The love story of Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan took place in a program recording group twenty years ago.
At that time, Gao Hongliang was just a little fresh meat, and he was playing the role of "Jia Lian" in the drama "Dream of Red Mansions". He was born with a peugeot face, and his deep eyes revealed a bookish atmosphere, which often attracted the hearts of countless girls.
However, Gao Hongliang's heart has never had waves, he has been waiting, waiting for a woman who has a heart with him.
Until one day, a woman named Hu Yan appeared. She is the makeup artist of the crew, three years older than Gao Hongliang, with a mediocre appearance, but she is gentle and demure in her gestures.
When Gao Hongliang saw her for the first time, he felt that this woman was a good match for him. So he began to take the initiative to approach Hu Yan, and went to her every day to put on makeup and talk.
The two unexpectedly fit and soon fell in love.
At first, the people around them were not optimistic about their "sister and brother love". Gao Hongliang's mother strongly objected to her son finding a girlfriend who was three years older than herself; Hu Yan's friends also persuaded her to give up, how could she take care of a boyfriend who was three years younger than her and looked outstanding.
However, Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan proved with their actions that "when love is strong, there are no years". During the filming, Gao Hongliang often asked his roommate Ouyang Fenqiang to accompany him out on a "date" to hide people's eyes.
Ouyang Fenqiang is also happy to be the "light bulb" of this young couple.
Gao Hongliang was later admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and needed to leave Hu Yan to study in Beijing for four years. The two places are thousands of miles apart, and this young couple who have just entered a relationship can be said to have encountered the first big challenge.
At first, Gao Hongliang was so busy adapting to the new environment and learning Xi acting skills with his classmates that he often forgot to contact Hu Yan. Hu Yan could only silently wait for Gao Hongliang's phone call or text message, day after day.
By the time Gao Hongliang finally remembered to call her to say hello, it was already a month later. Hu Yan didn't blame Gao Hongliang, but his eyes were red on the other end of the phone.
Later, the situation improved, and Gao Hongliang would often take the initiative to chat with Hu Yan. But most of the time, it is Hu Yan who takes the initiative to maintain this relationship. She will continue to send thoughts and encouragement to distant Beijing, and visit Gao Hongliang regularly.
Once, Gao Hongliang was having dinner outside the school with a few friends, and saw Hu Yan's familiar figure from a distance.
"Wife, why are you here!" Gao Hongliang stepped forward excitedly and hurriedly introduced Hu Yan and his friends. Friends laughed and quipped, "We finally met the girlfriend you've been talking about for four years!" At that moment, Hu Yan understood that Gao Hongliang had always taken her to heart, and he was sincerely happy and relieved.
The four-year long-distance relationship made the two experience the sadness of separation, and also more deeply realized the joy of reunion and the preciousness of love. It is precisely because of these trials and sorrows that the tree of affection between Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan bore fruit, and later entered the palace of marriage after graduation and began a happy life as a two.
After marriage, Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan lived happily. Soon, they welcomed their first child, a young princess who had become a sperm. However, the good times did not last long, Hu Yan needed to return to school to continue his unfinished studies, and had no choice but to entrust his young daughter to Gao Hongliang.
"Don't worry, go to class, and I'll take care of our daughter!" Gao Hongliang volunteered to take full responsibility for taking care of his daughter, and took the initiative to put down the work at hand.
At first, Hu Yan also asked Gao Hongliang to hire a nanny to help, she was afraid that her husband would not be able to bear this heavy burden alone. But Gao Hongliang refused, believing that he could do a good job as a "full-time dad".
Sure enough, Gao Hongliang used his careful care and warm companionship to create a soft and comfortable environment, so that the little princess who was just 5 months old could eat and sleep well in the hot summer, showing a good growth trend.
During this period, Gao Hongliang put down his body and specially learned how to tie beautiful pigtails for his daughter.
"Dad looks better than the hair he tied up for me!" One day, the little princess "disliked" her mother Hu Yan's braiding skills were not good enough, and Gao Hongliang's professional level satisfied her.
When Hu Yan heard her daughter's evaluation on the side, she was sincerely proud and happy for Gao Hongliang.
In fact, Gao Hongliang's family also strongly opposed him finding a girlfriend who was 3 years older than him. However, the bits and pieces of these years have completely changed Hu Yan's family's view of Gao Hongliang.
This man can not only take care of his daughter, but also has a deep affection for Hu Yan and takes care of him. He is the most perfect other half of Hu Yan's life.
Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan's sister-brother love road
The falling cherry blossoms add a bit of romance to this sibling relationship. This year, Gao Hongliang starred in the role of Jia Lian in the TV series "Dream of Red Mansions" under the recommendation of Beiying's teacher.
In the crew, Hu Yan served as the chief makeup artist, she was three years older than Gao Hongliang, and her appearance was not stunning and moving, but her facial features were upright and delicate.
When Gao Hongliang saw Hu Yan for the first time, it was like being hurt by the sharp edges and corners of the iceberg, and a strange and delicate feeling emerged. He went to Hu Yan's dressing room every day, looking for an opportunity to see her.
Hu Yan's gentle and lovely personality also fascinated him, and Gao Hongliang fell into the sweet trap of love at first sight.
Gao Hongliang took the initiative to pursue Hu Yan and sent his heart. However, how can it be so easy, the relatives and friends around are not optimistic about the two being together, thinking that this is an unreasonable sibling relationship.
"You are still so young, don't be confined to a tree, how can a good youth have time to waste on this kind of relationship. They persuaded Gao Hongliang like this.
Gao Hongliang was very conflicted in his heart, he understood how sincere his feelings for Hu Yan were, but he also understood that the advice of his friends was for his own good. This tangled mood tormented Gao Hongliang, and he envied the freedom of the birds.
Finally, on a spring morning when the cherry blossoms were falling, Gao Hongliang mustered up the courage to confess his heart to Hu Yan. Hu Yan blushed and agreed to be together, Gao Hongliang excitedly picked up Hu Yan and turned around, and the laughter of the two of them melted into the beautiful sunshine.
At this moment, Gao Hongliang realized that love can be so sweet and happy.
Gao Hongliang was busy with his studies, and Hu Yan waited silently
After Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan were together, Gao Hongliang was admitted to the acting major of Shanghai Theater Academy. In order to devote himself to his studies, Gao Hongliang reduced his contact with Hu Yan.
Hu Yan understood that Gao Hongliang had to concentrate on his studies and had no complaints. She would often call to greet Gao Hongliang about his recent Xi life. Hearing Gao Hongliang's excited tone on the other end of the phone because of his successful performance, Hu Yan was also sincerely happy for him.
During the winter and summer vacations, Hu Yan would take the train to Shanghai and give Gao Hongliang some small surprises. Gao Hongliang was busy shopping with Hu Yan, chatting and chatting while drinking lattes in the coffee shop.
This everyday, but extraordinarily beautiful picture, often lingers.
Once, Gao Hongliang invited Hu Yan to attend a classmate's birthday party. A group of people were singing at KTV, and after three rounds of drinking, Gao Hongliang suddenly opened the conversation box and confided in the people present his increasingly deep friendship with Hu Yan.
Hu Yan was embarrassed when he heard his confession, but he was also moved by Gao Hongliang's sincere love.
Love is like a bottle of wine brewing slowly, the longer it goes, the more mellow it becomes. The relationship between Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan is also sublimated in the gap of time and space, extending to a deeper and firmer future.
After Gao Hongliang graduated, the two entered into marriage
After Gao Hongliang's four-year drama major Xi in college, he has grown into a fairly mature and stable man. His relationship with Hu Yan has been precipitated over the years and is as strong as a rock.
The two decided to officially enter the palace of marriage.
At the simple and timeless wedding, Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan exchanged rings and swore to become a legal husband and wife with the blessings of relatives and friends. Hu Yan, who was three years older, looked bright and moving when he wore a white wedding dress for the first time, and Gao Hongliang's heart was stirring.
After marriage, life is plain but warm, Gao Hongliang does not need to travel for filming, and often stays at home to accompany Hu Yan. However, the good times did not last long, and Hu Yan became pregnant unexpectedly. The two of them were pleasantly surprised and began to look forward to the arrival of this new life.
The moment his daughter broke out of the cocoon, Hu Yan's tired face was filled with happiness. Gao Hongliang stroked his daughter's tender little hand and vowed to protect his little family.
In the blink of an eye, his daughter is five months old, Hu Yan needs to go back to Beijing to make up for classes, and Gao Hongliang volunteered to take care of the baby full-time at home.
Gao Hongliang walked with his daughter to the park during the day, learned various scientific parenting methods, and tried every means to make his daughter happy. The daughter poked out her little tongue and giggled at Gao Hongliang, and Gao Hongliang's heart became sweet.
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Today, Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan have been married for ten years, have both children and live a happy life.
Ten years have left some traces on the couple's faces, but it has also added a bit of charm to them. Gao Hongliang still teases Hu Yan from time to time, and the shyness and joy of young people still sprout between the clear hair of the two people.
In his spare time, Gao Hongliang would drive Hu Yan and the children out for a walk, go to the cinema to watch blockbuster movies, or have a picnic in the park. Hu Yan and his daughter were on the lawn, and Gao Hongliang was holding his son and enjoying the warm picture of his family.
Many years ago, relatives and friends were not optimistic about Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan, who was three years older, but Gao Hongliang never gave up, and he and Hu Yan have been walking hand in hand all the way to this day.
Now that he has a successful career and a happy family, it can be said that he has risen to the top and successfully seized his own happiness.
Once upon a time, Gao Hongliang was also hesitant about this sister-brother relationship. Now he has completely walked out of this misunderstanding, because Hu Yan is by his side to support each other.
Many years ago, Gao Hongliang found that Hu Yan was the most dazzling scenery on his life path.
The story of Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan has become a good story, encouraging many couples who have encountered similar situations. One day, the two received dozens of thank-you letters, and the envelopes were postmarked from all over the world.
Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan looked at each other and smiled, seeing the same pride and relief in each other's eyes.
Perceptual analysis, the way to the success of Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan's marriage
The marriage between Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan can be described as ups and downs, and finally bore fruit. The analysis of their successful marriage is mainly based on the following aspects:
First of all, the two chose to listen to their hearts and not be tied up by external public opinion. "The insight of the world is all knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article. In the face of the skeptical voices around them, they are neither humble nor arrogant, and firmly follow their own judgment.
This detachment from the world and the spirit of independence laid a solid foundation for the relationship between the two.
Secondly, Gao Hongliang is willing to temporarily snub Hu Yan for the sake of his career, and Hu Yan can also understand and support. did not complain, but stood in the other party's position to understand. This mutual trust and tolerance are essential qualities for a long-lasting marriage.
Again, after marriage, Gao Hongliang generously shared housework and childcare, and took the initiative to give up his job to become a full-time father, so that Hu Yan could pursue his ideals lightly. Such an excellent cooperation model brings endless motivation to the family and enhances the relationship between two people.
If Gao Hongliang is not considerate and active, it is difficult for Hu Yan to be as light as a fish in water.
In the end, ten years of companionship allowed the two to form a deep friendship, overcome the difficulties of life, and welcome the fruits of happiness. Gray hair is a true portrayal of their life community.
The sweet bits and pieces accumulated over time have created a legendary love story.
Throughout the life experience of Gao Hongliang and Hu Yan, inner independence, mutual understanding, cooperation and symbiosis, and perseverance are the four pillars of the successful marriage of this golden boy and girl.
Maybe everyone can't be flawless, only by staying true to each other can we achieve eternal happiness.