Love will always be mixed with some selfishness, mixed with ties, mixed with untidy and chaotic emotions.
As long as you are still in love, you can't get around the control, and you can't avoid some disputes.
Sometimes, instead of "following" you, it is out of the subconscious of love.
When a man becomes inconsiderate and obedient to you in these matters, you have to be careful, this is not a sign of love, but a preparation to leave.
After a quarrel, do not coax or retain, and deal with it negatively
In the movie "Predecessor 3", after Lin Jia and Meng Yun had a quarrel, Lin Jia packed up and left the home of the two people, and Meng Yun watched without any action.
He thought that Lin Jia was just making trouble at random, and he didn't think about really leaving.
After that, the two of them were angry with each other and ignored each other. The two people who originally loved each other were completely separated like this.
I didn't understand before, why did they separate when they were in love?
Later, I realized that in fact, the two of them had expected the breakup in their hearts.
seems to be too sure of love, one thinks it won't go, and the other thinks it will stay.
In fact, it's just that the love is not firm enough, if it is really deep love, it will definitely take the initiative to keep it, and will not take any action and deal with it negatively.
If a man doesn't coax or keep after a quarrel, let you leave, let you vent, there is a high probability that he is ready to leave.
Socially follow you, no matter who you're with or how late you play, don't ask
In the previous unit, there was a male colleague who got along for a long time before he knew that he had been divorced.
His ex-wife is a very fun-loving person and often plays until midnight and does not come home.
And there are many friends of the opposite sex, who don't know how to keep a distance from the opposite sex.
Male colleagues often go to various bars, KTVs to find her, quarrel with her many times, and let her go home.
But his ex-wife was unmoved, and thought he was too lenient.
Later, the male colleague didn't care about his ex-wife, didn't care about her social interactions, no matter how long he played, who he was with, he didn't care anymore, because he was ready for divorce.
Cai Kangyong said:
If he misses you, he will look for you, if he wants you, he will say, if he cares about you, he will show his true feelings, and if none of this happens, then he will not bother you.
If a man doesn't do anything, he doesn't care about anything, which means that he doesn't want to have anything to do with you anymore.
I don't have anything to do with you, I can toss it up and down
Zhang Ailing said:
Once people are not afraid of losing, the attitude will become free.
It's that completely negative and indifferent attitude that completely separates you from him.
"Whatever", "It doesn't matter", "It's not necessary", that's the mentality.
Whatever you say, whatever you do, no matter what you do, don't participate.
Even if you ask him to give you some advice, he is unmoved and completely cold.
What clothes you wear, what you do, hurt your body, you break down and cry in front of him, he won't look at you.
He won't share his own things with you enthusiastically, and he won't be interested in what you share.
He doesn't care about you, he doesn't restrain you, he doesn't ask you what path you want to take, what you want to do.
Toss as you want, let you eat and drink as much as you want, don't worry about your health, let you live in chaos, and won't spur you forward.
Such indifference is actually to tell you that he no longer loves you and is about to leave you.
Zhang Ailing said:
Love is not complicated, it comes and goes in three words, it's not that I love you, I hate you, just forget it.
"Forget it" is the signal that a relationship is dissolved.
Forget it, we'll stop here. I don't want to know anything about you, so let's stop asking, so I'll leave it at that.
The above behavior of the man is telling you that "I am leaving".