In our journey through life, we will meet all kinds of people. Someone likes you because you can bring them happiness, and someone likes you because you are their joy. While these two likes may seem similar, they are actually profoundly different.
Those who like you because you can bring them joy often find some kind of fulfillment in you. They may like your humorous conversation, or your thoughtful and caring feelings. This liking is more based on the outward feelings you bring to the table. They feel pleasant, relaxed, and happy in your company, and like you because of it. This liking is built on certain conditions, and it can also become fragile when you can no longer meet their needs.
And those who like you because you are their pleasure, their liking is more pure and deep. They like you, not because of what you can bring, but because you are the warmth and happiness in their hearts. No matter where you are or what you do, they will feel fulfilled and at ease as long as you are there. This liking is unrequited and will not be shaken by changes in circumstances.
Looking back on our lives, it is a great blessing to be fortunate to have met such a confidant. Those who like you because of who you are, they will not hesitate to stand by your side when you need it most. Whether you succeed or fail, healthy or sick, they will always support you and accompany you. Their love is like a trickle, moisturizing things silently, permeating every corner of your life.
Conversely, those who like you because you can bring happiness are more of an exchange of emotions. When you can continue to bring them pleasure, they will like you and rely on you. But one day, you can no longer meet their needs, and this love may quietly fade. That's not to say that this liking is bad, but it has its own limitations.
In a complex society, we need to learn to distinguish between these two kinds of likes. Cherish those who love you because you are, they are the treasures of your life. At the same time, be grateful to those who like you because you can bring joy and add color and fun to your life.
In short, no matter what kind of liking it is, it is a beautiful experience in life. It is important that we treat people with sincerity, cherish every emotion, and feel and give back to those who like us with our hearts. Because, no matter what kind of liking, it is the warmest part of life, so that we are no longer lonely in this world.