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I'm 70 years old, and I still want children, is it realistic?
The marriage of 73-year-old director Zhang Jizhong and 42-year-old Du Xinglin has attracted much attention some time ago.
Not to mention that Zhang Jizhong always wanted a child.
So it's "Lian Po is old, can you still eat?" "Or is it an old man?
What is the reason why Du Xinglin is willing to endure the pain of "tightrope through milk" for Zhang Jizhong?
Not only did I want it, but I also wanted four children
On Du Xinglin's social media, he posted a photo of a pregnancy test showing her pregnancy.
With the text "Let's pick up the pregnancy!" Children are a gift from God and a blessing! ”
The comment area blew up, and someone asked directly.
Is it Lao Zhang's?
What is this birth?
Faced with these problems, Du Xinglin also responded directly.
This is already her and Zhang Jizhong's fourth child.
The first meeting and acquaintance of the two
The two of them gradually developed a deep relationship through frequent contact at work.
Even though the age span of the two is very large, Zhang Jizhong's age of 70 is almost the same as his father-in-law.
But even so, the two were attracted to each other because of their common artistic pursuits, and gradually developed a deep affection.
and finally came together and got married.
The road to marriage is smooth, but wanting children is far away
After the two got married, doubts from the outside world kept coming.
Among them, there are also critics of Zhang Jizhong's "old cows eat tender grass".
I thought it was another combination of old husbands and young wives in the entertainment industry, but time will always give people the answer.
The small life of the two of them is getting better and better, and those gossips from the outside world naturally break down.
But although the life of the two after marriage is getting better and better, one of the biggest problems has plagued the two.
"Having a child"
When they got married, Du Xinglin was 35 years old, and Zhang Jizhong was 66 years old.
Everyone thought that the two just wanted to live a carefree life for the two, but how did they suddenly have the idea of having a child?
This decision has caused quite a bit of controversy online.
Netizens have questioned, at such an age, an elderly mother, and a woman who has been half-cut into the ground, still want to have a child?
It's a dream.
Du Xinglin knew that it was difficult, but Zhang Jizhong's insistence made her firm, even if it was difficult, she had to give it a try.
Randomly, she popularized science to netizens, a man can still have children at the age of 70.
In theory, yes, yes, but in reality it's too difficult.
The road to a child is extremely difficult
Du Xinglin experienced many setbacks and disappointments in the process of preparing for pregnancy.
After all, the pressure of age cannot be ignored.
In order to be able to get pregnant smoothly, Du Xinglin tried various methods, including traditional Chinese medicine conditioning, "test tube", and even folk home remedies, and tried them all.
The pain of the road to seeking a child is only known to her.
It was an indescribable ordeal.
Every ovulation injection and egg retrieval is a test for both body and mind.
During that time, she had to get injections almost every day to secure the fetus, and there were needle holes everywhere on her body.
After more than two years, it ended in failure.
Still, the good news has been long overdue.
Failure after failure is tantamount to a heavy blow to the couple.
Every failure makes the husband and wife exhausted.
But Du Xinglin never had the idea of giving up, she must give Zhang Jizhong a child.
Keep the clouds open and see the moon
For two years, she stuck to the front line of childbirth like a soldier.
Finally, in 2019, she ushered in her little angel and added a new life to the old Zhang family.
However, just when everyone is immersed in the joy of a new life.
Du Xinglin's life and death in the operating room are uncertain.
Thanks to the tireless efforts of the medical staff, she was brought back from the brink of death.
The postpartum days were a long dark period for her.
Every new mother may face blocked mammary glands.
In order to allow her son to enjoy the nourishment of breast milk, she endured unimaginable pain, and even took the extreme measure of "tightrope through breastfeed".
And behind all this, is her deep and firm love for Zhang Jizhong.
It is this love that has supported her through one difficulty after another.
Du Xinglin once said in an interview.
Although the journey was very difficult, and the pain of "tightrope through the breast" made her feel extremely painful, she never regretted her choice.
Why do you have to have a son?
To understand why Zhang Jizhong is so eager to have a child, it is necessary to review his family background and marriage experience.
Zhang Jizhong has had several marriages, and in the previous marriages, he has not been able to get a son as he wished.
This also became a regret in his heart.
Therefore, when he met Du Xinglin, the two decided to have a child together and made great efforts to achieve it.
Fortunately, in the end, he got his wish, I really can't imagine how many sins Du Xinglin would have suffered if he was still a daughter.
epilogue
For the sake of Zhang Jizhong and their family, Du Xinglin is willing to endure the great pain and sacrifice in the process of childbirth.
She as a mother, which is undoubtedly a great show.
In this impetuous era, even if you cross such a large age difference, it is very rare to be able to advance and retreat together.
Here, I also wish the two of them happiness forever.
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