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has been in love for 24 years and married for 4 years, but the love is so firm but he chooses "Dink" and enjoys the world of the two exclusively

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has been in love for 24 years and married for 4 years, but the love is so firm but he chooses "Dink" and enjoys the world of the two exclusively

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In October 2020, Hong Kong media reported that Su Yuhua got married.

At the age of 52, she ended her 24-year love run with Pan Canliang, and the reason for the registration of the two was related to another man.

has been in love for 24 years and married for 4 years, but the love is so firm but he chooses "Dink" and enjoys the world of the two exclusively

When it comes to Su Yuhua's name, everyone may feel unfamiliar, but when it comes to Louis Koo's version of "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", or Rong Jinzhi in "Criminal Investigation Files", many people will think of her smart and lovely face.

Su Yuhua's career has been improving, and her love life is also going well.

She has been in love with her boyfriend for 24 years, and the two have never had an affair, and they have always gotten along very well.

In the early days of her career, Su Yuhua worked as a flight attendant for 9 months, and soon found that she was not suitable for the job. After resigning, she was introduced by a friend and was admitted to the fourth Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts.

While attending school there, she met Pan Canliang. After the two came into contact a few times, they found that they were full of interest in drama, so they often discussed and studied together.

After graduating, Poon Chan-leung invited her to join the Hong Kong Repertory Theatre and began acting in stage plays.

Although their personalities are completely different, Su Yuhua is brave and positive, while Pan Canliang is steady and conservative, but this has not affected the two of them to become more and more favorable.

has been in love for 24 years and married for 4 years, but the love is so firm but he chooses "Dink" and enjoys the world of the two exclusively

In 1992, Su Yuhua had an excellent performance in the stage play "I Have a Date with Spring", and TVB threw an olive branch to her after seeing it.

At that time, TVB was called the "Shaolin Temple of Artists", saying that it was very hard but there was a lot to learn.

Su Yuhua was very moved, but she was reluctant to leave Pan Canliang.

After thinking about it for two days, Su Yuhua went to Pan Canliang to talk about this opportunity, but she didn't expect Pan Canliang to support her very much to go out and try it and see a bigger stage.

Pan Canliang saw her hesitation, so he promised her that he would visit the class when he was free. So Su Yuhua happily accepted TVB's invitation.

TVB's work intensity is very high, she often shoots three different dramas in the morning, noon and evening, and she clearly sees that half of her dramas are rubbish.

This kind of work makes her very unhappy, and she misses the time when she acted in a stage play with Pan Canliang even more.

has been in love for 24 years and married for 4 years, but the love is so firm but he chooses "Dink" and enjoys the world of the two exclusively

Pan Canliang kept his promise and came to visit the class when he had time.

Every time he saw him coming, even if he was empty-handed, Su Yuhua was very happy.

Once after the series was finished, she took the initiative to ask Pan Canliang to drink and chat, and the more she chatted, the more she couldn't stop, she said a lot of pressure at work, and she cried as she spoke, she longed for herself to appear in some valuable dramas.

Looking at the tearful Su Yuhua, Pan Canliang didn't speak for a long time, and after being silent for a while, he said, "Yuhua, be my girlfriend!" ”

Su Yuhua, who was on the other side, heard this, and said before he wiped away his tears: "Okay." ”

After becoming lovers, the two even talked about everything, Pan Canliang knew her dedication to acting, and would always encourage her when she was down.

No matter what confusion and problems she talks to Pan Canliang about her work, she will get unconditional support. With her lover as her backing, Su Yuhua is more determined on the road of pursuing her career.

has been in love for 24 years and married for 4 years, but the love is so firm but he chooses "Dink" and enjoys the world of the two exclusively

In 2003, Su Yuhua won the Best Actress at the 12th Hong Kong Drama Awards for her stage play "Life and Death". This award is the highest recognition of her stage plays.

Both of them are making progress in their passions, and they are often asked when they will get married. Su Yuhua said every time that they were in a stable relationship and had never thought about getting married.

Until 2014, Su Yuhua revealed the news that Pan Canliang's marriage proposal was successful, but the two were not heard to register in the follow-up.

Friends who cared about them asked many times, and they always said that they were lazy, so they never went through the marriage procedures.

In the blink of an eye, in 2019, when Su Yuhua was performing the drama "Kiss Linan", a friend who helped them with ticketing suddenly passed away.

When Su Yuhua heard the news, she hurried to the hospital to visit, but she still didn't see the last face of her friend, and only saw her friend's boyfriend break down and cry after assisting the police in completing the procedure.

He hugged Su Yuhua and said in annoyance: "I'm not anyone of his, I can't make a decision for him to sign a document!" ”

has been in love for 24 years and married for 4 years, but the love is so firm but he chooses "Dink" and enjoys the world of the two exclusively

After this incident, she had a new thought about her relationship with Pan Canliang, if at the last moment of her life, the closest person has no right to help her make decisions, which is a very regrettable thing.

Thinking of this, Su Yuhua told her boyfriend about her worries, Pan Canliang held her hand, gently took her into his arms, and comforted her not to be so sad.

After the two discussed, they made time to register and officially get married in May 2020.

On the day of registration, she wanted to wait until it was over to tell her mother, but she didn't expect to meet the media. She didn't want her mother to see the news of her marriage in the newspaper, so she hurriedly called her mother.

My mother was very happy to hear the news, and after the official registration, the two families had dinner together.

When the news of the marriage came out, everyone sent their blessings to the couple who ended their long-distance love run. At the beginning of the marriage, Su Yuhua was very unaccustomed to everyone calling her "Mrs. Pan", and the two still maintained their original names at home.

has been in love for 24 years and married for 4 years, but the love is so firm but he chooses "Dink" and enjoys the world of the two exclusively

Marriage is no longer a necessity in life, marriage is to make one's life better.

The marital relationship, which is protected by the law, is just an umbrella for them to be better together.

Su Yuhua has always been serious about managing her feelings and following her inner feelings, rather than choosing to get a certificate in order to cater to secular standards.

Su Yuhua's attitude towards love and career is free and easy with rationality.

The two of them appreciate each other and grow together, let us see the model of married life, and I wish them happiness forever!

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Introduction: Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media person. I have wine, do you have a story?

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