Most women don't want men to be playful. Because, this is suspected of deceiving one's own sincerity.
Especially some men, who switch seamlessly, quickly change to a new girlfriend, get married and have children. It's as if he was acting in the past.
It's very hurtful.
For women, the most fearful thing is that they pay by mistake. Therefore, it is very important to identify whether a man is serious or not.
In fact, you can read a lot by looking at these 3 details of men.
01 See if he longs for you to live together
In reality, men's attitudes towards love are actually different.
Some men only crave momentary happiness, they pursue excitement and freshness.
And there are some men, who are serious, and will think long-term.
and even took the initiative to mention the days after your marriage in the future.
Of course, some men just want to take advantage of you when they mention cohabitation. This, you must distinguish between them.
For example, after some men have been dating for a period of time, they will take the initiative to talk about what obstacles they will have if they get married and how to overcome them.
He will also talk about getting married, exchange ideas with you about married life, and so on. Let everyone get to know each other.
These things all show that he is considering the possibility of further development.
If a man has been with you for a long time, he hasn't mentioned marriage, objective conditions or anything.
Two points are explained:
Or, he's the one who doesn't think about marriage.
Or, he just doesn't want to stay with you for a long time.
You have to think it through in time, figure out what you think, and don't delay yourself.
02 What is his attitude towards you?
In fact, judging whether a man is serious or not can be judged from his daily behavior and words.
Some men's actions, at a glance, know that they are serious.
And some men are just using this relationship to pass the time. And then in camouflage.
For example, when some men are bored, they call ambiguous women, meet for dinner, and go on dates.
But after a long time, the relationship never advances. But for women, they come and go when they are called.
This shows that this man has no intention of taking it seriously.
Even if he has a good impression of this woman, he does not include the woman in a serious relationship.
Women don't deceive themselves.
Some men treat themselves with disconnected behavior. But never, not seriously.
This kind of evasive relationship is not worth cherishing.
If it lasts for a long time, it will only hurt the woman.
03 Whether or not a lot of things are paid
In fact, a man, whether he is playing or is very serious, you can see what he pays.
Most of us, only for the people and things we desire, will give a lot. For other things, it is a dime a dime an attitude.
It's almost a certainty.
For example, a man takes the initiative to consider the woman's preferences, and then buys a diamond ring and a house.
He can take the initiative to take on the responsibility of providing for his family.
To be honest, these things are all real giving, not empty words and white teeth, deceiving people's behavior.
It's not about women, painting flatbread.
In love, a woman must read a man.
Otherwise, you will only fall into an uncertain relationship with a man who doesn't understand. In the end, perhaps, there were quite a lot of injuries.
Don't develop a relationship with a man who is not serious by nature. Don't play with men either, seriously.
Otherwise, in love, the one who is bruised all over her body will eventually be a woman. Isn't it?