Hello everyone, I'm a drag sister who has been working hard.
In the past three months since entering the media, so far, the income has exceeded 10,000 in 61 days.
It gives me a steady stream of motivation,
But there are two things that have been deeply troubling!
Still trying to adjust!
01, for message intimidation, my heart is still not strong enough!
Since I wrote an article about Jacky Cheung's daughter-in-law who was a loser, and dragged my sister to be scolded for her depression,
It's set that you must follow before you can leave a message, and as a result, you can never imagine how boring some people are.
They will pay attention to you for scolding, and then take it down!
Well, they're cool, but Sister Drag is unhappy, and they can find fault with whatever they write!
This article, when the number of readings is small, no one leaves a message,
When the reading volume is high, the cows, ghosts, snakes, and gods have all come out, and it is difficult to adjust!
Finally, when I was writing Andy Lau's daughter's article, some people were dissatisfied,
When I said that ordinary children are also excellent, I shouldn't write about the children of stars;
The little universe in my heart has exploded again, I want to write about your daughter,
But you are so ordinary, I write you, does anyone read it?
That's a wide tube! If you like to watch it, you can watch it, if you don't like to watch it, get out!
The headline "Real Life under the Tide of Unemployment: 38 years old, laid off for 4 months, because of two sentences from my mother-in-law, I suddenly woke up: The best relationship with my mother-in-law is that it doesn't matter!" "I was depressed by the old lady's scolding, and I couldn't stop it;
But I have the right to WeChat, I decisively chose to follow for 7 days before I can leave a message,
I want to put an end to these keyboard warriors from the heart, and only take my value out of context from an article, you don't deserve it!
Two days ago, another article of 100,000+ came out, because some fans rewarded and chased the background messages to praise,
It's not good, Sister Drag is floating again,
I want to give these people who love my words a free interaction window, and the seven-day limit has been lifted.
As a result, I regretted it again after it was opened, because another explosive article appeared,
There is a message saying that I will be eaten by eating human blood steamed buns, oh my little heart!
It's all based on entertainment star news to write reviews, it's reasonable, why do I still eat human blood steamed buns?
Sister Tu replied weakly, blacking out, I really feel unhappy!
Search the Internet to see what the seniors do, and sure enough! There is no viciousness in the message, only more viciousness!
Many authors are miserable, and some are very generous and let them out.
Some simply set up a 7-day follow-up to leave a message.
There are still many bloggers who write about this aspect, and most of them say that they will block directly without replying,
You must train yourself to be strong and not be disturbed by such unfriendly voices from the outside world!
Also, the great writer Mo Yan was scolded because the writing was too realistic, and the darkness and distortion of human nature were exposed too thoroughly.
What am I, compared to me, just a little witch!
Everyone grows up in scolding, scolding grows up, and the more scolding you makes!
What else do I have to worry about? If you're not happy, just say a few words back, and if you're in a good mood, you can block it directly.
Listening to the crickets, don't you grow crops and don't write articles?
In the face of garbage people, be broad-minded! Just ignore it!
02, chaotic work and rest, a one-man battle
This, it took 16 months for the king to get rid of the class flavor, and the sister was more successful.
Since March 16, I started to write regularly and was anxious about my unemployment.
Less than two months, absolutely no class taste,
That casual, that free! Getting happier every day!
At the beginning, because I dragged my sister to write articles, I also wrote more than a dozen articles in advance, so there was no pressure.
Write in the morning and go out for a stroll in the afternoon, buy a vegetable and blow the wind to see the scenery,
But since I added another number, I'm a bit of a mess here!
First of all, since I'm freelancing, I have to follow my hobby!
I'm sorry, Sister Tuo likes to sleep lazy, and I used to have to sleep for half a day every Sunday.
That is, in the morning the thunder does not move, and wakes up naturally,
This time, there is no pressure to go to work on time and on time, come on, as you wish.
Wake up naturally every day, but this still has to set an alarm, otherwise Sister Drag dares to sleep until twelve o'clock,
The alarm clock set by Sister Drag is 8:00 in the morning, when does Seashore and Ozawazawa get up in the morning,
When to eat, when to leave, I don't know at all.
In the past, I could occasionally wake up early and go out for a walk, but from mid to late April, the previous routine is invalid!
Sister Drag began to do what she wanted, and the alarm clock rang at eight o'clock,
Drag the sister to get up and clean up, bed, sweep, mop the floor,
The windows must be clear, everything must be in its place,
Let Sister Tu see everything pleasing to the eye!
Then simply have breakfast, and after everything is cleaned up, Sister Tu will simply write two micro headlines to sign in,
The time is generally around 10:00, and I start planning and writing, and I can usually finish it in the morning.
But because the text has to be accompanied by pictures, typesetting is more troublesome than writing.
The lunch break is canceled, lunch is casual, and dinner preparations will be prepared in advance!
After the article is typeset, there are fun hot spots, and the sister will randomly increase the number of articles, or pre-write other articles in advance.
Cook on time at 17:30, dinner will generally be more hearty,
At least an hour and a half earlier than when I used to come to work, so Seashore really enjoyed my time at home.
After dinner, the article is published, synchronized with other platforms,
After 21:00, Sister Tuo began to play freely, chasing dramas and reading articles with a purpose,
It's all going to bed late, around 00:30 in the morning.
So throughout the day, I feel busy, fulfilling, but lonely,
There were two interviews, just because I was lonely, and I went out for a purpose.
Otherwise, the weather is getting hotter and hotter, and you won't be too lazy to go out!
So, the once arrogant sister of drag! In the past two months, every day has been unkempt,
In addition to laundry, cooking, and tidying up the room, it is to write essays and writes.
The original plump is now fuller, and I have gained ten pounds,
I want to control my diet, but I really feel unhappy and hungry.
So I insisted on it for two days and then gave up! It doesn't feel like that's going to work!
I saw Xiao Yuer say that she had gained 30 pounds in five years of doing self-media at home!
I was so scared!
I don't know if big data has the function of figuring out people's minds.
suddenly pushed it to Sister Drag, the famous Japanese writer Haruki Murakami, who has insisted on a routine for 40 years:
Wake up at 4 a.m., make coffee and have breakfast.
Then start writing at 5 a.m. and continue until 10 a.m., with the daily task of filling 10 pages of manuscript paper or about 4,000 words.
After 10 o'clock, he would do an hour-long run or swim workout.
At 11 o'clock, I will take care of all kinds of chores.
Eat lunch at 12 noon, followed by a half-hour nap between 1 pm and 1:30 pm while listening to classical music.
1:30 p.m. to 5 p.m. is free time, and he usually listens to records.
Between 5 and 6 o'clock is the time to prepare dinner, and he cooks while listening to the opera.
6 to 9 a.m. is the time to relax and read or listen to music.
At 9 p.m., he goes to bed.
After reading it, I cried and got up at 4 o'clock! It's all done at 10 o'clock!
There's also an hour of running or swimming, as well as time to clean up and take a nap!
Haha still enjoy the music, this day is so relaxing,
But go to bed at 9 p.m., it's too early!
No, not for me at all!
So far, in the face of negative comments and the daily routine of freelancing,
These two points have not been adjusted yet,
If these two arrangements are planned, Sister Tu really thinks that life is too beautiful!
All in all, I'm confident enough,
Accept all the gifts that life has given me,
Both good and bad.
Don't rush, take your time, follow your own time zone,
The right waste of time is also an improvement!
END
Sister dragged with temperament
Hello everyone, I am the drag sister of Qimeng, born in the 80s, I have had a dream of being a writer since I was a child, and my articles have been published many times during school, but because of the interweaving of work and life, this dream has always been missed by me.
At the end of January 2024, unfortunately caught up with the company's layoffs, it was my turn, and I suddenly became free, so that I had more time to think about my life, who I am, what I want, how I want to live, and the growth and experience of these years, bit by bit, I want to put it into words, tell you, and also use it as a review of my life.
Maybe self-media writing is the first step for me to save myself from being unemployed, and I would like to encourage you who are temporarily at a low point!
After 100 days of self-testing and exploration, I decided to officially enter the self-media from June 24, realize my dream of freelancing, and win life with writing!