and said to the public that she was dead.
Alphonse was also hired to pretend to be her husband.
Watching TV, choosing vegetables, eating dinner, reading books, sleeping......
This brought her great comfort.
And after her husband's real prodigal son turned back, admitted his mistakes, and moved in with her.
It stands to reason that she got what she wanted, and she was finally able to fulfill her wish for a lifetime, but she found that something was wrong.
Not only does he not like his current husband, but he also can't tolerate it.
will dislike his yellow teeth and the sound of eating and chewing.
And what I like from beginning to end is the perfect cowherd who satisfies his fantasies.
He took the initiative to make an appointment with Alphonse.
Alphonse's appearance gave her the power to rebel.
But this drama does not deify people, blindly advocating the cowherd.
It is true that the cowherd is the perfect fantasy object for older women.
But they are not salvation for older women.
When it comes to feelings, they are essentially businessmen's mentality.
In the face of the death of a customer who has served for many years.
Alphonse's father just sighed, and then urged Alphonse, who had not yet come out of the pain, to pick up the guest.
When faced with a delirious Alzheimer's patient, he will take the opportunity to charge more money a few times.
In reality, it's like a showman.
It seems to meet the emotional needs of older women, but only for the money.
not only uses the model of "online reward, offline dividends" to deceive fans to reward, but also shameless.
While singing the song "I want medical bills", he asked for gifts from fans.
At the end of the day, their emotional connection with older women is fast-food and not precarious.
As soon as there is a stir, it will disappear completely.
And the older women in the play are obviously aware of this and do not let themselves fall into emotions.
It's a textbook practice.
She knows the boundaries of her feelings and maintains this relationship above friendship and unfinished lovers.
Nor did he deify Alphonse.
When Alphonse went to the cowherd shop to perform, he only called to encourage him and asked Alphonse to kiss him.
In the final analysis, the rice circle of praising gods and killing gods is not an antidote for elderly women.
Only by living in the present moment and redeeming oneself can one seek a way out.
As Alphonse puts it:
"I've met a lot of people who live in the past, but at the end of the day, all they want is to love the present. 」
That's precious.