On the colorful stage of the entertainment industry, there are always some celebrities whose personal lives attract more attention than their works.
Xu Jinglei belongs to such an actress who does not follow the usual path.
Xu Jinglei has shown a unique personality since she was a child.
Born into a military family, she was deeply influenced by family traditions, and her father was extremely strict with her.
Her childhood was like being confined to an ivory tower, and her life was carefully arranged, and she had to maintain a dignified and polite demeanor at all times.
This oppressive environment made her secretly resentful and resentful of the discipline of authority.
After entering Beiying, Xu Jinglei completely broke free from the shackles of her family.
She began to try all kinds of "forbidden fruits" that were once forbidden by her father - skipping school, drinking, and mixing in society.
This surprised her teachers and classmates, who didn't expect that she, who was pure and quiet on weekdays, would hide such a wild side in her heart.
Since the age of 19, Xu Jinglei has been in love frequently, and her love history is wonderful.
Her only criterion is that the other party must be an influential "talent" in the circle.
Maybe it's too long of repression, but once she is free, she is like a complete vent, fanatically devoting herself to a life of indulgence, judging the two of them.
Her forbidden love affair with the famous writer Wang Shuo was the beginning of her fame.
Although Wang Shuo was already married at the time, Xu Jinglei boldly intervened in this marriage and became his lover.
With Wang Shuo's strong support, she quickly gained a firm foothold in the film and television industry and became famous in one fell swoop.
However, the relationship ended in the end, and the two chose to part ways.
Subsequently, Xu Jinglei's love history was like a wonderful drama, staged a series of absurd and bizarre plots...
... Subsequently, Xu Jinglei's love history was like a wonderful drama, staged a series of absurd and bizarre plots.
She is like a bewitching butterfly, shuttling and flying among the flowers of the handsome men in the circle, never stopping.
The music genius Sanbao was once fascinated by her, and he did not hesitate to break up with his girlfriend at the time, just to be able to justifiably stay with Xu Jinglei.
It's a pity that this vigorous love is also destined to be short-lived.
There were rumors that Sanbao abandoned Xu Jinglei when they broke up, and even forced her to have an abortion, but these are impossible to verify and can only be forgotten in the long river of time.
The scandal between actress Xu Jinglei and single movie star Huang Jue also caused an uproar in the circle.
However, she seemed to lack interest in this "prey", and soon became entangled with musician Zhang Yadong and successfully took away her "husband" from Dou Ying.
Such plots are not uncommon in Xu Jinglei's love life.
Even Gao Yuanyuan, who played the role of a junior in her emotional world, has personally experienced the pain of being intervened by a third party.
Even Jackie Chan, who is married, can't escape her passionate kisses.
In the face of the criticism of the world, Xu Jinglei has always gone her own way and disdained the constraints of discipline.
She bravely shaped a unique way of life with her actions, vividly demonstrating her mastery of the boundaries of the world, and the indulgence of the wild inside.
She is full of Beijing flavor, and her dual personality is different, which can always give people an unexpected sense of surprise.
With a smile, it seems that you can see the beautiful demeanor of everyone in the capital; And the wild and uninhibited personality is reminiscent of the idle wife who is good at playing with the powerful son.
This woman, known as the "talented woman of the capital", even at the age of 48, can still cause a commotion in the entertainment industry with her outrageous behavior.
Compared with the identity of an actress, her colorful love history is the most difficult to ignore.
After experiencing several frustrated relationships, Xu Jinglei finally found her own peaceful place by the side of director Huang Lixing.
The two have been in love for many years but have never been married, and she said with a smile that she does not need a marriage certificate to prove love.
Her casual and willful personality has finally been vented in this stable relationship....
... Her casual and willful personality was finally vented in this stable relationship.
However, Xu Jinglei's life is far more than the twists and turns of love history.
She has also made brilliant achievements in her acting career, conquering countless audiences with her superb acting skills.
From a young newcomer, to the controversial "wandering skeleton", to a powerful actor who finally won everyone's recognition, her life trajectory is like a wonderful script.
Some people say that Xu Jinglei is a woman who is "pure on the outside and turbulent on the inside".
But perhaps, she is just using her own unique way to pursue the purest freedom in her heart.
She dared to boldly challenge the confinement of the world, dared to boldly try all kinds of possibilities in life, and it was this courage and ideals that made her life so wonderful.
Everyone's growth path is different, Xu Jinglei just chose a path full of thorns but unique.
She doesn't have too much restraint on love, but she is not a debauchery and profligacy; She doesn't have much hope for marriage, but she is still looking for the true meaning of life.
Let her, who was once regarded as a "talented girl in the capital", slowly settle down in silence.
She still has a long way to go, and we will wait and see what kind of answer will be given in the future.
Whether she is praised or criticized, Xu Jinglei lives out of herself in her own way, which is the greatest excitement of her life.