Hyperactive children just disobedient?
In the outpatient clinic, many parents have their own opinions and questions about ADHD. Some parents asked, "Will a child with ADHD grow up to get better on his own?" Some parents said: "My child is just disobedient and unruly, and as soon as his father beats him, he is obedient." ”
Hearing this, we feel that many parents have misconceptions about ADHD and feel sorry for these "special" children. Today, we've summarized some common misconceptions about children with ADHD for parents.
One. ADHD is caused by the environment
Many parents mistakenly believe that ADHD is caused by their child's mischievous behavior or a poor family environment. But in fact, ADHD is caused by a child's brain development that is somewhat different, leading to behaviors like inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity.
In fact, this problem with brain development can affect a child's learning, socializing with friends, and daily life.
Therefore, parents should understand that ADHD is not intentional for children, but there are some changes in their brain structure. As a parent, you should fully understand and tolerate your child.
Two. Is hyperactive children just lack discipline?
Many mothers have reported to us that dads will hit their children. Despite this, the children are still very respectful of their father, but they are a little confrontational with their mother and do not behave very obediently.
The fathers of these children think that "the stick makes a talent", and they think that beating and scolding can make the child well-behaved. Especially for those children with ADHD, they may be quieter for a while for fear of being hit. However, parents often mistakenly believe that this is because of a lack of discipline or control over their children's behavior.
In fact, ADHD is not just a behavioral problem. It has to do with how the brain regulates attention, activity levels, and impulse control. Children with ADHD often have difficulty concentrating, they may be overactive, and they are easily impulsive.
These traits are beyond normal children's performance and can affect their daily life and learning. These symptoms are not because the child is undisciplined or unable to control themselves, but because they have specific problems with certain brain functions.
Three. Can ADHD be corrected by scolding?
ADHD is not a problem that can be solved by strengthening discipline or imposing punishment alone. ADHD is actually a neurodevelopmentally related disorder. Children with this condition often show difficulty concentrating, being impulsive and hyperactive.
These symptoms are not just because the child is undisciplined or has behavioral problems. To treat ADHD, you need to use a comprehensive approach:
For example, behavioral therapy teaches children how to manage their own behavior and improve their concentration and self-control. Medications, with or without stimulants, to help your child manage symptoms; In addition, the support of the family is also very important, and the understanding and support of the family can help the child with ADHD to correct the ADHD symptoms more effectively.
Four. ADHD heals on its own when it grows up
Many parents are hopeful that when their children grow up, the symptoms of ADHD will go away on their own. It is true that some children experience a relative reduction in ADHD symptoms as adults. But it's important to know that ADHD is actually a neurodevelopmental disorder that can last a lifetime.
Even as adults, these symptoms may be present and may interfere with school, work, and interactions with others. In adulthood, ADHD symptoms can manifest as varying degrees of inattention, impulsivity, and hyperactivity, all of which can affect daily life.
So, even adults with ADHD may still need treatment and support to help them better manage their symptoms and live a better life.
Tips
If your child has symptoms such as inattention, irritability, and procrastination in the early grades of primary school, it is important to take your child to a children's specialist hospital for examination as soon as possible. The sooner the intervention for ADHD, the better.