As the time of going to the household is getting longer and longer, many aunts will inevitably talk about some parents after getting acquainted with their employers and getting closer to each other, but in the process of communication, some aunts do not know what to say and what not to say, and they are often apprehensive in their hearts, for fear of leaving a bad impression on their employers, and are often in a state of mental tension.
In the process of communicating with the employer, what can be said and what can not be said casually? Let's learn together today~
One
When the aunt is in the household, even if she is familiar with the employer and trusts each other very much, she must not complain at will, complain about this, complain about that, and complain about her own life at every turn. We must know that employers invite aunts to work at home to reduce the burden on the family and take care of the family, not to ask for an aunt who is releasing negative energy anytime and anywhere.
Therefore, it is recommended that aunts try not to show their negative emotions at work, and it is okay to communicate with employers occasionally, but don't talk too much about their personal affairs, which will also cause some trouble to employers.
Two
When the employer asks about your previous job, your aunt should not feel that the relationship with the employer is so good that you can talk about everything, such as the family affairs of the previous employer or some favors to you. After all, often the speaker has no intention, the listener has a heart, and what employers need is a down-to-earth aunt, not a person who likes to talk nonsense.
It is recommended that aunts do their own work and the things explained by their employers, occasionally listen to their troubles, do not talk about right and wrong, and be sincere and practical in order to be recognized by employers.
Three
If your aunt's job is found through a housekeeping company, don't talk to your employer about the housekeeping company and say bad things about it.
When an aunt criticizes the housekeeping company to her employer, it may also mean that she is not a reliable aunt, after all, the aunt herself was recommended through the housekeeping company. When you go to the house, your aunt's own work performance is very important, and only when the employer can see your work ability and skillful work skills, the employer can rest assured and satisfied.
Four
The last point, the aunt is the most taboo to comment on the elders in the employer's family behind her back, the older generation has the thoughts of the older generation, don't talk to the employer about the problems of the elders in the family. If the elders disagree with you, remember to discuss with your parents at this time to avoid getting involved in conflicts at home.
Especially for the aunts who are confinement ladies and nurseries, employers invite you to come to the house, more to take care of the mother and baby.
It is recommended that aunts sort out their job responsibilities clearly when they go to the house, do their own things well, do not let themselves be involved in the rights and wrongs of the employer's family, and communicate with the employer in time if there are any problems.
Have you learned all of the above?In the process of work, have you summarized the "pits" that need to be avoided in the process of communicating with employers?Welcome to share your views in the comment area~