在安静而舒缓的时光里，凡夫俗子们时而愉悦的徜徉，时而迷茫奔溃的前行，时而焦虑不安的守望前路。
Lu Shaoheng, a Ming scholar, said: "When a person lives in the world, he must dare to "open his eyes" and not "frown" at the world. ”
What kind of state of mind a woman has, what kind of life she will live in her daily life.
I once heard that an old lady gave birth to two daughters, the eldest daughter married the owner of the umbrella shop, and the younger daughter became the female supervisor of the laundry workshop.
However, this indecisive old lady lives in a cloud of sorrow all day long.
Whenever the weather was bad and it rained, she always sighed, worried about how sad it would be for her little daughter's laundry to dry the clothes in the laundry workshop.
As soon as the weather cleared, she was afraid that her eldest daughter's umbrella shop would have no business.
She worries about the lives of her two daughters all the time, and lives her life very badly.
Later, a wise man quietly reminded her: "Old lady, you are really blessed, when it rains, your eldest daughter's business will flourish, and when the day clears, your youngest daughter's shop will be overwhelmed with customers, and you will have good news no matter what the weather." ”
This tenacious old lady was said by others so kindly, and it was quite right to think about it.
As a result, she began to calmly change her mentality and live a full and happy life.
"Wang Yangming's Psychology" says: "The master of the body is the heart, and what the heart sends is the mind." ”
A woman living in the world will inevitably encounter all kinds of good and bad things every day, and there are also positive and negative choices.
When you choose to face it positively, you can also make your heart optimistic and confident, and the warm and comfortable atmosphere between your eyebrows and eyes is revealed.
And when you choose a pessimistic and low attitude, you can only be greeted by a brow-locked, bleak day.
Finally, those women who can take care of their body and mind can truly experience the joy of life.
红尘世间，有繁华三千的纷扰，而一个清透明亮的女人，往往学会在平静淡然的小日子里。
悄无声息的，抚平扔掉身边一些鸡零狗碎的烦恼。
在日出日落中，她会默默的沉淀改变自己，焕发出自我的魅力与光芒。
也能够，随时掉头扔下纠结自己的不良念头与思绪。
在她们的内心深处，曾经留下，被惨淡现实的生活，逼迫磨砺后的坚韧与果断。
凡事忍得住，也拐得了弯，是一个女人内心修炼出来的超级智慧。
而一个头脑睿智清醒的狠女人，却能在日常的琐事劳作之余。
不断自省，默默地完善自我。
They don't care about their current life, good or bad.
都极少在他人的生活中瞎操心，在其他的烂人烂事上乱纠缠，或者生闷气作贱自个儿。
一个情绪稳定且阳光开朗的女人，不会因为他人的无心之失而大发脾气。
相反的，她可以看破身边人的无助和烦恼。
接住别人的负面情绪，帮助其缓解焦虑，并稳定下来。
就算，在自己遭遇了挫折打击之后，一个人也可以在无边的孤寂中，安静下来，悄然做好该做的事情。
I understand the helplessness and hardships of the world, standing in the world, and more often, I am lonely and insisting on gritting my teeth to hold on.
所谓人生冷暖，而面对寂寞，也是一种提升自我的生活考验。
Many times, learn to stick to loneliness, so that you can think about your own shortcomings in solitude.
Lin Huiyin said: "With your bags on your back, you are a passerby, put down your baggage, and you will find your hometown." ”
一个内心豁达清透的女人，踏遍兜兜转转，纷扰不停的漫漫人生路之后。
明白，在现实生活中，太多的情不得已与无可挽回。
有人活得，糟心而抑闷难过，待人处事时常怨天怼地。
历经日常的沧桑磨难，对于人世间的得失成败亦无法以平常心面对。
她们无法从一点一滴的小事里，悟透世事如流水，人与人之间也各有不同的差异。
在红尘中行走，无论什么样的人和事，任何时候都大不过生与死。
凡事，该宽容时宽容，该放下时放下。
In life, we must dare to "open our eyes" and not "frown" at the world.
一个人也可以轻松自在的，过好自己当下的静谧美好时光。
我是佳佳姐，持续分享正念，有力量，智慧与静心的文字，陪你一起快乐成长，风雨无阻与您共勉，感恩您的关注和鼓励，感谢！