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Pu Cunxin was born in an acting family in Beijing, and his father Pu Sixun is a veteran actor who is the founding father of Renyi. However, fate seems to have played a cruel joke, shortly after his second birthday, Pu Cunxin suddenly contracted polio, and the nerve in his right foot was severely damaged, and he could no longer walk as freely as a normal person.
Since then, Pu Cunxin's childhood has been shrouded in shadows. Whenever he staggered into the classroom, he would always feel the blazing eyes of his classmates, and he was even given a discriminatory nickname like "Pu Cripple".
Pu Cunxin's inner self-esteem and dreams have been shattered by hurt and ridicule again and again, and he has painfully questioned the injustice of fate countless times, and even felt that his dream had failed before it started.
However, Heaven eventually showed sympathy for this brave child. After years of persistent treatment, by the time he was nine years old, Pu Cunxin's leg and foot condition had improved significantly, and it would no longer be an obstacle to his life and career.
From that moment on, his belief and ideal of being able to become a good actor were rekindled.
Leaving his hometown, Pu Cunxin came to the bustling capital of Beijing and began his dream journey. As he did not make a name for himself, he was repeatedly rejected when applying for the theater and had to make ends meet by sticking cardboard boxes.
However, he never gave up the opportunity to work hard. It wasn't until he was 24 years old that the Kongzheng Drama Troupe started recruitment, and Pu Cunxin immediately went to sign up if he was reborn.
Although Pu Cunxin only played an inconspicuous small role at the beginning, he always persevered and maintained a firm fighting spirit. He lives in the same house as Li Xuejian, and from day to night, they repeatedly discuss and learn acting skills together, looking forward to one day shining on the stage.
After step-by-step efforts, Pu Cunxin finally emerged and received the attention of the popular star Wanping.
At this moment, a new chapter in Pu Cunxin's life dawned. Although he suffers from illness and his family is poor, there is a significant gap between him and Wanping, who already has a certain prestige, but Wanping values his inner bullfight-like tenacity and endless yearning for ideals.
In the Kongzheng Repertory Troupe, Wan Ping is a highly praised star actor who has been active on stage since the age of 13. As a soldier of the Green Battalion, she was dressed in a straight military uniform and wore a red logo on her collar, which looked particularly dazzling.
And Pu Cunxin is just a not very well-known contracted actor, and his roles are pitiful, and he can only play a small role like a "bandit" with a spear.
An elder deliberately introduced Pu Cunxin to Wan Ping, and when Wan Ping saw this young man in simple cotton shoes, she couldn't help but be a little confused, "Where did he come from?" However, as time went on, Wanping's appreciation for Pu Cunxin became stronger.
It turned out that although Pu Cunxin was born in poverty, his amazing talent was real. He not only has skillful acting skills, but also has a very deep reading of literary works, and his ideological connotations are extremely rich.
Wan Ping was deeply attracted by the temperament and inner quality of this young sedan chair man, and the two became familiar with each other because of various fits in the time they rehearsed together, so that their feelings naturally sprouted.
Because Wanping was already a high-ranking cadre at that time, and Pu Cunxin was just an ordinary soldier, their relationship was facing the pressure of public opinion.
In the face of doubts, Wanping never wavered. She said with firm convictions: "What I value is not his family status, nor his financial wealth. On the contrary, it is Pu Cunxin's outstanding talent and talent that makes me admire him.
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I firmly believe that one day he will be able to shine with his talents.
In this way, love is so great that it can overcome all obstacles, and Wan Ping and Pu Cunxin finally walked towards the union at the end of the red carpet. Although the two are very different from each other, they rely on each other with sincere emotions and look forward to the future.
In Wan Ping's eyes, Pu Cunxin is like a grass standing strong and upright in the cold wind, showing strong vitality, while Pu Cunxin sees Wan Ping as a warm sunshine that brings infinite life to herself
force and the motivation to pursue dreams.
Soon after getting married, Pu Cunxin and his wife ushered in the most important gift of their lives: a lovely daughter. From that moment on, Pu Cunxin deeply felt the responsibility and importance of the family, and his concern for the family also arose.
He was immersed in his daughter's innocent smile and the fragrance of diapers, and deeply felt the greatest happiness in life.
For Wanping, being able to marry her beloved man and maintain a happy family together is undoubtedly the greatest pride in her life, she has never had any regrets, but she deeply admires Pu Cunxin's self-motivation and courage, they move forward together in adversity, and finally achieve a common goal.
For his daughter Pu Fang, Pu Cunxin has always been treated with full fatherly love, and interprets his love for his daughter with actions.
When Pu Fang was 4 years old, he unfortunately contracted a severe cold and needed to be hospitalized. To save her fragile life, doctors had to repeatedly prick needles and find her blood vessels.
Pu Fang gritted his teeth and endured the first 5 times he pricked the needle, but on the 6th time, he finally couldn't bear the huge pain and cried loudly.
Seeing her daughter's heart-wrenching crying, Pu Cunxin's heart was extremely painful. He turned to his wife Wanping and said, "Our baby is still so young, let her cry as much as she wants."
Our previous requirements and discipline for her may have been a little too strict.
From that moment on, Pu Cunxin decided to adjust the way of family education, give her daughter more freedom and caring space, and do her best to meet all her needs. However, this kind of meticulous care has made Pu Fang more introverted and timid, and he subconsciously hides under the wings of his parents when he encounters anything.
In order to let her daughter Pu Fang have a better future and cultivate her independent character, in the summer of 1998, Pu Cunxin made a difficult decision - to send Pu Fang, who was only 16 years old, to the United States to study.
He hoped that Pu Fang could improve his personality and become more cheerful and outgoing through the free education method there.
Even though the two places are separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, Pu Cunxin still thinks about everything about his daughter all the time. Whenever the festival came, he always silently missed Pu Fang's face in his heart, and was even more worried about her living in a foreign country.
When Pu Cunxin heard that his daughter Pu Fang already had a boyfriend in the United States, he had mixed feelings in his heart - he was worried that she would be too open by the open culture there, and he was glad that his daughter could find a partner who loved her so much.
Out of deep love for his daughter, Pu Cunxin even put a box of condoms into her daughter Pu Fang's suitcase. Although this approach is direct, behind it is a deep entrustment and care for her daughter, hoping that she can learn to protect herself.
During his study abroad, Pu Fang not only studied very solidly, but also through the exercise of independent life, his personality has undergone a great change, becoming sunny and frank, and his ability to take charge of himself has also been continuously enhanced.
By the time she graduated and returned to her hometown, she had transformed into a glamorous urban woman. Pu Cunxin decided to let her go abroad for further study precisely because he saw this potential in her.
In December 2007, Pu Fang and several high school classmates went to Yabuli, Heilongjiang Province, to participate in the China International Ski Festival. They are passionate about sports, and Pu Fang bravely took on difficult challenges, speeding up steep snow-capped mountains, showing his athletic talent to the fullest.
It's a pity that when she dived down from a height of more than ten meters, she lost control of her center of gravity and fell to the ground and was seriously injured.
At this moment, the critical situation is becoming more and more serious. Many brave people jumped from the high ground, the soles of their shoes were like a hammer, once they hit Pu Fang, the consequences would be unimaginable. At this moment, a burly man rushed over at an alarming speed, hugged Pu Fang tightly and rolled for several meters, finally rescuing her from danger.
This brave hero who saves lives is Han Jinkai from Heilongjiang. He is not only an excellent ski instructor who has served in the provincial team, but also a tough and courageous Northeast tough guy.
Han Jinkai has deeply attracted Pu Fang's heart since then, and the relationship between them has gradually grown in the bloody wind.
Although Pu Fang and Han Jinkai love each other, the barrier of a foreign country makes it impossible for them to be together. As an international student, Pu Fang must return to New York University to continue his studies; Han Jinkai, on the other hand, stayed in Beijing and worked as a vice president of a company.
Only through the Internet can the two maintain their relationship and confide in each other in the virtual world.
The torment of a long-distance relationship is obvious, but because of this, the two cherish and attach to each other more deeply. Finally, in the summer of 2009, Pu Fang completed the task of studying in the United States and returned to the embrace of the motherland.
Pu Fang just smiled shyly and replied: "Jin Kai works in Beijing, I don't want to be too far away from him." When her father, Pu Cunxin, wondered why she left in such a hurry.
Yes, they have been in a foreign relationship for two years and have tasted the pain of separation, so it is natural that they can't ask for a reunion. Soon, Han Jinkai quit his high-paying job and joined the company founded by Pu Fang, and the two began a new life together.
At first, when Han Jinkai saw Pu Cunxin, who was about to become his father-in-law, he was still a little restrained in his heart, because Pu Cunxin is a well-known person in the film and television industry and is well-known in the Chinese-speaking world, and he is just an ordinary family.
But soon, Pu Cunxin's cordial demeanor narrowed the distance between him and everyone. He admits that he has spent 8 years in Heilongjiang and is full of deep attachment to the black land in the picture, so every time he meets people from the Northeast, he feels very cordial.
Under Pu Cunxin's acceptance and respect, Han Jinkai became more frank and bold, forming a perfect balance with Pu Fang's gentle character. They lived happily together and finally entered the palace of marriage.
When he learned that his daughter Pu Fang was about to enter the palace of marriage with Han Jinkai, Pu Cunxin's emotions were complex and diverse. As a father who loves his daughter to the extreme, of course he wants his daughter to live a happy and worry-free life, and marrying into a wealthy family is naturally his expectation.
However, he also loves his daughter deeply, respects her subjective wishes, and does not interfere too much in her life's affairs.
After some careful consideration, Pu Cunxin finally chose to fully support his daughter's marriage to Han Jinkai, and also wanted to offer a special and decent dowry gift to the couple.
First of all, in order not to bring financial pressure to his son-in-law and his family, Pu Cunxin resolutely exempted the high bride price fee. At the same time, he also privately prepared a gift red envelope worth 500,000 yuan for his daughter, personally handed over the bank card to Pu Fang, and instructed her: "Fang Fang, give the 500,000 yuan to Jin Kai, as your wedding expenses, you don't need to use other people's money."
In Pu Cunxin's mind, Han Jinkai is like half of his son, because Han Jinkai is his daughter's boyfriend, so Pu Cunxin highly recognizes him.
In order to make the son-in-law's family feel dignity and honor, the wedding was arranged in a low-key and solemn manner, and there were not even any festive banners or slogans in the venue.
In addition to money, Pu Cunxin also prepared a special gift for him, that is, a complete set of firefighting equipment! Seeing his son-in-law's puzzled face, he hurriedly explained: "There will inevitably be stumbles in married life, but you must learn to tolerate each other.
If there is a conflict between you in the future, then please use this fire extinguisher to extinguish the anger in your hearts together.
As mentioned earlier, this unique gift quickly played an important role. However, shortly after the marriage, Han Jinkai remitted 2,000 yuan of family savings to his family without his lover's permission, which led to conflicts and conflicts between the two.
In the face of her daughter's anger, Pu Cunxin did not blindly obey her wishes, but made rational analysis and weighing, and gave her daughter rational and mature suggestions.
Pu Cunxin said to the other party: "You should cheer up and learn to understand Jin Kai's good intentions." He just wants to honor his parents, and this heart is worthy of admiration. ”
Wan Ping also persuaded: "You two are young people, and it is inevitable that you will have different views on things. ”
But marriage requires learning to tolerate and respect each other.
Under the careful care of Pu Cunxin, a wise elder, Pu Fang gradually relieved and took the initiative to apologize to her husband and in-laws and admit her mistakes. Since then, the husband and wife have been in love as before, and the Pu family has also restored a harmonious and happy atmosphere.
Through his own actions, he showed the responsibility and deeds of a good father.
Han Jinkai remitted 2,000 yuan to his family without Pu Fang's consent, which made Pu Fang feel very angry. Although the married life is happy, there will still be some minor conflicts and disagreements between the newlyweds.
Faced with this situation, many parents subconsciously side with their daughters and oppose their son-in-law's decision.
Wanping immediately reminded them: "You just got married, and it is normal for some conflicts to occur in the run-in." It's just that you've all reached the age when you should learn to understand and respect each other. ”
Hearing his parents say this, Pu Fang's heart was mixed, and he was a little shaken for a while. Seeing this scene, Pu Cunxin continued to enlighten him and said: "You have to think about it, your grandmother is now very old and suffers from Alzheimer's disease, and she needs someone to take care of her on weekdays.
Your mother is unwell, and the burden of caring for it basically falls on Jin Kai's shoulders.
"Besides, Jin Kai is still the son of your in-laws. Isn't taking care of them also a way to show your filial piety?" Wan Ping persuaded amiably.
Under the guidance of his parents, Pu Fang gradually calmed down and began to reflect on whether his behavior was too selfish. She realized that she should not so ruthlessly accuse her husband of filial piety, but should be grateful for such a considerate and good husband.
In this way, Pu Fang took the initiative to apologize to Han Jinkai and his in-laws, and the spark of love was rekindled in the two hearts, and the Pu family once again restored a harmonious atmosphere. All of this is inseparable from the intentions of Pu Cunxin, a wise elder.
He is well aware that the gap between husband and wife in marriage is often accumulated by small things. If you want a long-lasting marriage, you must learn to tolerate and understand each other.
This small incident shows that Pu Cunxin is a reasonable person, he attaches great importance to family harmony, and will not blindly favor his daughter, but can judge the situation, follow the good path, and teach patiently.
Use your own wisdom to resolve conflicts naturally.
He used the precious experience and wisdom of this life.
As praised by Feng Gong, "Pu Cunxin is the 'family hero' of middle-aged and elderly women", and he has devoted his life to influencing the people around him with his actions and warming the world with love and understanding.
This blessing will last forever and will last forever.
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