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Between men and women, high-quality relationships have always been mutually nourishing:
1: We know what we want to say and stop talking about, but we never maliciously speculate on each other;
2: I understand your fragility and weakness, but we never expose each other's scars;
3: We are all short-term people, but we will not really distinguish between right and wrong for each other;
4: We are all doing things that are altruistic to the majority and self-serving to the few, but we still follow human nature together!
A healthy relationship is one that heals each other, and the wrong relationship is an illusion that you think is right at first sight!
Whether it is a lover or a husband and wife, the loss of these 3 feelings shows that the fate is scattered, and it is useless to force it!
1: The feeling of not being protected anymore
The word protection, at first glance, looks like physical protection!
In fact, the highest level of protection between people is the protection of the soul and the healing of wounds!
Whether it is a lover or a husband and wife, the really right person will know all your scars and do everything possible to make you dilute the pain and pay attention to the present!
And the wrong person will say all the love words and do all the empathy when the wind and waves are calm, once a little wind and rain comes, this person will uncover your scars and sting you as soon as possible, conceptualize you, and make you miserable!
Between men and women, the best protection is that even if I know we can't go on, I won't use your scars as an excuse to coerce you to leave me!
Between men and women, the most gentle healing is to never let the person in front of you suffer in the past suffer again!
2: There is no longer the direction of the sun, but more helplessness and confusion
Between men and women, regardless of whether they are lovers or husband and wife, the best thing to be together is to give each other enough positive help to move forward, so that each other has full motivation!
The right person, looking at each other in pairs is worth it, and it is the direction of continuous improvement!
The wrong person is a drag, a deep sense of boredom in life, and even a dull sense of life!
Good feelings, in addition to the passion of hormones, also have a little righteousness in the rivers and lakes, and there is also a clumsy pay.
It is precisely because of the passion that is dull, it is precisely because of the recognition that they tie each other to a rope, and it is precisely because of clumsiness that there is less calculation and more pay!
Many times, whether the person you are facing is the right person or not, your inner perception is the answer!
When you feel that your luck is being compromised, when you feel that your positive energy is being consumed, remember to turn around!
3: There is no longer a sense of solidity and security
When two people are together, a sense of security and a sense of steadiness are the necessary premise of the relationship where both parties need and meet each other.
When one party places hope on the other but can't get back the least sense of security and steadiness, remember:
Nine times out of ten, this relationship will not go to the end!
As the saying goes, trust destruction is easier than building!
Whether it is emotional betrayal or the imbalance of the ability to help each other in reality, or the inequality of value exchange, it will bring a sense of security and a lack of steadiness to the relationship!
True love, a long-term relationship, and a lack of security and a sense of steadfastness are destined not to end well!
A good relationship will definitely help people dispel their inner fears and insecurity, and give them the strength to move forward fearlessly and steadfastly.
The right relationship can alleviate half of the suffering in life, and the right person can heal all the wounds in the first half of your life!
Therefore, when you are in a relationship, whether you are facing a lover relationship or a husband and wife relationship, you can't experience being protected, confused and helpless, and no longer have a sense of steadiness and security, remember to stop losses in time!
Negative emotions are common to all, and when you are willing to put them aside, you can not be bound by them. Ultimately, it's up to you to do that!
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He is a high-quality author in the field of emotion, a professional counselor, and has provided valuable and meaningful help to many counselors. I have rich experience in marriage, relationships, interpersonal relationships, etc., if you have any emotional confusion, please feel free to consult me.
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