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In 2009, the entertainment industry set off a stormy wave. The well-known Hong Kong actor Luo Jialiang held a grand wedding in Beijing, Hong Kong and Jinan, and married mainland actor Su Yan, who was 12 years younger than him.
Behind this sensational wedding, there is a sad past.
Just a year ago, Luo Jialiang was still in love with his wife Fang Minyi, who had been in love for 28 years.
13 years have passed, Luo Jialiang, who made a choice at the crossroads of love, has he found true happiness now? Let's follow the footsteps of time, walk into this emotional entanglement spanning nearly 30 years, uncover the fog on the road of Luo Jia's love, and explore the true meaning of love, marriage and happiness.
Back in the early 80s, the young Luo Jialiang was just an ordinary draftsman, with a vision for the future, studying diligently in night school. It was in this period full of dreams that he met the quiet and elegant Fang Minyi.
The two young hearts soon collided with sparks of love and embarked on the journey of life hand in hand.
Fang Minyi has become a strong backing for Luo Jialiang's career and life. She not only encouraged Luo Jialiang to participate in the "Hong Kong Rising Star Show Competition" to start his acting career, but also silently took on the responsibility of taking care of daily life after he moved to the film and television industry.
Even when Luo Jialiang's career was at a low point for eight years, Fang Minyi always accompanied him day by day and never gave up.
In 1994, opportunity finally favored the lovers. Luo Jialiang emerged with the role of Yang Kang in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", and his acting career is gradually on the right track.
Two years later, the villain role he created in "Heaven and Earth Boy" made him famous in one fell swoop and became one of the first-line actors. However, even when his career was in full swing, Luo Jialiang still chose to tie the knot with Fang Minyi, who had been in love for many years, and interpreted his deep love for her with practical actions.
In 1998, Luo Jialiang carefully planned a grand wedding for Fang Minyi, officially pushing this love that has been together for 18 years to a new height. The following year, the two were happy with their noble son, and their happy life seemed to begin.
However, life after marriage is not a fairy tale as imagined. As their careers are booming, there are fewer and fewer common topics between Luo Jialiang and Fang Minyi, and the two can even have nothing to say all day long.
Cracks began to appear in the seemingly perfect marriage, and Luo Jialiang revealed in an interview that when his son was three years old, he found it increasingly difficult to communicate with his wife.
Despite this, out of responsibility for their children, the two still maintained their married life for several years.
Just as this relationship was gradually coming to an end, fate arranged the appearance of another woman, opening a new chapter in Luo Jialiang's life. 28 years of love, from an ignorant teenager to a successful one, Luo Jialiang and Fang Minyi have gone through the ups and downs of life hand in hand.
However, the baptism of the years can't stop the passing of feelings after all, and the once vigorous love is still invincible to the test of reality in the end.
In 2007, the gears of fate quietly turned. On the set of the TV series "Perfect Ending", Luo Jialiang met actor Su Yan, who was 12 years younger than him. In stark contrast to the introverted Fang Minyi, Su Yan was enthusiastic and cheerful, good at expression, and soon established a deep friendship with Luo Jialiang.
During the filming, an interesting episode became an opportunity for the relationship between the two to warm up. Su Yan once half-jokingly ridiculed Luo Jialiang's poor Mandarin skills, which made her feel a little troubled during the performance.
In the face of this well-intentioned joke, Luo Jialiang was not annoyed, but humbly asked for advice. He took advantage of his free time on the set to take the initiative to ask Su Yan for Mandarin and strive to improve his pronunciation.
Luo Jialiang's humility and self-motivation deeply touched Su Yan. During a rare break, Su Yan mentioned the skin allergy problem that had plagued her for many years. She half-jokingly said, "If anyone can cure this problem for me, I'll marry him!" This seemingly casual sentence planted a seed of love in Luo Jia's conscience.
Perhaps it was the arrangement of fate that Luo Jialiang really helped Su Yan find a top dermatologist and successfully cured her long-term stubborn disease. This experience deepened the relationship between the two, and they found a spiritual resonance in each other.
Despite this, the two seem to have found the person in each other's hearts. Their encounter seems to be a fateful arrangement, so that the originally parallel life trajectories begin to intertwine.
This fate, which began on the set, finally connected two lonely hearts together, composing a moving love song that transcends age, identity and worldly vision.
In 2008, a news that shocked the entertainment industry was like a thunderbolt: Luo Jialiang and his wife Fang Minyi, who had been together for 28 years, officially divorced. Immediately afterwards, the relationship between Luo Jialiang and Su Yan was exposed, which caused an uproar in the entertainment industry.
The lovers, who are 12 years apart, immediately became the focus of public discussion, and doubts abounded.
Many people pointed the finger at Su Yan, accusing her of playing the role of "little three" and intervening in Luo Jialiang's originally "happy" marriage. At the same time, Luo Jialiang was also labeled as a "negative man", and was accused of ruthlessly abandoning his wife who had been with him for 28 years.
In the face of overwhelming doubts, Luo Jialiang had to speak out publicly.
He resolutely denied the rumors of "Little Three", emphasizing that he and Su Yan only started dating after the divorce. Luo Jialiang said in a firm tone: "The divorce has nothing to do with Su Yan, please don't hurt innocent people!" However, this explanation did not quell speculation, but instead raised more questions.
What's even more embarrassing is that there were rumors at that time that Luo Jialiang "went out of the house" when he divorced. There is an unconfirmed news circulating on the Internet: Fang Minyi was forced to move to a rented house of only 60 square meters with her son because she could not afford the heavy mortgage.
These rumours have further exacerbated public discontent with Law, with many people feeling heartache and anger over what happened to Fang.
However, the turmoil did not affect the relationship between Luo Jialiang and Su Yan. In 2009, they held grand weddings in Beijing, Hong Kong and Jinan, officially entering the marriage hall.
After marriage, Luo Jialiang doted on Su Yan, and no matter what decision she made, he would support her unconditionally.
Over time, the controversy has subsided, but public interest in the marriage remains high.
This sensational marriage change not only changed the life trajectory of several people, but also triggered a deep thinking about marriage, loyalty and responsibility in society. As the dust settles, people are expecting time to give a fair answer.
After marriage, Luo Jialiang and Su Yan faced many challenges in reorganizing their families. Su Yan, who was new to marriage, once expressed his desire to become a Dink, and Luo Jialiang showed full understanding and support for this.
He even half-jokingly referred to himself as a "door-to-door son-in-law", showing respect for his wife's decision. This kind of tolerance and thoughtfulness allows the outside world to see the deep emotional foundation between the couple.
However, life is always full of uncertainties. During the filming of the TV series "My Left Hand and Right Hand", a remark from the old drama bone Zhao Shaohua touched Su Yan's heartstrings. Zhao Shaohua sincerely suggested to Su Yan as a person who came over that childbirth is a great blessing in life and should be considered as soon as possible.
These words made Su Yan begin to rethink the possibility of becoming a mother.
Soon after, the good news came, Su Yan was successfully pregnant. Luo Jialiang was overjoyed to learn the news and couldn't wait to share his joy with the world.
However, at this happy moment, fate presented the newlyweds with a problem: Luo Jialiang's father died tragically. This mixed moment tested the tacit understanding and emotion of the newlyweds.
At the same time, Luo Jialiang's ex-wife Fang Minyi still kept a low profile and took on the responsibility of taking care of the Luo family's in-laws alone. Even after the divorce, she still did her best to manage the Luo family's funeral, showing extraordinary tolerance and kindness.
Her behavior has won the sympathy and support of many netizens, and people can't help but sigh at her generosity.
In the face of complex family relationships, Lo Ka Leung struggles to balance all parties. He increased the amount of child support he paid to his ex-wife in an attempt to make up for his past debts. However, this move has been interpreted by some people as "buying" his ex-wife to clear his name.
In this reconstituted family, everyone is adjusting to their new roles and trying to find their place. Luo Jialiang needs to balance the responsibilities of the new family with the obligations of his ex-wife and children; Su Yan has to learn how to be a good wife and mother; And Fang Minyi, while silently bearing the pain of losing her husband, also has to hold up a piece of the sky for her children.
This process is full of ups and downs, testing everyone's wisdom and patience.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, Luo Jialiang and Su Yan's marriage has gone through 13 spring and autumn. The once noisy doubts gradually dissipated, replaced by admiration for the loving life of the couple.
Su Yan chose to return to the family and focus on taking care of her daughter's growth. Her dedication has provided a solid backing for Luo Jialiang's career development. With the strong support of virtuous helpers, Luo Jialiang's acting career not only did not decline due to age, but showed a vigorous upward trend.
In May of this year, he also starred in the popular martial arts drama "Who is the Hero", proving to the audience that he is still charming.
At the same time, Fang Minyi chose to be tolerant and let go. She sent sincere blessings and resolved past grievances in her own way. This generosity and open-mindedness not only won the respect of everyone, but also brought inner peace to herself.
Perhaps, the true meaning of happiness does not lie in the past, but in whether you know how to cherish it now. Whether you choose to start over or live alone, maintaining a positive and optimistic mindset and trying to live each day in the present moment is the key to happiness.
The stories of Luo Jialiang, Su Yan and Fang Minyi interpret the various possibilities of love, marriage and life for us, and also give us a deeper understanding of happiness.
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