There is a very vivid example of this around me.
I have been studying very well since I was a child, and my teachers like her very much. She is beautiful, has a good personality, and is very reasonable, the fly in the ointment is that her family conditions are relatively poor, but it does not affect her study at all, and she herself is also very thrifty. Every tea picking season, she would follow her mother to pick tea on weekends and holidays, and then save the money, at that time I thought about buying snacks and eating spicy strips, but I didn't think of saving my pocket money at all. Of course, my studies are not as good as hers (she is one year older than me), but none of this affects my friendship with her from childhood to adulthood.
She went to a normal university in college, worked in Hangzhou for a few years after graduation, and then returned to her hometown as a civil servant. I really admire that she can still prepare for the civil service exam when she is so busy working in Hangzhou, she is really amazing.
Her father's machismo at home is very big, and every day she can hear her father yelling at her mother's voice, and she feels that her mother is really pitiful. Not only does her father often yell at her mother at home, but he is also the kind of person who will make trouble unreasonably in the village. Later, after she was admitted to the civil service, her father spoke with a straight waist, and everyone would greet her father first when they saw her, which could be regarded as a small light for me.
But her father didn't think about his daughter like other parents and kept a low profile at all times, but asked me to help this relative in the family and that relative to help. I'm really worried that one day he'll drag me down.
自己考进去的，只要不是违反制度，谁也开不了你。
有编制的说话就有底气。
哈哈哈哈，就要跟着规章制度走。
因祸得福了。
这种钻空子的人不管在哪里都不会长久。
大姐就是大姐。
私企是真的给领导打工。
现实都骨干的。
看着好爽，哈哈哈。
在乡镇体制内，不想升副科的你就是正处。