flipped through the circle of friends, and the last time I posted information was 6 years ago, when the child was just born, and I posted a few photos of the baby.
Check out the list of friends, more than 1100 people. Looking at the name, more than half of them are very unfamiliar, click on his circle of friends, and be taken aback, "I'm going, who is this, how is it in my circle of friends"?
Recall carefully, it may be a workplace, met once, in order to facilitate contact (or transfer information), added WeChat, but there was no intersection after that.
I understand people who don't post moments
As netizens said, the circle of friends is becoming more and more like a combination of personal recent announcements, work content output, and whitewashed life decoration.
Most of them are friends who like or leave a few words that are not painful, real friends will talk in private, they all know each other's recent situation, and they don't need to maintain their relationship through the circle of friends.
After all, it is a person who faces the ups and downs of growth.
It's like the line in "Three Fools in Bollywood", when your friend fails, you think it's bad; Your friend is the first in the exam, and you think it's even worse.
The author perceives
In this world, you are you, you are tired, you are tired, you are in pain, you are hurting yourself, you are falling and crawling by yourself, you are hurting and healing yourself.
When a child falls, he cries when he sees someone next to him, and he knows that someone will help him.
When you grow up, you are poor, depressed, or difficult once, and not everyone will come out to help you. Sometimes, there are a lot of people around you who watch your jokes, and there are few who really sympathize with you.
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "No one is born strong, in the suffering of the years, everyone is one step at a time, the mud comes over, the more you walk, the person becomes a little stronger, at the beginning pretending to be strong, and then really strong." ”
Everyone has come from the muddy path, there are many sad and unspeakable pasts, some things have no one to say, can only be deeply understood by themselves, and digested slowly.
There are endless things to do every day, and you have given all your patience and taken care of everyone's emotions, but you have only wronged yourself. Looking back, the dream of youth is still there, and people are no longer teenagers, and it is a pity that they have never lived in the way they like.
Live and live as you hate it, laugh and laugh and become a ridiculous character, and walk and live the life of the remaining shadow and me. Suddenly, in that moment, it dawned on you that you should live for yourself and live the life you like.
In this fireworks world, everything is worth it, everything has regrets, many times in life, it is not we who choose life, but life who chooses us.
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