01. Introduction

The woman who fascinates a man is like a kaleidoscope, allowing him to see many sides of her.

It's like a fascinating story, like a song that you never get tired of listening to.

When a man is with her, there are always unexpected surprises, many joyful experiences, and more fun. She has a very "crazy" side, but she makes men love to the heart.

Women, the more "crazy" they are, the more men will be obsessed with you.

02. If a woman is too honest, men will find it boring

I have a cousin who, after getting married, goes home every day to take care of the children and do housework in addition to work.

She didn't have any other activities and no friends.

The words I say to my cousin-in-law every day are almost always repeated. The meals I ate were also the same ones, and there was nothing new.

At first, my cousin-in-law proposed to go on a trip together, to eat delicious food and see wonderful scenery. However, my cousin felt that it was a waste of money and refused.

Later, on Saturdays, her cousin-in-law often invited her to the movies and shopping together. However, my cousin said that it was the same on TV at home, so why bother to go to the cinema and spend money, a ticket would cost dozens of yuan.

Later, after a long time, married life became more and more dull.

Soon after, he betrayed his family and never wanted to return home again.

A woman who is too honest is too conformist, and is accustomed to imprisoning herself in the rules and regulations, so that the color of life is much dimmer and no longer shines.

Sophia Loren said, "Beauty makes you noticeable, wisdom makes you appreciated, and charm makes you hard to forget." ”

Women should make life interesting, not blindly saving money, but learning to "not spoil fun".

Relax properly and play with him. You can go fishing, play games, have a proper romance, and find a feeling of love for each other.

Saving money is necessary, and it's also important to have a good time.

If a woman can make a man's life fun, he will be reluctant to leave you no matter what.

03, be "crazy", don't transform yourself for love

In love, women are most likely to overplease men and forget to manage themselves.

Every day, I pay my attention and energy to the man, care about what he eats, what his preferences are, and how to be a sensible girlfriend by his side.

In fact, over-reforming oneself for the sake of love will only make oneself more unattractive.

Yishu said: "Life is short for decades, and the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others. ”

When you transform yourself again and again, you lose yourself, and you lose your unique personality and charm.

Keep your personality, and men will feel that you are different, that you have personality, and that you have light.

So, it's really okay to live a little "crazy". Don't be too virtuous, too sensible, and change yourself too much for the sake of men.

Enjoy the excitement of this world, eat when you want, play when you want, maintain innocence and curiosity.

Don't be "obedient" to your husband's words, have your own ideas and opinions, and make your life more interesting and "crazy".

Living recklessly will make men see your interesting and personality, and thus become more fascinated by you.

04. Create more surprises and let men play with you

Wei Yingluo in "Yanxi Raiders" is a girl who is very good at creating surprises.

Living in the palace, she did not fall into the internal fighting of the harem in order to compete for the emperor's heart.

She will spend more time managing herself, enriching her life, and creating many surprises for herself and the emperor.

She can make wine, learn to make kites, learn Western dance, and be curious about all things new.

The emperor knew that Wei Yingluo liked to do something out of the ordinary, but he still liked to mess around with her. even, he covered for her and prevented her from being punished by the Queen Mother.

Because, only when he is with her, he feels extra relaxed.

Women, on the same day, can live in many different ways.

Create more surprises, so that every day has different expectations, different happiness and happiness.

Leslie Cheung said: "If there is a good feeling, it is like, and if this kind of like can stand the test, it is love." ”

With a man, don't always follow the rules, but be crazy, go more to life, and surprise him.

When he can play with you, he will be more willing to stay with you for a long time.

05, Wen Qiusheng's message

Women, no matter how much you love someone, don't reinvent yourself for him, and don't be too obedient.

Keep your personality and let yourself live a little crazy so that he can't guess you.

When a man doesn't know how many new tricks you still have, he will look forward to you and put more of his heart on you.

Don't let life stay the same, take out more time and energy, and then rub in some small thoughts, you can make life vivid and interesting, and make the relationship between two people show a better attitude.

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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.