Preface
There was once a kind-hearted man named Xiao Ming who was always helpful and eager to help others solve their problems.
His kindness and dedication make him a shining star in the community. However, Xiao Ming didn't know that some help could have unintended consequences.
01 Busy one: Do things for others
One day, Xiao Ming's friend Xiao Fang came to ask him for help writing a college paper. Although Xiao Ming knew that this was immoral, he was moved by his friend's plea and agreed.
He spent weeks of time and effort helping Xiaofang complete an excellent thesis.
However, when the paper was submitted, Xiao Ming did not receive the expected thanks, but was instead accused of being irresponsible and dishonest. His image in front of others has also been questioned as a result.
02 Busy two: Lend money to others
Another time, Xiao Ming's relative Xiao Hua borrowed money from him to start a business. Out of family affection that blood is thicker than water, Xiao Ming is not hesitant
Yudi lent Xiaohua a large sum of money.
However, as time went on, Xiaohua did not return the money on time, but became more and more evasive. Xiao Ming's help put him in financial trouble and also led to strained relations with relatives.
03 Busy three: Solve disputes for others
Once, Xiao Ming's neighbor, Xiao Li, had a dispute and needed legal assistance. Although Xiao Ming didn't know anything about the law, he felt that he could help.
He is willing to go to the court to defend Xiao Li on behalf of him, hoping to resolve the dispute. However, during the trial, Xiao Ming was not well prepared and lacked legal knowledge, which resulted in more trouble for Xiao Li and even led to his defeat.
Xiao Ming's ignorance makes him feel very remorseful, and it also breaks down his friendship with his neighbors.
summary
These stories show us why helping others can lead to bad luck. First of all, it is possible to do things for others
It can damage your image and credibility and even be accused of unethical behavior.
Second, lending money to others can lead to financial hardship and damage relationships with friends and family. Finally, resolving disputes for others can lead to more trouble and even harm others because of your ignorance.
In life, of course, we should be helpful. But we also need to be wise about when helping is beneficial and when it can have negative consequences.
Remember, "doing others a disservice and getting lucky" doesn't mean we can't help others, but we need to be careful about how and where we can help.