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Remember, if kindness is not respected, then the most direct way to solve the relationship is to turn the other cheek. When you realize that your interests are being violated, be sure to turn your face on the spot, and the villain will not come to pit you because you are a gentleman. In the adult world, bullying the weak and fearing the hard, and the weak eating the strong, is the common problem of most people. ---- Warren Buffett
Looking back, I can only describe myself as paranoid. But in reality, I had to bow my head again, because I really didn't achieve anything. After all, poetry and distance are things that only come in dreams.
For the title of this article, I've had several sleepless nights. I often try to relax myself, but it never gets the desired effect. I've been a little inspired lately, but I've found that the topic is so big that I don't know what to say.
(1) Never forget the evil of human nature
When I first arrived at the workplace, I liked to mingle with my colleagues, so I had a lot of dinner with each other after work. At first, I didn't think there was anything wrong, but as my monthly expenses increased, it became clearer and clearer why I had to pay for banquets so often.
My salary is not high, just enough 200 yuan a day, and it is not impossible to invite colleagues to sit down and have a meal every other time, one is to be able to communicate well and enhance emotions, and the other is that work also needs such relaxation. But in the six months that I have been here, I have to ask for it about once a month, sometimes even twice.
Later, I finally decided that I wanted to be slow down when it came to paying the bills. I didn't take the initiative to pay for the meal, everyone looked at me after the meal, and in the end, I still paid the bill. It was from that moment that I felt that the evil of human nature is not something that we can describe in words, but is always hidden in the deepest part of the human heart, manifested in the trade-off of interests.
When others see you as a kind of power, you are a weakling, no matter where you live. Sometimes it is kidnapped by morality, sometimes it is bound by the so-called affection, and sometimes it is even burdened by family affection, but all of this is based on your contribution and based on the exploitation of you.
Usually you always let others rub the car for free, once one day you have something to do and it is not convenient, you may be told a thing or two. You work hard about everything at home, and if you don't deal with it quickly one day, there may be several people who criticize you. In the unit, you do your best to deal with all the extra things, and once one day you need help with something, some people will say that you are a big problem.
Before, I always felt a little nervous and very sensitive. A lot of things are always thought about over and over again, and things that should be rejected are always not refused. brought too many troubles in life into my heart, so in such a year or two, gray hair actually climbed to the head.
After going through a lot of things, I no longer give myself so many obligations, I will do what I should do, I should not be absolutely silent, the embarrassing scene will continue to be embarrassing, I will never break this embarrassment. If there is no turmoil in the heart, there will be no pressure in the heart, so that you will not think about the east and the west.
(2) Life is like a play, as long as you work hard, one day you will be the protagonist
We know the evils of human nature, but we must know how to deal with them. Life is originally a drama, true and false, false and true, who can say clearly?
But work hard, because inside and outside the play, people can only remember the main character. All unfairness, all unlucky, but always remember to be good to yourself and don't give up on yourself.
Cultivation is not only about cultivating the body and maintaining good health, but also about cultivating the mind and forging inner strength. Whether it is amorous or ruthless, it is just a scene in which you star, and you always remember that you want to win the final victory.
When everyone is busy rolling around, you must stay awake, work silently, continue to strengthen yourself, accumulate strength for yourself, upgrade yourself, and when the opportunity comes, you will soar into the sky and become a blockbuster.
When you should pretend, you have to pretend, when you should coax, why can't you put it down? If you can't let go of the present, you can't win the future, and if you can't let go of the past, it's impossible to break through yourself.