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In April 2021, a news titled "Zhang Lijun gave up her life to give birth to a child, and her husband quickly remarried a year later" quickly fermented on the Internet. This little bit of spark like a spark soon turned into a raging cyber violence.
All kinds of remarks have poured in, and there are even rumors that Han Shijun has passed on the child he had with his late wife Zhang Lijun to his cousin. For a while, public opinion was in an uproar, and the scolding of Han Shijun was overwhelming.
Cyberbullying has seriously impacted Han Shijun's life. As a person who once showed his unswerving devotion to his wife in the documentary "The World", how can he be embarrassed to be so violently abused now? He was extremely painful in his heart, but more of a disturbance and self-blame for his deceased wife.
Zhang Lijun asked him before her death to take care of their children. Now, the child has suffered such online violence, and Han Shijun feels that he has simply failed his wife's advice.
His heart ached, and his eyes couldn't help but moisten.
Before going out in the morning, he would imprint a deep kiss on his wife's red lips and let her bathe in warmth all day; At noon, he would tease a few witty words to open up Lijun's heart; When they come home at night, they will snuggle up next to each other on the soft sofa and share each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows. When he fell asleep, he would take his wife into his arms and place blessings on her jade-like forehead.
Everything is so sweet and happy, they got married after three years of love, and after less than a year of marriage, Zhang Lijun became pregnant. Han Shijun is even more considerate to his wife, coming and going in the wind and rain, picking her up and going to work on time every day; He took care of all the trivial things in the house, and as long as his wife spoke, he would immediately deliver what he needed; At every prenatal checkup, he was closely by his side and became his wife's most solid backing.
Zhang Lijun's life is as sweet and comfortable as soaking in honey, but fate is jealous of her happiness, when she was five months pregnant, doctors found a malignant tumor in her body - advanced pancreatic cancer.
This terrible diagnosis was undoubtedly struck by lightning in Han Shijun's heart, and his wife's life entered the countdown.
The doctor's recommendation is to induce labor first and then remove the tumor. But this proposal was resolutely rejected by Zhang Lijun. As a mother, she can't let go of this long-awaited child in her womb, which may be the last hope in her life.
"If you want me to induce labor, then I'd rather choose to jump off the building and kill myself!" Zhang Lijun said, her tone was full of determination.
Faced with his wife's determination, Han Shijun was helpless, so he had to choose to compromise. So, Han Shijun resolutely quit his job, sold his marriage house, and began the long journey of accompanying his wife to fight cancer.
At the end of 2015, Zhang Lijun's health was already in a precarious condition, and if she did not receive immediate treatment, cancer could take her life at any time. But at this time, her baby was not yet 7 months old, and a caesarean section was extremely risky.
Zhang Lijun is in a dilemma: should she choose to have a caesarean section, or wait for the child to be full-term and continue to delay? After much deliberation, she made the all-or-nothing decision.
On December 3, Zhang Lijun was pushed into the operating room. Labor was difficult, and doctors had to race against time to clean the newborn's airway and insert catheters for resuscitation.
Fortunately, with the blessing of God, the baby was finally born safely. The nurse carefully carried the child to Zhang Lijun, and her son's kiss brought tears to her eyes.
From that moment on, Zhang Lijun seemed to have gained new strength, and she was determined to live, even if the road ahead was difficult. But fate was too cruel after all, and on the sixth day after giving birth, Zhang Lijun began a long hospital career.
At the same time, Han Shijun, who was standing in the corridor, was desperately searching for information about his condition. This rare malignant pancreatic cancer, which was diagnosed as "signet ring cell carcinoma", doomed Zhang Lijun's condition to be incurable.
"At present, surgery has lost its practical value, and chemotherapy can only be used to prolong the life of patients as much as possible." So says the doctor.
Of course, the smart Zhang Lijun has gained insight into her illness from her husband's words and deeds. But instead of crying and complaining, she behaved unusually strong, munching on the food handed by her husband, smiling and saying, "Don't worry, I will grow beautiful hair again."
However, when the mood calmed down a little, tears inevitably rolled down: "Do I really have a chance to grow my hair back?" The two immediately hugged each other tightly and cried bitterly.
In order not to let her son forget his mother's appearance in the future, Zhang Lijun carefully prepared various daily necessities for the child and recorded 18 videos for him. She hopes that every year on his birthday, her son can see her and feel his mother's love.
In the last days of her life, despite suffering from illness, Zhang Lijun still received meticulous care and companionship from her lover and family, and she should have no regrets when she passed away.
Before dying, Han Shijun also solemnly promised his wife that he would take good care of their children.
Who would have thought that a few years after Zhang Lijun's death, a wave of gossip hit like a crazy storm, pushing Han Shijun to the forefront of the limelight.
The cause was just a news called "Zhang Lijun gave up her life to have a child, and her husband quickly remarried a year later", which quickly fermented on the Internet. Netizens from all walks of life have followed suit, and their words are becoming more and more ugly and mean.
Some people pointed out that Han Shijun was a "scumbag", who lived up to Zhang Lijun's affectionate love and blasphemed her great sacrifice for having children. Others said that he had been with the caregiver for a long time, and when his wife died, he couldn't wait to find a new love.
What's even more absurd is that there are rumors that Han Shijun has passed the child he had with Zhang Lijun to his cousin, thus completely breaking with the past.
For a while, the abuse of Han Shijun on the Internet was monstrous, as if he was the source of all evil that everyone was condemned for. Some people scolded him for being "brazen" and "despicable", and even more indignant young people directly wished him "no place to die".
In the face of such a surging cyber violence, Han Shijun's heart was extremely angry. He never expected that he would be criticized so violently, and what made him even more sad was that his late wife Zhang Lijun was also involved and hurt.
Recalling his wife's deathbed entrustment, how he solemnly made a promise to take good care of their children. And now, the child has also become a victim of cyberbullying, Han Shijun feels that he has failed his wife's trust, and his guilt and self-blame arise spontaneously.
Han Shijun secretly decided to reveal the truth of the matter to the world for his deceased wife Zhang Lijun, for himself, and for the child who was criticized.
Just as the rumors intensified, a netizen of Han Shijun, who claimed to be his cousin, stood up and published a long article to correct Han Shijun's name. He made it clear that his younger brother's family has always been raising Xiaolongbao, so how could he have passed him on to others.
When Han Shijun registered his marriage, Xiaolongbao was already four years old. Moreover, there is no such thing as a "cousin" at all, which is pure nonsense.
Immediately afterwards, a netizen suspected of being a colleague of Han Shijun also exposed some evidence on the Internet, confirming that what his cousin said was true. This colleague posted a screenshot of Han Shijun's circle of friends, in which the family of three is happy and living in harmony, there is indeed no trace of "abandoning his wife and children".
In the accompanying text, Han Shijun angrily denounced the rumors as pure fiction, and severely reprimanded the rumor-mongers, accusing them of using the deceased to consume the public and earn traffic, which is really ignorant and inhumane.
Seeing these heartfelt accusations, some sensible netizens began to reflect on whether they were too radical. But more people still can't accept the fact that "Han Shijun remarried", thinking that he is ruthless and unjust, which is really a blasphemy and betrayal of Zhang Lijun.
Finally, on April 17, 2021, Han Shijun's lawyer issued an official statement systematically explaining the whole story.
The statement frankly said that Han Shijun and his current wife were indeed united four years after Zhang Lijun's death, not a year or two. From acquaintance, acquaintance, love to the palace of marriage, everything is a matter of course.
He never gave up his love for his children for a moment, and the suspicion of the outside world was pure speculation.
The new wife not only loves and cares for the children, but even the father-in-law and mother-in-law also see her late. The family of three is happy and gets along day and night without any barriers, which is absolutely inconsistent with the accusation of "abandoning children and reorganizing families".
After the systematic elaboration of the statement, the rumors finally broke down, and the storm finally settled. Although the controversy over right and wrong is still not evenly divided, at least the truth of the facts has been revealed.
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