Zhang Ailing: Never give up your career for a man
In the vast river of history, countless women have crossed the sky like meteors, leaving a bright light. They may be as gentle as water or tough as steel, but without exception, they all have a unique charm - that is, the spirit of independence and self-improvement.
Today, I would like to talk about this far-reaching writer Zhang Ailing, who once warned us: "Never give up your career for a man, what can really make you evenly matched is not your appearance and figure, but the ability to make money." This sentence is like a bright light in the dark night, illuminating the way forward.
Zhang Ailing, a woman who carries countless legends behind her name. She depicts vivid female images with delicate brushstrokes, allowing us to feel their love and hatred between the words. In her works, women are no longer passive recipients, but subjects who bravely pursue themselves and realize their values. It is this spirit of independence and self-improvement that has allowed Zhang Ailing's works to transcend time and space and become the spiritual comfort of generations of women.
However, in real life, many women still face various difficulties. They may have given up their careers because of love, or they may have sacrificed their dreams because of their families. Such a choice seems great, but in fact it is regrettable. Because in this world, what can really make women and men equal is not their appearance and figure, but their ability to make money.
Although appearance and figure can bring women short-term self-confidence, they cannot become the foundation of their foothold in society after all. Only ability and wisdom can accompany women through a long journey of life. And the ability to make money is the embodiment of ability and wisdom. It allows women to achieve material independence and get rid of their dependence on men; Spiritually, it can also make women more confident and more determined to follow their own path.
When we have the ability to make money, we are free to choose the lifestyle we want. We can pursue our dreams, we can travel the world, we can taste good food, we can read books...... These beautiful things are all exchanged for our hard work and sweat.
And when we give up our careers for the sake of men, we can lose it all. We may become dependent on others, lose ourselves, and even lose the courage to pursue happiness. How can such a life be called beautiful?
Of course, some people will say, "Love is beautiful, and I am willing to give up everything for love." "But what I want to say is that true love is based on equality and respect. When we give up our careers and dreams in love, we lose the qualification to be evenly matched with each other. How can such love be called true love?
Therefore, I would like to tell all my female friends: never give up your career for a man. We must be brave enough to pursue our dreams and strive to realize our values. When we have the ability to make money, we can truly be on par with men and gain a foothold in this world.
At the same time, we must also learn to respect and love ourselves. We should value our time and energy and not lose ourselves in order to cater to others. May we all become independent and self-reliant women who bravely pursue our dreams and happiness!