was split before marriage and cheated after marriage, is there a problem with this kind of woman?
Everyone has a flaw, and if you are afraid of it and avoid it, it will always be your flaw.
Only by facing it and overcoming it will it not become an obstacle to your progress.
Previously, an original partner who was cheated on came to Jiaxin and told her about her situation.
Less than three years after she got married, her husband cheated twice.
The first time even crossed the stage from love to marriage.
is that the man had an affair with the mistress before he got married, and he has maintained a relationship since he got married.
It's not a long-term cheating, and I don't have any feelings for the junior.
Xiao San also has a boyfriend himself, and he is also talking about marriage.
The cheating man and the mistress are just having fun, and they don't want to leave their respective partners together.
After this extramarital affair was discovered, the cheating man quickly broke off with the mistress,
The cheating man said that it was just a fluke, plus the temptation of excitement.
thought that he would not be discovered, that he would not hurt his wife,
He has always sworn that he loves his wife the most, and he never thought of hurting his wife.
and the mistress are all accidents, they are all uncontrollable, and they can abandon the mistress for the sake of their wives.
This original partner chose to forgive, and there is no special reason.
I just love this man, and I feel that this man loves her more than the mistress.
The man is just cheating physically, not mentally, and he can live if he is clean,
Easy forgiveness must be exchanged for another betrayal, and this original partner is a typical example.
Her husband cheated again, a woman she met on the Internet,
At the beginning, it was also occasionally rushed, the frequency was not high, and the original match was not found.
But then the junior resigned, ran over to find the cheating man, and rented a house near their house.
There are a lot of fools around with cheating men and mistresses, and it's hard for the original partner not to find out.
After the extramarital affair was discovered, the cheating man continued to cheat with the mistress while perfunctory the original match.
This original partner really can't accept it, and it can't be solved, so he will come to Jiaxin and ask how to solve the extramarital affair.
When this original partner was confiding, he said a sentence that attracted Jiaxin's attention,
She said that she didn't know why she was so unlucky, and she was very serious about every relationship.
It's also true love for the other half, all kinds of good, never done anything bad,
But every one is cheating, cheating, or having an affair with another woman.
Even if you forgive, you won't be grateful, and you will still cheat again,
Only when they are really separated, the man may turn back,
But once the original partner forgives again, he still faces the crisis of being cheated.
She doesn't understand why, is it wrong to love someone? Should he be betrayed?
This situation of the original partner crying is obviously that it is not the first time she has been cheated,
Her husband is not the first man to betray her, and she even ends every relationship with a man cheating,
If this is the case, she needs to find the real reason from herself.
What is the real reason why this and the original partner are easy to be cheated on? Jiaxin summarized three points.
The first point is that she is too easy to get into a relationship.
is that even if she is cheated on, she is very sad and painful, and she will not have a long window period.
She is very in need of feelings, without love, she can't stand it if she is not in love.
It may be that the previous paragraph did not recover and was invested in the next paragraph.
This kind of pain, and the previous experience with the incumbent, is easy to be derailed.
Because a man may think differently from a woman, he will not feel that you are so pitiful, he will cherish you.
He will feel that if others treat you so much, you will forgive, and if he treats you so much, he will also be forgiven, and it will be easier to cheat.
The second point is that this original is equipped with some love brains.
If she loves a man, she will love it wholeheartedly and leave no way out for herself.
Like after marrying this man, she has no way out of guarding against a man's cheating.
The bride price money has long been spent on the cheating man, and the money earned is also posted in the marriage.
even took the initiative to start preparing for pregnancy, without thinking about what a man should do if he didn't love him.
The more she does this, the more she pays for marriage, and the more the cheating man feels that she can't do without marriage.
If a man cheats and a woman doesn't divorce, there is no price for cheating, and he will naturally dare to cheat more.
The third point is that there are no basic principles and bottom lines for extramarital affairs.
She has always thought that as long as a man loves her more,
Occasional physical derailment, as long as you break off with Xiaosan, it can be forgiven.
It's not just in this affair that she chose so,
In the previous relationship, it was the same, it was not a matter of choice, it was a matter of her principles and bottom line.
If you don't have principles and bottom lines, others will naturally trample on your principles and bottom lines.
Many women are scum-sucking physiques and are easy to meet scumbags.
It was not after they got married that they encountered cheating for the first time in their marriage.
Instead, he started to fall in love, and he met a man who was not very peaceful.
For example, some men who like all kinds of flirting girls on the Internet and have no sense of boundaries in real life.
Another example is the overture to other women, and the men who don't refuse are all scumbags.
When a woman meets once or twice, it may be that you meet someone unladylike,
But if every time you come into contact, fall in love and marry such a man,
You really need to find some reasons from yourself, you must have some shortcomings,
You are easy to attract scumbags, and you have not reflected on the reason,
is the real reason why you were cheated before you got married, and you still suffered cheating.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.