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Wen I Mr. Dong
Editor I Mr. Dong
Recently, the words "lack of love in the family of origin" have been constantly appearing in my sight, which has made me have a strong interest in this topic.
First of all, in an interview with Li Juan on Phoenix Satellite TV in early June, she said that when I needed love the most, I had never been deeply loved, and then no matter how much love I received, I didn't think so.
Later, Xiang Yi recently cried in the live broadcast room about her relatives: she relied on her own tuition for her bachelor's, master's, and doctoral degrees, and her parents did not help her, but helped her brother, and she has always been resentful of her parents.
Since I was a child, I have not been protected by my brother, never, not once, but it is me who treats him, and I feel as if I am a mother.
They are not all the way, but they have something in common, when they were children, their original families lacked love, and when they grew up, they all gained huge wealth, and they still can't let go, and they are both single, and they are a little twisted.
The two states of Xiangyi and Li Juan, the relieved Li Juan, is envied by countless people, Li Juan's words can always find the light of life in suffering, no matter how hard and difficult the life is, it can be easily and wittily expressed with her words, and after reading it, it even makes people have a yearning for suffering. After watching "My Altay", countless people have learned that no matter how bumpy the life is, they must live a shining life!
In the last few live broadcasts, Xiangyi cried about the influence of her family on her, saying that the deepest part of her personality was also influenced by her mother.
Xiangyi said to her parents that the house took a lot of effort, it can be said that it took half a life to get it, she got into her studies, marriage, etc., when she said these words, did you think about how her parents felt, how much pressure they had to bear.
Here's what they say about the mother:
Li Juan did not shy away from writing in the book: "My mother is a person, it's quite good to make friends." It's hard to be a mother and daughter. If we were husband and wife, we would have been divorced hundreds of times. Li Juan said she would never be a child who would satisfy her mother, and that they tried to maintain a semblance of peace, but every once in a while, a war broke out, causing inconsistencies.
Xiangyi talked about her mother: My mother loves me very much, but her love is conditional, from childhood to adulthood, all the efforts done for the family must be known to others, when I was a child, I cut my fingers and bled all over the ground, but I had to show it to my family for people to see.
Most of the unhappy children in the original family are not happy in marriage and love, Xiangyi and Li Juan are not married in their lives, how glamorous they usually look, in fact, their hearts are already full of holes, they live very screwed, they can only fill the holes in their hearts to have a sense of security and become normal, subconsciously they don't believe in unconditional love, and they crave unconditional love, so they often miss a large number of people in self-doubt and repeated temptations.
Li Juan's life is very hard, but Li Juan's language is very happy, and the sentences in the book are really beautiful and intoxicating. In spring, the river bends, the sunset is golden, and the sky is like the sea, which is really refreshing. Summer is warm and bright, and even the shadows are so clear and intense that you want to enjoy the sunshine to the fullest. It is as if you are in it, feeling the breath of the earth, listening to the sound of the wind, and looking at the color of the sky.
Xiangyi's living conditions are very good now, but Xiangyi's heart is very bitter, always complaining, she is always self-centered, just take this thing to teach, the starting point has always been yourself, you want to reconcile with yourself, heal yourself, you want to stand on the podium, you want to be Xiangyi Village Library, the starting point of everything is yourself, she misses her days in college, standing on the podium of the glamour, not really from the perspective of the child, the school perspective, as a starting point to consider and plan, children to review, If she wants to take a vacation, whether she likes to shoot videos or not, it's not for her to consider,
Although these two perspectives ultimately do the same thing, the starting point is different, the attitude is different, and the result is different.
Dong Yuhui has a kind of compassion and compassion, he can capture the ordinary and turbulent inner world of all living beings, which can make netizens empathize. His knowledge reserve and cultural literacy, his values, and his ability to empathize are the reasons why Dong Yuhui has become a benchmark.
Dong Yuhui said: If you care, trivial things can hurt you; If you are relieved, you are not afraid of life through ups and downs, you are clear and down-looking, but also persistent and brave, do your best in everything, and then go with the flow, life is not in vain.
Li Juan's non-explanation, let herself be quiet, you can stay away from the strife, and do what you like.
It is to let time prove "right and wrong"; Not explaining is a kind of realm, which is the heart is calm and indifferent; Not explaining is to avoid "getting darker and darker"; Not explaining is a sign of inner strength; Those who don't explain are working hard and putting aside all distractions.
Recently, after learning about the road of Internet celebrity, it seems that I have found the road to becoming popular in the media, there must be a topic, appear in other people's discussions, and use different expressions to maintain the heat.
The dispute over doctoral degrees is an issue that is easy to prove, but it has to be proved after it becomes a hot topic on the whole network.
The dispute over "fraudulent donations" is about all the proceeds, and there are netizens to testify, and in the end, netizens are still innocent.
The resignation dispute, in fact, to put it bluntly, is that he wants to make more money and gives up on his own initiative, but in the end, it can also be hyped up as a topic on the whole network.
"Blind date", teasing netizens, and finally splashing dirty water on Sister Xi, and still arguing that the blind date was to meet a classmate.
In the end, the "teaching support" incident was over, and it was criticized and criticized by netizens, and a certain platform has a big Internet celebrity protection mechanism.
Xiangyi is a talented, beautiful, and educated blogger, which should be regarded as a scarce resource, and he should not disguise himself as a victim.
There are always people who give her a reason, just graduated and lacks social experience, who is not growing up in the beating of society.
Life is one's own, "there is nothing in the world, mediocrity disturbs itself", right or wrong, God will give you an explanation, sooner or later.