On the evening of September 23, 2018, the 5-year-old grandson of Cao Moumin from Handan City, Hebei Province, came to his wife, Li Yingru, and said, "Grandma, I want to defecate my stool." ”
Cao Moumin was in a bad mood after drinking, and said casually: "Get out."
Daughter-in-law Wang was very unhappy when she heard her father-in-law say this, so she quarreled with her father-in-law.
When Cao Moumin quarreled with his daughter-in-law, he was dragged to his house by his neighbor Cao Yuxiang to dissipate his anger. An hour and a half later, Cao Yuxiang sent Cao Moumin home. When Wang saw his father-in-law coming back, he quarreled with his father-in-law again. Cao Yuxiang felt that the contradiction between the two sides could not be resolved that night, and suggested that Cao Moumin and his wife go to live with relatives first to avoid the intensification of the conflict.
The reason why daughter-in-law Wang has a big opinion about her father-in-law is because her father-in-law scolds her every time she drinks wine, she thinks: "You are a father-in-law, why do you always scold me and let me go!" Why did you let me go, I didn't live with you. ”
Afterwards, someone asked Wang: "How can you get rid of your in-laws?" ”
After Wang's younger brother Wang Moubin heard about this, he thought that his sister's personality had been slandered and was very excited. He contacted Cao Moumin several times and sent a WeChat message saying: "This matter must be solved, or I will go to your unit to find you." ”
On the third day, her mother-in-law, Li Yingru, went home. Wang's parents came to their daughter's house to quarrel with their mother-in-law, dropped Li Yingru's mobile phone, and smashed the large-wall mirror of their in-laws' house with a water cup. He threw the quilt on the ground and stomped on it.
On June 18, 2019, Cao Moumin and Li Yingru moved home. At 2 p.m. on June 20, Li Yingru went home and found that the courtyard door, the cupboard in the house, and the wardrobe mirror had been smashed again, so she went to the police station to call the police. Li Yingru came back from the police station and called her son Cao Moujie and said, "I suspect that this is what Wang Moubin did. ”
On the evening of June 20, Cao Qimin worked the night shift. At about 9 o'clock in the evening, Wang Moubin came to Cao Moumin and quarreled with Li Yingru again, Wang Moubin pushed Li Yingru and accused: "Your husband shouldn't scold my sister, and he shouldn't help take care of the children." Tell you, I smashed the door and glass of your house. ”
At this moment, Cao Moujie called his mother, and Li Yingru said: "Your brother-in-law Wang Moubin is making trouble at our house." ”
After a while, Cao Moujie returned home, quarreled with Wang Moubin for a few words, and then started fighting, Cao Moujie cut a kitchen knife on Wang Moubin's neck. After Wang Moubin was injured, he ran out of the door, Cao Moujie chased him to the door of villager Wang Yunliang's garage with a kitchen knife, and Wang Moubin fell to the ground because of his injuries.
After Li Shuying learned that her son Wang Moubin had an accident, she immediately rushed to the scene, and Wang Moubin was already unconscious. Li Shuying cried and asked, "Who beat my son like this?" ”
Cao Moujie said: "It's me." He knew someone had called the police, so he stopped and waited.
At about 10 o'clock that night, Wang Mousuo learned that his son had been killed, and came to Cao's house to set a fire, causing the north and west houses of Cao's house to be burned down.
After the incident, the Wu'an Municipal Court held that Wang's arson endangered the person, health, property and other public safety of unspecified people, and considered that he committed the crime of losing control of his emotions after his son was killed, and sentenced Wang to 4 years in prison.
On July 20, 2020, the Handan Intermediate People's Court sentenced Cao Moujie to death for intentional homicide. After Cao Moujie appealed, the Provincial High Court held that the facts of Cao Moujie's intentional homicide were not completely clear, revoked the first-instance judgment, and remanded the case for retrial. On November 23, 2021, the Handan Intermediate People's Court again sentenced Cao Moujie to death for intentional homicide. The results of Cao's appeal were not reported by the media.
This is a typical case of homicide and arson triggered by a trivial family matter after the conflict between the father-in-law and the daughter-in-law, due to the accumulated grievances that could not be resolved, the parties could not resolve the conflict rationally, and used improper methods to aggravate the conflict, resulting in one person being killed, two people being tried criminally, and two families suffering a heavy blow.
In this case, the immoral behavior of father-in-law Cao Moumin who drank and cursed was the cause of the conflict. Some people like to drink alcohol, but they lose their morals when they are drunk, or they swear, or hit others, or have other immoral behavior. The relationship between the father-in-law and the daughter-in-law is inherently sensitive, and Cao Moumin often scolds his daughter-in-law after drinking but can't control it, which is the cause of the conflict. This cautions people who love to drink that if they know that they have drunk immorality, they should abstain from drinking, control their drinking, and avoid situations that may lead to conflict.
Daughter-in-law Wang deliberately intensified the conflict with her father-in-law, which was the direct cause of this case. Judging from the facts of the case, Wang was well aware of his father-in-law's drunken scolding, and under normal circumstances, his daughter-in-law should take the initiative to avoid contact with her drunken father-in-law. In particular, the grandfather casually scolded his grandson for the word "get out", which will not cause damage to the daughter-in-law's personality. The correct approach is to give reasonable opinions after the father-in-law sobers up and suggest that the father-in-law correct it, instead of arguing with excuses.
Especially when his in-laws came home after leaving home for more than an hour, Wang should not provoke an incident and quarrel with his father-in-law again. Under the persuasion of neighbors, after the in-laws took the initiative to temporarily live away from home to digest the contradictions, Wang should not exaggerate his father-in-law's mistakes to his bad-tempered brother and father. There is a saying in China that "a virtuous wife and a husband have few misfortunes", and if you change it, it means "wives are crazy and husbands have many misfortunes", and this matter has once again been fully confirmed.
Wang's younger brother Wang Moubin is the focus of the deterioration of the incident, and the contradiction between his sister and father-in-law is not an irresolvable contradiction, and this kind of family trivial matter can be resolved through their own review and communication. When the younger brother is not allowed to make irresponsible remarks about trivial matters between his sister and his father-in-law, he should not take the wrong way to exacerbate the conflict. After Wang Moubin smashed his sister's in-laws' property, he went to the door at night to provoke the root cause of the bloody case.
Wang Moubin sent a message to Cao Moumin to threaten, which can only exacerbate the contradiction, but cannot solve the contradiction. Especially after Cao Moumin ignored him, Wang Moubin's practice of smashing things at the door was the direct catalyst for this bloody case. After Wang Moubin smashed the Cao family's belongings and got angry, he should have stopped avoiding the contradictions, but after he learned that his sister's in-laws moved home, he once again came to the door to create an incident and started with his sister's mother-in-law, which was the direct cause of the bloody case and arson.
What is even more tragic in this case is Cao Moujie, who learned on the phone that his brother-in-law with a bad temper came to his house to have an argument with his mother and did something, and he should call the police in time to deal with it. However, he slashed Wang Moubin with a knife to stop the attack, which was actually intentional homicide. The facts of the case show that this knife was newly bought by Cao Moujie, and although he explained that the purpose of buying the knife was to replace the kitchen knife at home, his behavior of slashing at Wang Moubin with a kitchen knife fully conforms to the criminal characteristics of intentional homicide. It's just that after he learned that someone called the police, he waited for the police at the scene, which was a voluntary surrender and could be punished lightly. But the court sentenced him to death twice, and there may have been other reasons for this.
Another tragic figure in this case is Wang Mousuo, who, after learning that his son was killed, retaliated by setting fire to Cao's house, although it was an emotional out-of-control crime, he must also bear criminal responsibility. In this case, Wang Mousuo and his wife's deliberate going to their in-laws' house to smash items occurred before the bloody case, which shows that the tortious behavior of Wang Mousuo and his wife was also one of the inducements for Cao Moujie's intentional homicide.
Through the analysis of the whole case, it can be seen that although Cao Moumin in this case has a thousand ways of being drunk and immoral, Wang, Wang, Wang, and his wife have a common cause of fault in this case, that is, being too "impulsive".
Impulsiveness, mostly refers to the act of acting recklessly and without thinking about the consequences. In life, there are many cases of crimes and even vicious crimes due to personality impulses, and each crime caused by impulses has been painful. So the phrase "impulse is the devil" makes sense. Those who have read this must remember:
Impulse is the devil, and impulse follows when it comes to trouble;
Impulsiveness is the devil, and the image of many years is ruined for a while;
Impulsiveness is the devil, anger hurts the body and liver and intestines;
Impulsiveness is the devil, forbearance and calmness are precious;
Impulsiveness is the devil, be cautious in words and deeds and do not regret it;
Impulsiveness is the devil, and it is not dangerous to abide by the legal person!