There is a tradition in China that raising children to prevent old age, but not all of them are like this, and some are even better not to raise than to raise, because some children are very ruthless and do not have a little gratitude for nurturing.
Recently, a Shanghai uncle exposed the bleak ending of a pair of parents in Shanghai, which made people feel extremely sad. Because the old couple had three children, a son and two daughters, but when the old man died, none of them wanted to come back to see them off for the last time.
Let's call him Guo Ye! Guo Ye said that these two old people are his friends, and they are both senior professors of famous universities, and they have cultivated their three children well, and they all hope that they will be promising, so they sent their three children to study in a beautiful country.
At that time, it was the eighties and nineties, when the gap between China and the United States was very large, and the United States was probably a place that many people yearn for and worship, and it felt an honor to be able to send their children there. But after sending their children out, they didn't come back to see them.
Later, when the two old people got old, they were entrusted to be sent to a nursing home and handed over everything to the nursing home. Of course, they have money, and the nursing home is also good, with independent suites.
But as time passed, the old man grew older and older, and his health also had problems, and the old mother's health deteriorated until she was admitted to the hospital, but still no one came back to take a look. The children all said in unison: "I can use as much money as I need, but I don't have time to come back."
But they know that their parents are retired as senior professors, and they may have other side income, so where will they need their money.
It's incredible that the mother died a few years later, and she never got a hug from her children.
From then on, their old father no longer had the joy and laughter of the past, the silence became his words, and the other old people in the nursing home did not speak anymore, because at that moment he knew that the children would never come back, and he knew that the "only" loved one was gone.
Years later, the old father was gone, and the nursing home called the children of the old man, hoping that one would come back. But they were still so indifferent, telling the nursing home, "All of them have been entrusted to your nursing home, just send the photos and videos"
Then I paid for the grave, and it was really all handed over to the nursing home, and no child came back to see his parents from beginning to end. The key is that the inheritance of the two old men is inherited by them, and it is estimated that they will not come back until the old man is gone.
In the eyes of Guo Ye, a friend of the two old men, this is very tragic, and none of the three children can be relied on.
Guo Ye believes that although none of his children have studied abroad, they may not be so knowledgeable. But even if we don't live together, we come to visit often and call to say hello, which is very gratifying.
Guo Ye said that when he talked to this blogger about this matter now, he felt very uncomfortable, because he was an old friend who had known him for many years, and so many children couldn't wait for them.
Guo Ye also said that in the metropolis of Shanghai, there are really some people whose lives are like this, but this part of the people will not tell the truth even if they are very painful in their hearts, and whenever they are asked about their children, they will say that they are very good, that is, they love face.
After the incident was exposed, it attracted heated discussions among countless netizens.
It is indeed very tragic to have children who have no one to take care of, especially when they are trained to become talents, but no one looks at them until they die. But some netizens think that this is not tragic, but the tragic thing is to bring children to their children. Such a thought really does not dare to compliment, is it also a pain to bring grandchildren?
Some people think that as long as the children are good, what else do they want in return, this is the heart of parents. The person who said this is estimated to be still young, and when he is old and sick, no one will know how to call his children.
Some netizens also broke the news about similar examples around them, but some thought that it was meaningless to come back after passing away. I just want to ask this netizen, just like the reply from the netizen below, is it pointless to send the person who gave birth to you and raised you for a ride?
There are also many netizens who say that the smarter people are, the less they know how to be grateful, because they will weigh the pros and cons. I don't think it's a trade-off, it's extremely selfish.
Finally, I would like to say
I believe that every parent wants their children to be successful, but at the same time, they also hope that they can be by their side when they are old and unable to move, and at least hope that they will definitely want to see their children before they leave this world, which is a fact.
In other words, I hope that every child has the ability to be kind to their parents and be present to them when they need it! If you don't come back for decades, don't say that you're by your side at the end, and you don't even come to send you on the last trip, aren't you afraid of encountering such a cycle? It's really embarrassing!