Many men like to confess when looking for a partner, WeChat confession, phone confession, confession to the place where girls work, confession of gifts, potato chips, and spicy strips.
After confessing, he still has a problem, that is, he asks the girl to say it in person and agree to be his girlfriend, so the result is that the emotional road of this male compatriot is very bumpy.
A girl won't marry you because he confessed to being his girlfriend. If confession solves the problem, then the beggar will not be a bachelor, and the beggar will confess.
So why do others succeed when they confess?
The reason is that this girl is already his girlfriend and already likes this man, so she will confess successfully, which is the most important link in the relationship between men and women.
Girls don't like you, you confess, it's thriller.
Girls like you, you confess, it's romantic.
So the question is, why do girls like you?
The reason is very simple, it is because you are worthy of a girl, you are the one that a girl wants, and you are her dish.
How do you deserve to be a girl?
A girl will look at your age, look at your appearance, look at your height, look at your education, look at your job, income, family background, car, house, etc., all of these things are what she wants, then she will think that you are worthy of her, and she will like you.
In the process of dating girls, there is also a typical case, that is, boys, you are good in all aspects, and you are completely worthy of girls, why do girls not like you?
There are two reasons for this.
First, you're not a girl's thing. For example, a girl likes to eat cucumbers, and you are an eggplant, so she doesn't like it, even if your eggplant is of good quality, she doesn't like it.
The second is that you won't be in love. Pulls down your own value.
You can't fall in love, you will practice blindly, your conditions are very good, and girls don't look down on you, because you don't know how to take care of girls' emotions, you don't understand girls.
For example, many of our boys' conditions are very good, but when he is looking for a partner, he is always in a hurry, and when he sees a girl today, he can't wait to determine the relationship immediately, and he asks the girl when he meets, is it okay, and wants a result from the girl, then the girl will not agree, you just say okay, what do you treat the girl as? Did you think you were a very casual person?
The depression is profitable, and the curve is straight.
Let's look at the philosophical dialectical wisdom of our ancestors, what is crooked is straight.
Many male classmates are too straight, he doesn't know how to bend, he doesn't know how to retreat, he doesn't understand that the process of falling in love is curved, and he doesn't know how to turn, so he always hits the wall and always can't reach the destination.
If a man is too straight, it will be difficult to get the likes of girls. Girls don't like straight men either, so men who often find a partner and fail in love, you must know that there is a process and steps to fall in love, and love is not all at once.
For example, if you just add the girl's WeChat, you have to chat with the girl briefly, and then meet, and then, you do more things, in the middle, you will go through the quarrel, sweetness, cold war and so on, after the experience, your feelings will be sublimated, and you will have deeper feelings.
How did the relationship come about?
It's all produced by doing things together. Just like the uncles who played table tennis with me, we also have feelings, because we have been playing table tennis together for four or five years, and our feelings will be very deep.
There are also those who are soldiers, because they have experienced all kinds of battles, life and death, so their feelings are also deep.
As soon as you met, you want a girl to agree to be your girlfriend, fall in love with you, like you, and have feelings for you, which is very stupid.
Therefore, we said in "Love Method" that the process of falling in love is curved, not straight, it is the process of moving forward, backward, moving forward, moving forward, moving forward, moving forward, you have to go through it, not a process of sticking a rod into the end.