Why is the mistress more emotionally stable than his wives,
The basis for them not to be arrogant or impatient is not to win.
It's that Xiao San doesn't love cheating men at all, and he doesn't care if the cheating man loves her.
Xiao San doesn't care, he doesn't dwell on these, but works hard for his own purposes.
She doesn't have any emotional waves, she doesn't get caught up in emotions, and she is naturally easy to dominate the situation if she is calm all the time.
Like a third party that Jiaxin had contacted before, she came to ask Jiaxin how to get rid of the entanglement of a cheating man.
This junior is a habitual junior, and it is not the first time she has been a mistress for a married man.
Her goal is also very clear, she doesn't want to cheat on a man's relationship and marriage at all, she just wants money.
The junior is not very reckless, what kind of cheating man he encounters, he will be with this man.
She also picks targets, and this junior is a good proof of that.
The target of this junior is that he seems to have a good relationship with his wife.
In fact, I've long been tired of my wife.,It's also very attentive in private.,I like men who flirt everywhere.。
This man has to be rich, and he spends his money lavishly.
In this way, the mistress can get money from the cheating man, and it is easy to get out when he wants to get out.
After all, many cheating men are rich, but they are not willing to spend money on the mistress.
Because it is a temporary freshness for Xiao San, there is no real feeling at all.
I'm not a generous person myself, so even if I cheat, I will be careful.
How much money is spent on the mistress, the mistress has to return how much, otherwise the cheating man will feel very lost.
So Xiao San will look for men who are very generous and like to spend money everywhere.
They also like to be very attentive themselves, because they are easy to start and easy to develop extramarital affairs.
will not pester the junior because he wants to break up, but will quickly find another target.
This kind of junior is actually very sober, they have a very clear positioning of themselves, that is, a third party who wants money.
When wives encounter this kind of mistress, the solution is also very simple.
It's that if you control the cheating man, the mistress can't get the money, so he will naturally leave.
Don't tear the mistress, don't inspire the mistress's fighting spirit.
If you have to tear up the mistress, you don't care about the man's cheating at all, and you feel that it's all the fault of the mistress.
The revenge of the junior is too ruthless, the junior has a deep hostility towards the original match, and has lost a lot, if he wants to take revenge on the original match.
Then she will pester the cheating man, not only asking for money, but also using the cheating man to stimulate his wife.
This is what many juniors will do, so wives must understand the mistress, analyze the mistress, and solve it in a targeted manner.
In addition, the existence of this kind of junior also tells the wives that it is a very important thing.
It's that you can't love cheating men too much, you find out that you have been cheated on, even if you can't break off love, you have to control your feelings.
Why can Xiao San quit when he says quit, and quit when he gets what he wants.
has been a junior many times, and they have not paid any price, and the very important reason is that they will not be trapped by love.
The mistress doesn't love cheating men, and mistress doesn't care if cheating men love her or not.
As long as there are no emotional factors, the mistress can deal with the cheating man and the original wife very calmly.
What sweet words the cheating man says, the junior can be indifferent or cooperate.
Xiao San is not moved, only if the cheating man is tempted, Xiao San will be able to handle the cheating man.
The wives find the mistress, and the mistress will also have to fight with his wife for who wins and who loses because of cheating on the man.
Xiao San can also directly give up the extramarital affair, in exchange for his wife to leave her a way out.
Therefore, if you can handle a cheating man in an extramarital affair, and when you want to quit, you can also divorce decisively.
If wives can also do it, they don't face men's cheating from an emotional point of view.
Instead, weigh the pros and cons, analyze the cheating man and the mistress, and then solve it in a targeted manner.
You will find that extramarital affairs are actually not that difficult to solve.
Most mistresses and cheating men actually use their wives' feelings to be able to handle their original wives.
Wives don't have that deep affection, and you have one less huge weakness.
You can also think rationally and soberly, and use your interests to control the cheating man and the mistress, and the extramarital affair will naturally be easy to solve.
Extramarital affairs that you can't solve,
It's not because of how deep the cheating man and the mistress love.
How scheming and calculating the junior is, how obsessed the cheating man is.
It's because of the state you show that you are easy to be bullied and even slaughtered.
The cheating man doesn't feel the need to be too sad about his wife, he just needs to be chic.
Xiao San doesn't feel that he needs to care too much about the original partner, and the original partner won't do anything anyway.
So they were arrogant and derailed, leaving the original partner alone to wash their faces with tears, and they had to ask why.
Cheating is the problem of the mistress and the cheating man, and the extramarital affair cannot be solved, because the wife is not firm enough.
Only when you do everything can you have an answer, and if you don't do it, you will always struggle in the problem and can't get out!
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.