Text: Kapok
It's 21:00 in the evening, Li Li (pseudonym) overturned the table at home in front of her father-in-law and mother-in-law, and called her husband, who was dealing with it outside: "You go home immediately, otherwise I'll order the house in a while!" ”
Li Li didn't wait for her husband to answer, and hung up the phone.
At this time, the mother-in-law called Li Li's husband again, and as soon as the phone was connected, the mother-in-law cried without speaking: "Son, come back quickly, your daughter-in-law is crazy and smashed everything in the house!" ”
After two phone calls, Li Li's husband came back a short time later.
As soon as he entered the door, the husband saw the table in the dining room that had been overturned by his wife, as well as the food and dishes on the floor.
Next, Li Li told everyone the reason why she couldn't bear it anymore and flipped the table angrily.
01, a husband who drinks and a busy wife.
Li Li introduced that she is 37 years old, has been married for 10 years, has a son and a daughter, a daughter is 9 years old, and a son is 4 years old.
But Li Li's husband is always at home to eat and stretch out his hand, and he can't count on anything. My husband's mantra is always three words: "I won't!" "I'll do it later!" "You think I'm not doing a good job, you can do it yourself!"
To add insult to injury, Li Li's mother was recently hospitalized with illness, and Li Li had to go to the hospital to take care of her mother for two hours after work every day before she could go home.
Originally, it was good to let her husband pick up the two children from school, but Li Li received a call from her husband when she was about to get off work, and her husband said that there was a party in the evening and asked Li Li to pick up the children by herself.
Li Li was so angry that she asked her husband on the phone: "What entertainment is more important than picking up your children from school?" ”
The husband didn't squeak at first, and Li Li said aggrievedly: "I get up at 5:30 in the morning and start working, and I can't rest until 23:00 in the evening, are you hard-hearted?" Do you have to exhaust me to death? After Li Li finished speaking, she actually cried with a whimper.
But her husband did not feel pity for Li Li's crying, but said impatiently: "I am a man, it is appropriate to have entertainment, this year's office Sister Wang's birthday, everyone goes, I don't look good if I don't go!" ”
When Li Li heard that this was the reason, she trembled even more angrily, and roared on the phone: "In order to celebrate other women's birthdays, you don't care about your wife's fatigue, life or death, and don't care about your children going to school, are you still a man?" ”
But Li Li's roar did not make her husband feel even a little guilty, but instead angered her husband and threw down a sentence: "Anyway, I told you in advance, I can't pick up the child, you can do it yourself!" After saying that, he hung up the phone.
Let Li Li be angry, anxious, and crazy, and her husband will not answer the phone or reply to WeChat.
In this way, Li Li had to get off work, riding an electric car to the child's school quickly, it happened to rain a little that day, the road was very slippery, at a bend, Li Li even fell to the ground with the car, her calves and knees were worn out, but Li Li didn't care about dealing with her own wounds, helped the car up, and continued to rush to the child's school, first went to the kindergarten to pick up her daughter, and then went to the primary school to pick up her son, and after sending the child home, she hurried to the hospital.
02. Leftovers on the table and 180 yuan takeaway.
In this way, after taking care of her mother for two hours, Li Li hurried to the house again, and it was already 20:30 in the evening.
The mother-in-law had not yet cooked at this time.
Li Li couldn't help asking, "Mom, why haven't you cooked yet?" ”
The mother-in-law said while watching TV: "The child ate some snacks after school, and I am not hungry, I ate too much at noon, and I have a long nap, and I am not hungry, and Binzi (Li Li's husband) is not at home, so I don't know what to cook!" ”
When Li Li heard this, she instantly became angry, and said to her mother-in-law: "Mom, the whole family is not only you, your son, your grandson, granddaughter, but also me, I am also a person, I need to eat!" ”
Li Li originally planned to cook by herself, but her son said that she couldn't do homework and needed her tutoring, and the two school uniforms that the child had changed out of had to be washed by hand, and the child would have to wear them tomorrow, so she asked her mother-in-law to cook.
When Li Li finished tutoring the children's homework, washed the clothes, and prepared to eat, Li Li found that her mother-in-law just added some water to the leftover millet porridge in the morning, heated it up, and there was a plate of shredded potatoes with a small amount on the table.
Li Li said to her mother-in-law: "Mom, these shredded potatoes are not enough to eat!" After saying that, Li Li went to the balcony to dry her clothes.
When Li Li finished drying her clothes and came to the restaurant, she found that there was another dish on the table, cold bitter gourd, and seeing the black color of bitter gourd completely soaked in soy sauce, Li Li knew that this dish must be left over in the morning.
Li Li continued to say to her mother-in-law: "Mom, the children and I don't eat bitter melons! ”
The mother-in-law said unhappily at this time: "Binzi is not eating at home, just a few of our mothers, I can't eat a few bites, and it's night, do you have to eat big fish and meat?" If you don't cook, don't be too picky! ”
Li Li didn't argue with her mother-in-law, walked to the refrigerator, opened the refrigerator, took out the prawns in the freezer area of the refrigerator, and said to the two children: "Children, is it okay for mom to cook prawns for you?" ”
But as soon as Li Li's words fell, her mother-in-law came over, snatched the frozen shrimp from Li Li's hand, and said sternly: "Why are you so greedy, the children didn't say they wanted to eat prawns." When Binzi is there one day, isn't it good to eat together as a family, there are still meat dishes in the refrigerator, and I will talk about it after eating. ”
After the mother-in-law finished speaking, she took out a plate of fried pork slices with broccoli from the refrigerated area of the refrigerator and put it on the table, needless to say, it was leftovers from noon.
Li Li looked at the pot of leftover porridge mixed with water on the table, 3 plates of leftovers, and was angry, but she didn't want to conflict with her mother-in-law, so she went back to her room and ordered a takeout for 180 yuan.
03, 掀桌子.
Seeing that no one ate the food she cooked, her mother-in-law was very unhappy and began to nag Li Li for not knowing thrift and gratitude, but Li Li did not leave the house and did not respond.
After a while, the doorbell rang, and Li Li knew that the takeaway she ordered had arrived, so she immediately went to open the door and took the takeaway.
When the mother-in-law saw that there were fish, meat, and barbecue in the takeaway ordered by Li Li, she was instantly unhappy and asked, "How much do you get for so much food?" ”
Li Li replied: "180 for takeaway, 15 for food delivery errands!" ”
The mother-in-law was on fire, and asked Li Li again: "How much money do you earn a day?" Did you know that you eat up 2 days of your salary by eating this meal? Why do you eat like this? Do you have what it takes? To put it bluntly, you don't earn enough to spend, and in the end, you don't have to eat my son's and drink my son's? ”
Li Li listened to her mother-in-law's count, and did not answer, but opened the takeaway box neatly and began to eat, she was so hungry and so angry, and now there was nothing to calm her anger except eating.
But the mother-in-law snatched the barbecue from Li Li's hand at this time, repacked it in a fast food box, walked to the refrigerator, and said as she walked: "Put the refrigerator first, and wait for Binzi to come back to eat together, or give him hot tomorrow for him to eat, he likes to eat barbecue the most, he can't make money outside, let you eat and drink!" ”
At this time, Li Li couldn't bear it anymore, and suddenly turned the table with a pot of leftover porridge and 3 plates of leftovers upside down.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began a fierce quarrel, so there was a scene at the beginning of the article.
04. Write at the end
After listening to Li Li's story, it was really suffocating.
In marriage, a mother-in-law who protects her son, who does not distinguish between right and wrong, and an irresponsible and irresponsible husband is the biggest disaster for a woman, Li Li is very unlucky, she has encountered such a mother-in-law and her husband.
In fact, there are many women like Li Li in life, their efforts are not seen, their efforts are not understood, there is no one to help them when they are in difficulty, and the marriage of the two people is never as good as being single.
Some people say that such a marriage is not as good as divorce; Some people say that such a marriage is fate, boil!
However, divorce is not the best way to solve the problem, and it is so sad that after decades of marriage, it all depends on one word.
In the face of such a dilemma, I want to solve only one way: women's own strength, physical, mental, and economic independence, and only in this way can women have the freedom to choose.
May the above words be encouraged by my readers!
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