In medicine, 45 to 55 years old is called menopause, and at this stage, there will be great changes in physiology and body, such as immunity to diseases, endocrine system, nervous system, cardiovascular, etc., all of which will decline. So this stage is a fragile stage in life, which is not well managed and can easily be attacked by diseases. Don't make three mistakes at this stage, and the rest of your life will be fine. Everyone's tasting.
One, don't fight against life.
It is not easy for women in this life, and the current society requires too much from women, which makes it even more difficult for women to live. It's not an easy life, so don't embarrass yourself. Don't fight against life, learn to be lazy.
I know a beautiful woman whose husband is not retired yet and her children are in graduate school. has a good life, but she has a mess because of the competition.
Her mother-in-law has two sons and two daughters. Her mother-in-law is more partial to the old and young, and ignores them. I brought her a two-month-old child and charged her. The demolished houses all fell under the name of the brother-in-law. She was angry and complained, but her husband was silent.
But ten years later, my mother-in-law had dementia and didn't recognize anyone. The brother-in-law arranged a family for half a year. She disagrees that the property who gets the old man. As a result, the brother-in-law sued the court with a complaint. The mother-in-law had to come to her house. With resentment, anger, and depression all day long. Subsequently, he developed a severe breast disease.
In fact, she is out of bounds, her husband's mother, let her husband take care of her, and she doesn't have to kidnap herself morally. Don't fight against life, first of all, no matter what you encounter, calm down first, then wisdom will be born and problems will be solved. Otherwise, the work will be done, the grievances will be suffered, and the sin will be bad. Everyone said that this is not the case.
Second, don't toss around.
Aging is a natural law and cannot be manipulated by humans. In fact, we can't control our bodies. For example, how much enzyme the liver secretes, how much insulin the pancreas secretes, and even the brain's subconscious, we can't change it. Therefore, in the menopausal stage, we must first accept the aging of the body in our hearts. Otherwise, you will suffer.
I watched a video of a beautiful woman who didn't want menopause in order to prolong her period. I have eaten a lot of foreign health care products. The result is ovarian cancer. After the age of 50, artificially manipulating hormone secretion will cause great harm to the body.
To use an analogy, if you look at the autumn crops, after they are ripe, watering still can't change the outcome of the autumn harvest.
We are the same, when we reach the age of menopause, menopause is the law of nature, just let it be. Now that the nutritional supplements are in place, the aging will not be too fast. Don't add to it.
Three, don't lose your temper.
People's luck is always good when they are happy. So don't lose your temper, let alone make yourself angry, that won't make you look better and better, but will make it difficult for you.
I have a friend my age who is grumpy and crying during menopause. Emotions are out of control at every turn. Her husband understood her very well at first, and then began to avoid her. I don't come home from work and hide in a tavern to drink.
After a long time, her husband had a mental derailment. Often holding the phone and giggling. When she found out, she was even more crazy and tossed. Crying doesn't stop. They divorced a year later.
is in her fifties, and she only woke up after the divorce that she pushed her husband out of the house.
In the menopausal stage of women, they have a short temper and are aggrieved, which is normal, but they need to be self-healed. No one can replace you. No one will pay for the aging of your body.
At this stage, love yourself, heal yourself, and cherish yourself, just don't transfer bad emotions to your family. Then the fortune of the family will be reduced. Not conducive to healthy solidarity. Do you approve of it?
I am Sister Mi Li, a post-70s generation who loves to share, I like to share, remember to like and support to show encouragement. Thank you!
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