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What behaviors between husband and wife seem to be bad things but are actually good things?

author:Afriel the Wise 6H4

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"My wife started talking to them about me behind their backs, which made me worried."

This was a complaint from Mr. Zhang, who felt that his wife's behavior was more problematic, but his colleague suggested that he might as well give it a try.

"His wife's behavior is good to him, not to embarrass him."

Why is it said that what seems to be a bad thing is actually a good thing?

So what did Mr. Zhang's wife do?

Gain weight is a sign of happiness.

There has always been a saying, that is, "there is no woman who doesn't love beauty, but is too lazy to be pretty." ”

But there are also some people who disagree with this sentence, arguing that "not all women live for the sake of appearance." ”

And in this person's opinion, his wife really did not live for the sake of appearance, on the contrary, she has been working hard for the person she loves.

Recently, his wife suddenly began to talk to her colleagues and friends behind her back, and although he didn't know what she was talking about, he was full of suspicions about his ex-wife.

even inadvertently said some complaints, only to see his disdain and helplessness.

It turns out that his wife has always been a "beautiful and moving" woman, and he himself has always been a "handsome guy" of the type, and the people around him also pay special attention to their image, in comparison, Mr. Zhang looks a little rustic.

But since getting married, his wife said to herself meaningfully, "Don't worry about getting fat, with me." ”

This sentence also made Mr. Zhang very confused, and even a little worried, and finally he decided to ask his wife, but he didn't expect that this question made him feel his wife's good intentions.

It turned out that the reason behind his wife's confidence to become fat was to ask him not to pay so much attention to his image, because she only hoped that Mr. Zhang would only focus on her, and also hoped to be able to become fatter with him.

It turned out that she thought that the two of them would affect the mood of eating, so she reduced her food intake, and her husband also became lighter and lighter after reducing his appetite.

So she has always been happy that compared to losing weight, she would like her husband to eat a little more, even if it is nothing to gain a little weight because of this.

This is where her happiness lies, and it is where the happiness of the people she loves.

We used to think that the sweet words in an instant were love, but then we realized that the original love looked like a wife who let go and became fat.

Farts each other can enhance intimacy.

Like some shy girls, they generally don't "fart" themselves to outsiders, but if a girl dares to be unscrupulous against her man, how much does he love him?

In this society, there are often ideas like "you pick my ponytail", "I pick your ponytail", "let's be cooler", but there is such a couple who says "he wants to marry me anyway" and "whatever"?

In the eyes of others, such a girl will never marry for the rest of her life, but she herself is not worried about her marriage at all.

She also has a "Prince Charming" like the top student in the class by her side, and she does have a few suitors, but why is she so unscrupulous?

If you see this top student with your own eyes, you will understand that she has a reason to do this.

Although the conditions of the scholar are so good, his friends are all those who cannot afford to endure hardships with "good taste and taste", and live in an environment of "pampering and pampering", so this scholar is also used to "pampering and pampering".

Usually some people will let out a fart inadvertently, but in Xueba's opinion, he is such a person, and she is the same as "unscrupulous life" in his opinion.

So in the eyes of Xueba, it is often the feeling that she eats like a pig.

And among the many suitors, the person who "lives unscrupulously" is the most discerning person.

Because in fact, she is not really so able to eat, but she doesn't want to be hungry all day long, so for those men who are "rich and can't stop food", they just think she likes to eat, but for Xueba, his idea after reading it has become "She can eat so much and earn money for him to spend, I will marry her ashore and earn money to support me in the future"

Although Xueba is good at everything, he just wants to be able to eat a big pot of rice in the future, and he doesn't consider her opinion at all.

When he told the others that she was so good at eating, it was either to save money, or to break up with him suddenly.

He just thought it was funny about such a thing, because she just replied flatly, "Are you really visionless, or do you think you can't afford to lose"

How angry he was after hearing this, that is, he wanted to compare how special his girlfriend was with others, but he chose "the feeling that he can't talk to her"

How much wealth does he have, and then after a period of getting along, he found that the environment he is in is a group of little white rabbits, he is not her opponent at all, during the period of getting along with each other, he often has to dine with her, and every time he sees him, he will "act" The atmosphere is the most enthusiastic, she will shout in advance "Husband, I can't do it"

This action has become a popular joke on "The Voice", but in fact, in real life, there are many couples who imitate this action, in fact, their action seems to be a bad thing, but in fact, such a bad thing is a good thing.

In this society, everyone wants love, but no one knows what this thing is?

Although most people have no sweetness in the love period, there will be no love, but in fact, in real life, such things often only exist in TV dramas, not reality.

In reality, it is often the first acquaintance and then the accustomation is taken for granted, such a thing, and the "fart" that has been very hot in social interaction recently is one of them.

Although farting is a good thing in the eyes of others, in the eyes of Mr. Zhang's wife, it sometimes makes him feel uncomfortable.

Although he felt very uncomfortable at first, it was only after he slowly accepted it that he found that the relationship was getting better and better.

A loud argument fosters communication.

Many times the longer we spend together, the more tired we will unconsciously feel, although they still love each other very much, but after all, every day is those few words, although simple, but sometimes the exit is hurtful.

Although they also want to see each other grow up, they are so tired every day that they feel that they are wasting their time, but in fact, this will be understood later.

Many times, everyone thinks that getting married is a very beautiful thing, but in fact, marriage matters cannot be solved simply by eating together.

What behaviors between husband and wife seem to be bad things but are actually good things?

Although there is a misunderstanding between the two, everyone will choose the best way to solve it, but can this really solve the problem?

In fact, there are many people who do not choose to solve the problem in a good way, and they generally solve the problem by quarreling.

Some people think that it is normal to quarrel and it is not normal not to quarrel, but some people think that not quarreling is the best way to solve the problem, after all, quarreling to solve the problem will get other troubles at the same time.

Such a topic made a fuss at the dinner table today, although everyone disagreed, but everyone still had such an uncle who hadn't quarreled for 3 years.

Everyone couldn't help but sigh whether there was something wrong with the uncle, but the uncle told everyone that in fact, this matter did not mean that there was something wrong with him, but that his wife had a good cultivation.

It turns out that his wife also loves her uncle very much, but she is very sensitive and feels that once something like a quarrel starts, it will turn sour, so she chooses to use communication to solve the problem.

So in order to make his wife not care, the uncle began to quarrel with his wife after he went back, so that his wife could be more at ease and didn't need to think about it.

So whenever such a problem arises, the uncle will take the initiative to quarrel with his wife.

Morning before bedtime is actually a good thing.

Most people still yearn for sex, and in the current society, the most suitable topic for the specific time period of sex life between husband and wife is still difficult for many people not to be sad.

There is a poem "Those who eat porridge in the morning have no food, and those who eat porridge at night have no aunt"

That is to say, eat more in the morning and eat less in the evening, but some people say that aunt in the morning is good in the evening.

So what are the benefits of whether couples should choose to have sex at night or in the morning?

The first thing to talk about is the benefit of having sex at night, in fact, for most people, evening is definitely the most suitable time to do it, because only at night can you have time to do it.

When it comes to sex, hormones are essential, and we all know that it is more appropriate to sleep at night, so sex is also suitable for choosing to carry out at night.

So which time is more suitable in the morning or evening?

Actually, it's in the morning.

Scientists say that the human body is most healthy only in the morning when the sun rises, and during this time the human body will be particularly excited, so it is also suitable to choose sexual life.

And having sex before going to bed at night and waking up in the morning is very beneficial for both husband and wife, and many people still debate this issue, that is, the feeling after sex, some people feel very cool, and some people feel very sleepy.

In fact, this varies from person to person, and it does not mean that you will be sleepy after life, so this is also a suitable time period for sexual life.

And after sex, many men will unconsciously hold their foreheads and fall asleep, which will lead to another topic.

Some people say that such words can give birth to a boy, but others say that such words can cause heart disease.

However, there is a certain reason for the problem of heart disease, but only those who are already older and have health problems themselves cannot do this.

But for young couples who don't have health problems, there's nothing wrong with falling asleep after doing this in the morning.

Therefore, as long as it is done within a suitable period of time and does not exceed the limit, you will still have food after eating porridge in the morning.

What behaviors between husband and wife seem to be bad things but are actually good things?

Moderate sex in older people is actually very beneficial.

In fact, it is not only the sex of young people, but also the sex of the elderly is very beneficial as that of young people.

Although the functions of the human body will gradually weaken with age, if the elderly insist on moderate sexual life, it can not only bring physical nourishment, but also alleviate their loneliness.

In addition, some older couples also have some misconceptions, they think that sex is only for young love, and if the two of them are doing it, it is a waste of the body.

But in fact, there is a big mistake in this concept, because moderate sex can not only exercise the body, but also promote mental health.

This can not only further enhance the relationship between husband and wife, but also:

What behaviors between husband and wife seem to be bad things but are actually good things?