In our professional and family lives, we often face a variety of challenges. If you want to succeed in the workplace while maintaining family harmony, self-cultivation is key. As the ancients said, "Qi Qi's family is cultivating its body", if you want to have a harmonious family, you must first cultivate yourself.
People are often prone to prejudice against the people they love close to them, which is "what they love and disagree". In the workplace, this bias can lead us to be overly tolerant of certain colleagues or subordinates and ignore their shortcomings. Similarly, in the family, we may also ignore the mistakes of our loved ones because of their preference for them. Therefore, an important aspect of self-cultivation is to learn to look at the people around you objectively and fairly, regardless of whether they are close or close.
"Disgusting what is despised and discouraged" reminds us not to be prejudiced against people because of our personal likes and dislikes. In the workplace, this bias can hinder our collaboration with certain colleagues; In the family, this can lead to unfair evaluations of certain family members. Self-cultivation is to overcome this prejudice and accept and understand others with a more open and inclusive mind.
"Reverence and refuge" and "reverence and refuge" refer to our prejudice against authority and weakness, respectively. In the workplace, we may ignore our superiors because we fear them, or be too tolerant because we sympathize with the weak. In the family, this prejudice can lead to our blind obedience to our elders or excessive coddling of our children. Self-cultivation is to learn to treat everyone with equality and respect, and not to be prejudiced due to differences in status or circumstances.
"Lazy and discouraged" is a reminder not to be prejudiced by the arrogance or slackness of others. In the workplace, we may be dissatisfied with our colleagues because of their arrogant attitude; In the family, there may be complaints about the slackness of the family. Self-cultivation is to learn to face the shortcomings of others with a tolerant and understanding attitude, and to guide and help them improve in a positive way.
"Those who know the evil and know the evil, and the evil knows the beauty, are rare in the world." This means that there are not many people who can look at others holistically and objectively, without being biased by personal feelings. We need to improve our professionalism and sense of family responsibility through self-cultivation, so as to better cope with workplace challenges and family life.
The ancients also had a proverb: "A man does not know the evil of his son, and he does not know the fruit of his seed." This further underscores the need for slimming. Through continuous learning and practice, they can improve their professionalism and sense of family responsibility. Only in this way can we succeed in the workplace while maintaining family harmony and happiness. This is the true connotation of the so-called "you can't join your family without cultivation".