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"Men look at their ears, women look at their mouths."
This old saying, which has been widely circulated, is short but profound.
It reminds us how to look beyond the outward appearance to see the essence of the heart in the process of finding a life partner.
For men, "looking at the ears" means paying attention to the other person's ability to listen.
The ear, as an organ of hearing, not only carries the function of receiving information, but also invisibly reflects a person's attitude and cultivation.
A man who is a good listener is often able to give his partner full attention and understanding, so that each other's hearts can be close.
They understand that in the hustle and bustle of the world, listening is a rare quality, which can allow two people to find resonance in ordinary days and weave a warm and harmonious life picture together.
For women, "looking at the mouth" refers to observing the other person's temperament and communication style.
The mouth, as an outlet for speech, is a direct reflection of a person's personality and ability to manage their emotions.
A woman with a gentle temper and a good sense of communication is able to resolve conflicts in married life and create a harmonious family atmosphere.
They know that the power of words lies in warmth and understanding, not in attack and accusation.
By such a woman's side, the man can feel the warmth and tranquility of home, and thus shoulder the responsibility of the family more firmly.
Although the ears and mouth are only two small parts of the human body, they contain deep meaning when choosing a partner.
They remind us that when choosing a partner, we must not only pay attention to the appearance and wealth, but also pay attention to the inner qualities and personality characteristics of the other person.
Because true happiness is often hidden in these seemingly insignificant details.
"Men look at their ears" because the ears are the windows of the soul, and a man who truly knows how to respect women will definitely listen with his heart.
They will not interrupt you easily, nor will they be indifferent to what you have to say.
Instead, they will patiently listen to your joys and sorrows, and respond to your every appeal with understanding and care.
Such a man can give you enough security and a sense of belonging in your married life, so that you can feel the warmth of being loved.
The Taiwanese short film "Strangers at the Table" is a vivid example.
In this short film, the wife enthusiastically shares the little things in her life with her husband, who always responds with a simple "um", as if he were an outsider.
This marital state of lack of listening and communication makes the wife feel deeply lost and helpless.
It makes us wonder if a marriage is worth continuing when one loses the right to speak and the companionship of listening.
"Women look at their mouths" because of a person's temperament, which is often exposed when he is angry.
A woman with a gentle temperament and who knows how to control her emotions is able to remain calm and rational in married life and solve problems in a peaceful way.
They understand that marriage is not a quarrel game, but a business that requires both parties to work together.
By the side of such women, men can feel the warmth and tranquility of home, and thus cherish their feelings for each other even more.
I once heard a real case, which is even more shocking.
A husband and wife quarrel over a small chicken leg that turns into an irreparable tragedy.
This incident has made us deeply realize how damaging a woman who does not know how to control her emotions and speaks harshly can bring to a marriage.
A woman with a gentle temperament and understanding can play a key role in stabilizing emotions and resolving conflicts in marriage.
The way to happiness in marriage lies in mutual understanding, respect and tolerance between both parties.
Among them, listening and communication are important bonds to maintain the stability of marriage.
A family consisting of a man who is a good listener and a woman with a gentle temperament is often able to create a warm and harmonious atmosphere.
In such a family, both parties can feel the warmth of being understood and respected, so that they can cherish each other's feelings more.
However, marriages are not always uneventful.
Trivialities and conflicts in life are inevitable, but it is these challenges that test the wisdom and endurance of both husband and wife.
A partner who knows how to listen and communicate can work together in the face of difficulties, face and overcome them together.
Couples who lack these qualities may go further and further down the path of marriage and eventually part ways.
Love is like a short-lived firework, gorgeous and short-lived; Marriage, on the other hand, is a flame that requires both parties to keep adding fuel and raising their salaries in order to make it burn.
In the long river of marriage, love may gradually fade with the passage of time, but responsibility and responsibility are always the cornerstone of maintaining marriage.
Only when we deeply understand and take on this responsibility can we go further and more steadily on the road of marriage.
Therefore, when choosing a partner, the old saying "men look at the ears, women look at the mouth" is particularly important.
It reminds us that while pursuing love, we should pay more attention to the inner qualities and character traits of the other person.
Only when we find someone who knows how to listen and has a gentle temper can we spend the wind and rain and sunshine of life together on the road of marriage.
Finally, may everyone who is looking for a partner remember the true meaning of this old saying.
Don't be deceived by appearances, don't be tempted by material things, and feel the sincerity and kindness of the other person with your heart.
I believe that in the near future, you will be able to find the soul mate who will spend your life hand in hand with you and write your own chapter of happiness together.
The ears and the mouth, two seemingly insignificant body parts, actually contain profound marital wisdom.
When we look at a potential partner through the lens of "men look at their ears and women look at their mouths", we are actually exploring their truest selves.
This is not only a responsibility for yourself, but also a responsibility for your future married life.
May we all keep a clear head and firm belief on this road of finding true love, and finally find the partner who matches our hearts and write a beautiful chapter in our lives together.
At the same time, we should also understand that the happiness of marriage is not achieved overnight, but requires the joint efforts of both parties.
In the long married life, we will encounter all kinds of challenges and difficulties, but as long as we can stick to our original intention, mutual understanding, respect and tolerance, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and obstacles and let the tree of marriage thrive.
Let's work together to water this marriage tree with love and wisdom!