Recently, netizens posted pictures in the circle of friends, saying that their son was admitted to a key university and was very excited.
It was originally a thing to share joy, but unexpectedly, the relatives in the circle of friends became angry.
When netizens opened the circle of friends again, they thought that the comment area was full of blessings.
But I didn't expect to see the evaluation of closer relatives, which is simply a bad scenery.
"It's not a big deal to be admitted to college, but now college students are everywhere, and it's not the same as not being able to find a job after graduation."
"I thought I was so good in the exam, I wasn't proud that my child was admitted to Tsinghua University, and you still showed off?"
"The child is just admitted to a good university, and it is worth your special post on Moments, and sincerely make others unhappy. Knowing that other people's children are not as good as yours, you are satisfied and happy, right? ”
No matter how close the relationship was, it fell apart at this moment.
It turns out that the person who can't see you doing well is not your enemy, but more likely to be your closest person.
Remembered a post I saw earlier.
Netizen "Report Friend Success" described in the post how he reported his best friend and how he feels guilty now.
In her opinion, her friends are better looking than herself, her family conditions are good, and she is very motivated, and she is always incomparable.
The friend told her the most secret thing, and at the most critical turning point in her friend's life, she chose to betray her friend, resulting in the invalidation of her friend's grades, and she was just "too afraid of her being admitted".
There are a lot of relationships in this world, good enough to wear a pair of pants. But when you are doing well, the first thing he feels is not happiness, but loss.
You can live well, and I'm afraid you're not doing well, but you can't live better than me.
Now this post is just an excuse to escape, and I want to seek some self-comfort with the help of netizens' comments.
In the TV series "New Life", Fei Ke's test was reported by his closest friend He Shan, because Fei Ke was smarter than her and occupied the only escort place, He Shan was jealous and couldn't see that this best friend around her was better off than herself.
Mr. Hu Shi once said: "The greatest evil of human nature is to hate you, laugh at you, hate you for being poor, and fear that you are rich." ”
Bacon said, "One can allow a stranger to flourish, but one cannot forgive the rise of a man close to him." ”
A beggar will never be jealous of a rich man, but if the beggars around him beg for a penny, he will hate itchy.
Because under the same circle, he can't stand his own suffering and others enjoying, so he will desperately pull you down.