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It is a painful question why children are not so close to their parents when they grow up. When we were growing up, our parents were always the closest people to us. However, over time, many children gradually drift away from their parents, and even contradictions and conflicts arise.
So, why do children grow up to be intimately related to their parents? This question has also been troubled by many netizens, who have expressed their hearts in the comment area!
When children grow up, they may leave home to go to college, work, or start their own families. As time goes on, there will be less and less contact between the child and the parents
Children are in adolescence, and parents should be aware of their children's thoughts and feelings. Regular family gatherings or dinners, as well as regular phone calls, texts or video chats, are great opportunities to bond up.
As the old saying goes, if you marry a daughter-in-law, you forget your mother, and in most families, this is true
It shows that with their own ideas and thoughts, they are slowly growing up and maturing
It makes sense, although it is said that raising children does not want to reciprocate, but as a parent, there is still something to look forward to
Raising children is indeed different, most girls grow up to be more sensible and considerate than boys
It is inevitable for children to be naughty and mischievous during the rebellious period, so in the face of incomprehension and backtalk, try not to take it too seriously, and when they grow up and become sensible, they will definitely know how to be filial
Accompany them, respect them, and let them grow up in a loving family, and they will naturally become a person who knows how to love
After raising your son, you must learn to let go and let him explore the world on his own and maintain his family. Parents can't always be by their children's side, they need to learn to face life's challenges and difficulties independently.
When a man starts a family, the focus of his life may shift to his small family, and he may have less contact with his parents. Trivial matters such as work, children, and housework may make life busy, but it is already good to be able to take care of your family, not let your parents worry about it, and be able to contact once a month
As a parent, you should accompany your child to grow up well, and when he grows up, he should also choose to let go in time
Boys should be independent from primary school, and when they grow up, they will be better able to adapt to the future living and working environment, and to cope better with challenges and difficulties.
It's true, my son is a sophomore in college, and he feels farther and farther away from me, and he is a little uncomfortable at first, but slowly I figured it out. He has his own life and his own ideas, which I must accept, as a mother, I only want him to be happy, healthy and free, I hope he has an independent personality, and he is a real responsible person. That's enough.
Don't want the child's return, just hope that he will live a safe and healthy life!
As a parent, have you reflected on whether the original family has made your child feel love and life guidance, otherwise when the child grows up, he will indeed not have love and attachment to his parents
This is a normal phenomenon in every family, just cherish the moment and live well!
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