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"Scissors don't put in three places, the family is safe and rich", this sentence is often on the lips of parents, but many people may not understand the meaning of this sentence, just simply think that scissors can not be put indiscriminately, but in fact, the meaning of this sentence is far more than that, in fact, in today's society, many people have begun to "put scissors indiscriminately" without realizing it.
"Put scissors" sounds very simple, but there are many that are really not easy to do, but if you can grasp the essence of it, then as long as you follow the focus of this essence, you can easily "put the scissors", so what is this essence?
And why are so many people "misplacing scissors"?
1. Scissors should not be placed indiscriminately.
"If you don't put the scissors in three places, your family will be safe and rich."
The meaning of this sentence is that if the scissors are placed well in the home, then the family will become peaceful, and the people in the family will become rich.
So why "put scissors"?
The scissors in this sentence are not really scissors, but a metaphor.
The so-called "scissors" are actually some things in life.
In life, there will always be a lot of things happening, some things are predictable, but some things are unforeseeable, just like "seven things to open the door, eight things to go out", the truth of which is unforeseeable events.
But whether it is a foreseeable event or an unforeseeable event, we need to have a rough plan so that we can better cope with these events later in life, and even be able to reap some benefits from them.
So what are the three places in life when you "put scissors"?
What do these three places represent in life?
1. Academics: This is actually the most important point in life.
Academic point mainly refers to the learning of people in life, which is indispensable, because learning is an important means to improve oneself, only continuous learning, in order to make one's horizons broader, but also to make one's knowledge reserve more abundant.
And in this way, whether at work or in daily life, you can better deal with all kinds of problems, and even get more benefits from it.
2. Career: This is actually based on academics.
Because only with enough knowledge can we help us better develop our careers.
Only through unremitting efforts can we make ourselves better and better in the journey of life in the future, and continue to move towards our goals.
Only on this basis can we get more benefits in our careers and at the same time make our lives more and more prosperous.
3. Marriage: This is the most important point in life.
Because whether it is in the previous studies or career, the ultimate goal is to make one's life better, and married life is an indispensable part of life.
Only through a happy marriage can we become better in our later lives.
And a happy married life needs to rely on the joint efforts of both husband and wife to maintain, and at the same time, two people need to trust each other, so as to make the relationship between two people better.
2. The three most important things in life.
In a person's life, no matter what time it is, there will be many things that need to be done, but among these things, there are many things that are the most important.
Only by grasping these most important things can we go more smoothly in the future journey of life, and at the same time, we can get more benefits in it.
1. Academics: Academics are the most important thing in life.
The most important thing in learning is learning, because learning is an important means for oneself to continue to move forward.
Only by continuous learning can you become better in your later life, and at the same time, you can get more benefits in it.
2. Career: Career is the most important thing in life.
Career is very important for a man, and a successful man, in addition to having a strong knowledge, also needs to have a decent job.
Only in this way can you make yourself better and better in the future journey of life.
3. Marriage: Marriage is the most important thing in life.
When a person reaches a certain age, he needs to start thinking about his marriage.
Because whether it is in the previous studies or career, the ultimate goal is to make one's life better, and married life is an indispensable part of life.
Only through a happy marriage can we become better in our later lives.
And a happy married life needs to rely on the joint efforts of both husband and wife to maintain, and at the same time, two people need to trust each other, so as to make the relationship between two people better.
Third, scissors can not be placed indiscriminately, and only by putting them right can life be better.
The "scissors" in life should not be placed randomly, and if you put the wrong scissors, you will make your life very bad.
But if you put the right scissors, you will make your life better.
So how do you put the right pair of scissors in life?
1. Academics: The most important thing in life is academics.
Only by grasping this point can we go more smoothly in the future journey of life, and at the same time, we can get more benefits in it.
Only with high academic achievements can we go more smoothly in the future journey of life.
At the same time, you can get more benefits later in life.
2. Career: Career is very important for a man.
Only through unremitting efforts can you make your career thrive and at the same time be able to get more benefits in it.
If a man has a successful career, it is not only an affirmation of himself, but also a kind of love for his wife.
Only in this way can I make my wife happier in the future journey of life.
3. Marriage: Marriage is an emotional exchange between two people, and only through such communication will the feelings between two people become better.
If the relationship between two people is good, then whether it is in later life or at work, they can be more comfortable, and at the same time, they can get more benefits in it.
epilogue
"If you don't put the scissors in three places, your family will be safe and rich."
This sentence still has a very important meaning in today's society, and the three places in this sentence are also the three most important things in life.
Only by grasping these three things can our lives become better.