In a relationship, the status of two people should be equal, and the more equal they are, the more stable the relationship will be, and the longer they can go. In life, we often see that wives care about their husbands like partners, is this a manifestation of love equality and cooperation?
Whether love is equal or not depends entirely on the person being taken care of, not on the one who gives. Let go of ego, someone who truly loves you will do. Isn't it what everyone should do if they love themselves and give them love and respect in response?
Some people are so used to being pampered that they take it for granted to enjoy the unreserved love of others, and some even develop a sense of superiority. This attitude can lead to an imbalance in the love between the two and eventually lead to a breakdown.
Jiang De is a very successful person, and he still has a successful career in middle age, with a wife Juanjuan who loves him deeply, and two lovely children, a son and a daughter, which make his employees envious and have always regarded him as a role model.
The lady Juanjuan is a very simple and gentle woman, and she is loved by everyone. Every time she delivered food or clothes to Jiang De, she always cared about her colleagues and made everyone feel cordial. We are always amazed in private that the boss has married such a good wife.
However, soon after, everyone found that the hostess of the store had changed, and the owner abandoned his wife, who had been with him and never left him, and married a young new woman. This is deeply regrettable, and once a man has money, it is easy to become untrustworthy.
Since the boss married a new partner, the whole person has become irritable and short-tempered, and even began to fall into the quagmire of alcoholism. The relaxed atmosphere of the company in the past is no longer there, and now every day is spent in a tense atmosphere.
That day, the boss drank wildly, yelled and quarreled in the office, and finally sobbed like a child, and could not listen to anyone else's words at all, and kept begging his wife not to leave, not to leave him.
There are many such people in life, and when their careers soar, they begin to gradually lose themselves, and even forget the person who has always been with her, the woman she owes the most in her life, and as a result, she not only begins to dislike her, but eventually abandons her.
A man who gives up his wife, no matter how good he ends up, has a failed life, will regret it, and his life will be turned upside down. In any case, don't abandon your wife. Otherwise, life will be shrouded in darkness. That's what I'm going to tell you today.
01
You don't know how good it is until you lose it
Some men are so accustomed to their wives that they completely forget that not everyone has such an obligation to be considerate and take care of them.
Why is the newlywed wife not as good as the original? As the saying goes, it takes a lot of time to go through the ups and downs together to develop a deep bond, but how can a newlywed wife understand the hardships you are experiencing?
What you can't have is always upsetting, and you don't know how to regret it until you lose it, which is an inevitable aspect of human nature. However, those who cannot suppress their greed are not destined to experience true love.
02
You will gradually become an unprincipled person
Abandoning one's ex-wife and remarrying is theoretically justified, but morally humiliating.
Just to experience the novelty, to give up a wife who has been with him for many years, is such an act worthy of respect? Not only his friends around him, but also his family were dismissive of such behavior.
If such a thing is done, people will gradually lose their principles, lose themselves, and the trajectory of their lives is likely to undergo a major change, and in the end they may only end up with a ruined family and an unhappy family.
03
After remarrying, she became a nanny instead
Once upon a time, you lived in order and thriving, and that was because someone took on the responsibility of the whole family for you. But when the person who loves you is gone, who will take on the chores for you?
Some women will marry middle-aged men who they don't like very much, mainly because these men have successful careers, bulging wallets, and they want their lives to be better. Of course, if you are such a woman, how can you take care of this middle-aged man like you would treat your own wife?
In the new marriage, the wife is not able to take care of herself as much as she expected. At the same time, life has changed dramatically. On the one hand, you need to bear the blame of the people around you, and on the other hand, you need to meet some unreasonable little demands from your wife. Eventually, she became a nanny herself.
Emotional Interpretation:
Some things can't be put off until they are lost to think about how to get them back, some people can't wait until their hearts are completely dead to think about how to recover them, there is no regret medicine to buy in this world, we are all adults, and some things some people once they become the past, they will never have a chance again.
When a middle-aged man dislikes his ex-wife and marries again, most people regret it and become more and more unhappy. I hope that you will not do things that you will regret for the rest of your life because of a momentary novelty or impulse, and you must stick to your principles and bottom line.