Bao's second daughter-in-law committed suicide out of fear; Song Huilian committed suicide out of despair.
Bao Er's family and Song Huilian are both daughters-in-law of the family, and they are both cheating with the male host, and they are all discovered. The difference is that Jia Lian, the cheating object of the Bao Er family, is not only the third generation in the big family, but also "since marrying his wife, there is no one who does not praise his wife, and Lian Ye has regressed." And Song Huilian's cheating object is Ximenqing.
Ximenqing's parents died early, and he had no brothers and no one to take care of him. What's more, he is "most accustomed to beating women and boiling wives, and he is in charge of picking and selling people, and if he doesn't like it, he will make the matchmaker sell" - this is what Uncle Zhang said when he broke the media, which seems to be exaggerated, but in fact, it is very true when you study it carefully.
Ximen Qing once beat Pan Jinlian and Li Bei'er with a whip, and kicked Sun Xue'e. Although he did not directly "make the matchmaker sell" the little wife, in order to please the housekeeper of the Taishi Mansion, he wanted to "embroider spring in Sister Li's room, and go with him". Sister Li is Li Bei'er, and her maid embroidered spring was "accepted" by Ximen Qingzeng. Therefore, the side criticism is "not hesitating to give his wife and children". Flattery and power are one thing, and it can also be seen if you don't treat the little wife (Xiuchun is a maid in the room, and she can be regarded as a little wife).
Jia Lian is weak and can't afford to provoke Wang Xifeng, so his affair with Bao's second daughter-in-law was discovered by Wang Xifeng, and he only cares about his own struggle to solve his embarrassment, and he definitely can't care about protecting Bao's second family. Of course, Bao Erjia understands this truth, and also knows that Wang Xifeng is too busy now, and he will definitely clean himself up when he is idle another day, and he will definitely make his life worse than death.
Wang Xifeng's cleaning up Bao Er's family is no more difficult than twisting an ant to death. Bao Er is "weak and incompetent", although he "does not theoretical" his wife's "messing with flowers", he definitely does not dare or want to protect his wife. The future life is more terrifying than death, so the Bao Er family would rather die.
Song Huilian was favored by Ximenqing, his wife and concubine were far less powerful than Wang Xifeng, and no one dared to directly persecute Song Huilian - but it couldn't be "directly", it could be indirectly detoured.
Pan Jinlian didn't make a big fuss with Ximenqing (Ximenqing's whip on her naked body, the pain was still there, so she didn't dare to make a mistake), but showed Song Huilian Ximenqing's trust in herself, and even told herself about her personal relationship with Song; On the other hand, he slandered Ximenqing Dajin, instigated Ximenqing to "be ruthless and ruthless, and the slave was fruitful", and sent Lai Wang'er (Song Huilian is the wife of the little girl Lai Wang'er) from afar.
Song Huilian has lost both her husband Lai Wang'er (nominal) and Ximenqing's trust (she believed the message Pan Jinlian passed to her), and there is no hope for her future life. So he committed suicide in despair.
"Dream of Red Mansions" "writes about love", but it is written about pure love, although it also involves erotic love, it is just dyed, and it stops at the point; "Golden Vase Plum" is written about the market, and more erotic feelings are written, "Chunmei, Meng Yulou, and even Pan Jinlian's personality is to stimulate each other with him to act in order to have drama and life", the competition for favor and persecution between women is the main content of the book.