#长文创作激励计划#
Author: Insight Muye
Recently, Peking University released the 2024 enrollment promotional video.
A freshman who has just entered the school is busy every day, and when he sees what others are doing, he will also join in a hurry, for fear of falling behind others.
One day, when he hurriedly passed by the courtyard of Peking University, he met Zhu Guangqian, an aesthetic master who was watering flowers.
Zhu Guangqian picked a small flower and gave it to him, and told him with a smile: Go slowly, appreciate.
The student was in place, unable to guess what Mr. meant.
In fact, what Zhu Guangqian wanted to tell him was:
"Everyone's flowering period is different. If you only stare at others and run faster, but forget your own rhythm, it is easy to go the wrong way.
Each small flower will bloom, just at a different time. Hold your breath, don't worry, and wait for your own flowering period. ”
Life needs to have the wisdom of "slowness", and it also needs the patience of "waiting".
Recently, the college entrance examination results have been released, and some children are proud, and some children have unsatisfactory results.
Give a child who does not do well in the exam a little time, and maybe in the near future, he will also usher in his own flowering period and bloom with unique beauty.
01
Some time ago, "People's Daily" reported the heartwarming story of Xu Wenteng, a junior college girl, and her favorite university going both ways.
Xu Wenteng, who failed the college entrance examination, chose to study at Yantai Vocational College. When she arrived at school, she decided to upgrade to a bachelor's degree.
She gave up socializing, put down all activities, concentrated on soaking in the library, and studied at least 9 hours a day.
In this way, she was successfully admitted to a second-class college, Texas College.
While studying at Texas College, she had the idea of going to graduate school again, and set her sights on Ocean University of China.
The days of preparing for the exam were boring and tired, and when she couldn't persevere, she went to the official Weibo of Ocean University of China to leave a message.
Every time, the official Weibo would reply to her as soon as possible, and also gave her a lot of encouragement.
Finally, in the postgraduate entrance examination in April this year, Xu Wenteng successfully went ashore.
Every child's flowering period is different, and some children bloom late, and the college entrance examination may not even be able to pass the most ordinary undergraduate colleges.
But it doesn't mean that they are completely out of contact with a double-first-class university in this life.
As long as he has a motivated heart, does not complain about the environment, and keeps working hard, he can successfully go ashore sooner or later.
Zhang Huanteng, a student from Henan, went to a secondary school because he failed the high school entrance examination.
In the three years of technical secondary school, he studied professional knowledge seriously, won the first place in the grade, and won many scholarships.
The teacher advised him to take the college entrance examination.
In the college entrance examination, his results were not satisfactory, and he was only admitted to Chongqing Medical College.
I go to bed at ten o'clock every day, get up at six o'clock in the morning, I am never late, I have not asked for a single leave, I never bring my mobile phone to class, I always sit in the first row...
This is Zhang Huanteng's daily study in Chongqing Medical College for three years.
Later, under the guidance of the teacher, Zhang Huanteng decided to upgrade to a bachelor's degree and was successfully admitted to Chongqing Medical University.
While studying at Chongqing Medical University, he was eager to learn professional knowledge and decided to continue his studies in graduate school.
On the first day of the postgraduate re-examination, Professor Yang Mei, deputy secretary of the Party Committee of the college, personally cheered him on.
Zhang Huanteng also lived up to expectations and was admitted to the Medical Center of Tsinghua University.
From a junior college student, to a junior college student, and finally admitted to Tsinghua University, his fate was completely rewritten.
Now that the college entrance examination has ended, it is normal for children to have unsatisfactory grades and parents to be anxious.
But we can't deny a child's life just because of a single exam failure.
The college entrance examination is just a stop in life.
Those children who fail in the college entrance examination, as long as they make unremitting efforts, will still have the opportunity to go to a prestigious school in the future.
02
The writer went to bed late and recalled that on the day of the college entrance examination, she lay on the bed and cried loudly.
"I cried so much that my face was full of tears, and my mother couldn't get up no matter how much she dragged me, I wanted to die all at once, and I didn't need to face the future."
Because of her poor performance in the college entrance examination, she attended a local junior college and graduated to work as an accountant in a company.
In the boring days when the end of the day was over, she insisted on filling the spiritual emptiness with reading.
Later, she began to try her hand at writing, and stumbled upon her talent for writing.
She published several best-selling books and became an influential author.
Just because some children may fail in their studies does not mean that they will not be able to achieve elsewhere in the future.
As long as he finds his talent, he can still shine in other fields.
Mr. Barking entered an English tuition school at the age of 14, when he had the desire to go to university.
At the age of 21, Ba Jin applied for Peking University, and in order to realize his ideals, he came to Beijing alone.
During the intense preparation day and night, Ba Jin was found to have lung disease during a physical examination and had to return to Shanghai to recuperate.
Also because of this illness, Ba Jin missed the college entrance examination that he had been preparing for for more than ten years, and his dream of going to college was shattered.
Later, Ba Jin got acquainted with Shen Congwen, who also did not study in college.
Through a conversation with Shen Congwen, Ba Jin realized that the college entrance examination is just a fork in life, and failure does not mean that there is no way out of life.
As a result, Ba Jin decided to devote himself to the study of literature, wrote dozens of works, and became a giant of modern literature.
A senior high school class teacher comforted the students who failed the college entrance examination and said: You are just nameless on the list, and you are not without a road under your feet.
Life is a wilderness, not a track.
It's not just about studying, taking exams, and going on to higher education.
The world is big, the exam room is small, and no one wins everything because of one exam, and no one loses everything because of one exam.
Believe that if you fail this exam, there are many other options in life.
03
In the documentary "Senior High School", students are rudely divided into three categories with grades: good students, average students, and poor students.
Lin Jiayan is a representative of good students and was admitted to Minzu University of China.
After graduation, Lin Jiayan stayed in Beijing, and in the interview, she dressed exquisitely and spoke confidently, like an urban white-collar worker.
Image source: Documentary "Senior Year"
But behind the glamorous is the unknown pressure of life.
Unable to afford a house in Beijing, the family lived in a cramped rental house outside the Fifth Ring Road.
Because she does not have a Beijing hukou, the child will return to her hometown to take the college entrance examination in the future and revisit the path she has walked.
Lin Jiayan, a good student, successfully crossed the college entrance examination, but she still can't hide from the chicken feathers of life.
In the documentary, Zhong Shengming is a representative of poor students, and his exam scores are at the bottom.
After failing the college entrance examination for the first time, he was admitted to a three-school college after a year of restudy.
In the year of graduation, catching up with the booming period of domestic e-commerce, Zhong Shengming keenly seized this opportunity and joined a logistics company.
With his outstanding work ability, he developed the company into a large company with a daily turnover of tens of millions of dollars, and was promoted to the company's vice president.
Later, he became his own boss, focusing on the field of physical e-commerce, and his annual income in the clothing business alone exceeded 10 million, and he has achieved financial freedom.
If you succeed in the college entrance examination, will your life be unimpeded and brilliant?
If you fail the college entrance examination, will your life be miserable and gloomy?
From Lin Jiayan and Zhong Shengming, we found the answer.
There is a passage circulating on the Internet:
The diploma is just a train ticket, Tsinghua is a soft sleeper, an undergraduate is a hard sleeper, a junior college is a hard seat, and the train gets off the train to look for a job, only to find that the boss doesn't care about how you came here, only what you do.
The college entrance examination is just a watershed in life.
As long as it's a piece of gold, it will sparkle everywhere.
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Dong Yuhui once talked about education in the live broadcast room, and said meaningfully:
"Don't worry about your apples ripening later than others, that means your apples are sweeter than everyone else's. Remember, give the flowers time to bloom. ”
If your child does not do well in the exam this time, don't yell at him and scold him, please protect this "seedling".
Believe in the child and wait for the flowers to bloom.
Because not every flower necessarily blooms in spring.
Give it a thumbs up and encourage all parents.