John Lennon once said,
"When we are struggling with life, life has left us."
When people reach middle age, the quality of life is actually more important to themselves.
But looking at most people, their lives are becoming more and more chaotic, even more and more confused, and more and more chicken feathers.
Facing the pressure of life, the troubles of work, and all kinds of problems that need to be dealt with by themselves, will push the lives of middle-aged people into a corner.
But no matter what, God will never open up to you because your life is difficult.
When a person reaches middle age, the more difficult and painful it is, the more he must live a more sober life and see life more clearly.
Then, know that the most precious thing that belongs to you is time.
Finally, slow down, calm down, rest well, and set off on your journey.
In this way, you can become more and more capable and strong, to grasp the present, to create a better future.
01
Slow down and wait
In fact, many things are not rushed, and it can even be said that the more beautiful things are, the more you need to be patient.
After all, there are a lot of things that need to be waited for a long time.
If you are in too much of a hurry, you will not get what you really want, or even lose it sooner.
This makes it easier to develop a habit of anxiety and become more and more unable to think about it.
I once read a sentence: "There are no truly happy people in this world, but they can think about it." ”
When people reach middle age, learn to slow down, don't compete with themselves, and don't worry about others.
What you should do well, no matter how big or small it is, you must be serious and responsible, and treat it well.
Even if you miss something, don't blame yourself, and don't deny yourself and hurt yourself at every turn.
Rabindranath Tagore said:
When you cry about missing the sun, you also miss the stars.
There is no perfect process in life, only a heartfelt experience.
A lot of times, the beauty of life is that we never know what will happen in the next second.
However, we can rely on ourselves, step by step, bit by bit, sweat, and the spirit of struggle to exchange for the people we want.
Writer Sanmao said:
"People and things in the world come and go at their own time. We just need to cultivate ourselves to be the best we can be, and then wait quietly. ”
When people reach middle age, the more they face a difficult life, the more they should calm down, slow down, patiently polish, cultivate themselves, and temper silently.
In the end, we just need to be patient and wait for the good results to come to us.
02
Life is not easy, learn to relax
When people reach middle age, there are old and young, and there are many troubles in between.
So, don't create more pressure on yourself for no reason and bring unnecessary troubles to yourself.
Life is already very hard, and it is not easy for you to persevere and face it bravely.
So, don't deny yourself at every turn, you're not as bad as you think.
However, you can't have the idea of getting by, and don't be too naïve and naïve.
After all, there are still some stresses and worries in life, and if we don't face them, or even give up on ourselves, it will only make your life more unreliable.
A truly strong person, even if he is middle-aged, can take a relaxed posture, relax his mood, and move forward relaxedly.
As Bi Shumin wrote in "Loose as Ash":
"Be loose like soot. Only by relaxing will the full potential energy be released and you will be able to achieve perfection. ”
Don't be impatient, calm and calm, learn to relax, don't be too tight.
Many times, the stronger your obsession and the more thoughts you have, the harder it is to indulge yourself.
When people reach middle age, they have experienced enough things, and they actually think of a lot of truths.
Therefore, you should let yourself grasp the present moment and treat the rest of the time well, so that you can let your heart have a certain balance with it in the fast-paced society.
As the writer Jiang Xun said:
"The most beautiful life is not a life that is constantly accelerating, but a life in which speed is balanced between acceleration and slowness.
When we find the balance between fast and slow, we will probably explore the rhythm of our own life. ”
When people reach middle age, slow down, calm down, and find a balance between fast and slow.
In this way, you can dig out the true meaning of life, find the truth of life, and explore the rhythm of life that suits you in the process of slowing down.
Slowly you will find that you have become better and happier.
03
When people reach middle age, slow down
Really powerful people, never in a hurry.
A really good life is slow enough.
Only in the process of slowing down, a person can understand himself better and touch human nature more thoroughly, and then he will know that slowing down life is the best state of life.
Because in the process of slowing down, there are fewer distractions, fewer desires, and fewer worries.
Then you can really rely on yourself, live more freely, and even be more comfortable and comfortable.
As Zhuangzi said:
"Don't stay in things, don't get stuck in your heart, don't mess with people."
In this way, it is simple, relaxed, not trapped in love, not confused.
Relying on oneself, you can also slow down, and when you reach middle age, you will not be confused and miserable, but live more soberly and more freely.
Finally, slow down, accumulate experience and wisdom, gain confidence and success, and you will feel more satisfied in your life, live a more down-to-earth life, and feel more meaningful and happier.