In a small town, there is a family, grandparents and their son, daughter-in-law, and two grandchildren. The family used to be harmonious and happy, but as time went on, an inevitable family dislocation began to brew between them.
1. Introduction to the current situation of the family
The grandparents are named Cheng Renhua and Li Ying, and they live with their son Cheng Yunhua, daughter-in-law Wu Yulan, and two grandsons Cheng Haoyu and Cheng Lingtian. Cheng Renhua and Li Ying have passed their sixtieth year, but they are still flexible and love life. Cheng Yunhua and Wu Yulan are a small couple who love each other very much, but their family life is not satisfactory, because Cheng Renhua and Li Ying's attitudes towards their two grandsons are very different.
2. Raising grandchildren
Cheng Renhua and Li Ying love their granddaughter Cheng Yuxuan, she is a cute and lively little girl, whether it is eating or dressing, grandparents will take special care of her. However, Cheng Haoyu and Cheng Lingtian never felt the same love, and they were always ignored by their grandparents.
Grandparents feel that girls should be pampered, so they take extra thoughtful care of Cheng Yuxuan, but they are very cold to their two grandchildren. Although Cheng Haoyu and Cheng Lingtian felt this, they didn't know how to express their dissatisfaction, so they could only endure it silently.
3. The situation of the grandson
Cheng Haoyu is an introverted child, he wants to get the attention of his grandparents, but he doesn't know how to fight for it. Every time he saw Cheng Yuxuan receiving special care, he felt a little sour in his heart, but he was helpless. Cheng Lingtian is a lively and active child, he is very dissatisfied with the partiality of his grandparents, but he does not dare to express it directly, so he can only complain silently in his heart.
4. The growth of a granddaughter
Cheng Yuxuan grew up in this family and was taken care of by her grandparents, so she has a cheerful personality and is loved by everyone. Although her coldness towards her two older brothers sometimes causes conflicts, she doesn't care because she feels that as long as her grandparents like her, it is enough.
5. Barriers to communication
Lack of effective communication between family members leads to the inability to release emotional grievances. Cheng Renhua and Li Ying take their preference for their granddaughters for granted, while Cheng Yunhua and Wu Yulan believe that their two grandchildren should be taken care of equally. As a result, there is tension and contradictions in the family, where everyone is defending their position, but no one is able to really understand the other.
6. A shift in thinking
By chance, Cheng Renhua and Li Ying realized their mistakes, and they began to reflect on their actions and try to change. They understand that every member of the family should be treated with equal love and respect, otherwise it will cause emotional breaks.
7. Repair family relationships
Cheng Renhua and Li Ying sat down and had an in-depth communication with their son and daughter-in-law, listening to each other's feelings and needs. They decided that from now on, every member of the family would be treated with the same love and attention. Cheng Haoyu and Cheng Lingtian also realized their mistakes, and they decided to work hard to change themselves from now on and win the attention and recognition of their grandparents.
Eventually, the family regained their way of living in harmony and everyone understood the importance of family and the responsibilities of each person in the family. They decided that from now on, they would work together to create a more harmonious and happy family.