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As the old saying goes: "The upper beam is not right, and the lower beam is crooked".
In a family, if the elders do not lead by example, often do bad things and corrupt morals, then the future generations will definitely be negatively affected, and it is difficult for the family to become rich.
However, if the elders can do their best, have long-term plans and intentions, give their children and grandchildren a good education, and provide a good family environment, then such a family will most likely give birth to "noble sons", the family will develop and prosper, and the younger generations will become richer and richer.
Therefore, the elders can take the lead. The words and deeds of the elders are very important to the development of the whole family.
"If you move around the five places, your children and grandchildren will become rich": Going to these five places often will bring blessings to the family
01. Go to more places where you can "enhance your knowledge".
Many elders often teach their children or grandchildren to read more, but in fact, we must understand that verbal education is pale and weak.
As elders, the best way to educate is to teach by example, and we must also keep learning, constantly improve ourselves, and go to more places where we can "enhance our knowledge".
What are the places where we can "recharge" our brains and thoughts? For example, libraries, museums, art exhibition halls, these places are places where you can learn, as elders, we have plenty of time after retirement, and we often go to these places to move around, which can drive the whole family to learn the atmosphere, and can also improve ourselves.
Moreover, many libraries and museums are open to the public free of charge, and the learning cost is low, so you can get spiritual pleasure and enjoyment without spending money.
02. Visit relatives and friends who have helped you a lot.
In life, we will always encounter some difficulties, some difficulties can not be solved by ourselves, need to trouble relatives and friends to help, for the help of our relatives and friends, we must know how to be grateful.
In our Chinese tradition, during the New Year's holidays, relatives will walk around each other and visit each other.
For those relatives and friends who have helped us a lot, that is, the "nobles" in our lives, we should spend some time and prepare gifts.
03. Go back to your hometown more often, people are old, and you can't forget your roots.
Nowadays, many people live in the city, and they are used to living in the city, so they rarely go back to their rural hometowns, on the one hand, the journey is relatively long, and the cost of a trip back is also a lot of money; On the other hand, the house in my hometown is in disrepair, and it takes time and energy to clean up the house when I go back.
Hometown is the place where our ancestors have lived for generations, and the hometown has always been the place we are most familiar with, where there are our relatives and traces of our lives.
Therefore, if you have time, you still have to go back to your hometown more often, repair and renovate your ancestral home if you have the ability, and occasionally bring your family back to live for a period of time to relive the good memories of your childhood.
04. Go out more, visit the mountains and rivers of the motherland, and broaden your horizons.
After retirement, many elderly people stay at home all day, either watching TV and swiping their mobile phones at home, or helping their children take care of their children, and rarely go out.
In fact, if we have the opportunity, we still go out for a walk, especially the newly retired elderly, in their early 60s, not very old, and full of physical strength, which is the best "golden years" in the second half of life.
Wander among the mountains and rivers, feel the beauty of nature, broaden your horizons, and enrich your life experience.
On the journey, it is also very meaningful to take photos, write about what you have seen and heard during the journey, and record your life.
05. Go to the "place of meditation" to relax and nourish your soul.
When people are old, they must learn to calm their minds, calm their minds, and slowly understand life.
Therefore, go to the "place of meditation" more often, for example, you can go to the nearby park, walk on the tree-lined path, away from the hustle and bustle, listen to the insects and birds, and see the fallen leaves, so that your soul can be relaxed and nourished.
Meditation can nourish nature. As you get older, it's really important to keep your emotions calm. Treat family members, be emotionally stable, be calm in everything, do not lose your temper, maintain communication with your family, be more tolerant and understanding, and the family relationship will be more harmonious, and the relationship with future generations will be better.