When people reach old age, they are afraid that their children will not be filial, and when they are old and frail, no one will take care of themselves, so they can only lament that "it is difficult to be old, and it is difficult to be old." ”
If you think clearly, the elderly with good economic conditions simply don't need to take care of their children, buy a house that combines medical care and elderly care, or live directly in a pension apartment, saving their children trouble.
Although there are several children, one does not want to take care of the support, and the rest are also compared with each other, no one wants to suffer, fortunately the elderly have a pension and can afford the cost of the apartment.
When the elderly arrive at the New Year, they don't want to go home, and they feel very comfortable and happy in the pension apartment.
Children who don't know how to be grateful are often used to by the elderly:
1. Pay too much and get the due return
It is said that the daughter is the mother's intimate little quilt, and when she is old, she originally wanted to count on her daughter, because she has given her daughter a lot of love and care since she was a child, and they all say that they are "patriarchal", but some old people are "patriarchal".
looked at his granddaughter from a young age, but his granddaughter was not taken care of. I thought that I had helped the children a lot, and I would be taken care of by my daughter when I was old.
But who knows that the world is unpredictable, the old man wants to go to his daughter's house to live, but he refuses for various reasons, and he stays there, but he also looks at him coldly, and the old man looks at it silently, and he doesn't want to be wronged.
The son didn't take care of him much since he was a child, and his daughter-in-law didn't take care of the confinement child, but when he got old, he lived comfortably at his son's house.
2. Children who don't know how to be grateful are used to the elderly
In a family with many children, the more the elderly love whom, give more material to whom, and give more care, there are obvious injustices and biases between the children.
The old man himself took care of who he took care of a lot and knew in his heart, but in old age, the most beloved child pushed himself out, and the old man's sadness can be imagined.
The child takes advantage as a habit and does not want to suffer a loss. In the process of getting along with their children, the elderly still have to be even-handed and impartial, and the responsibility of the children should be borne by himself.
When you are hurt, you have to dare to speak out, some old people don't dare to say anything, for fear of refusal, and the child will not care about himself, which is really pitiful.
The elderly must be dignified and dare to uphold justice, so that family relations can be harmonious, and it is also a reward not to let honest and filial children suffer.
Write at the end
There is nothing wrong with loving children, loving children is to teach children a sense of responsibility, if you want children to be filial, you must set an example, treat the elderly well, and treat every child fairly, but in this way the old age can rely on the old.
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