In love, some people want a lot, but some people only want one.
But many times, when we think that we are important in the other person's heart, the other person does not care that much.
If one day you find that what you give is not proportional to what you get, or if he doesn't care about you anymore, it may be a sign that he doesn't love you anymore.
After all, whether a man really loves you or is just playing, it can be seen from the fact that he is afraid of these three things.
When a man loves a woman deeply, there will be some fearful things, and these fears just prove that men care about women.
- Fear that you will not be happy
For women, both happiness and unhappiness are important, while for men, both happiness and unhappiness are equally important.
When a man truly loves you deeply, he will be afraid that you will be unhappy because he does not want to see you sad and sad.
In his opinion, if you are unhappy, it is the greatest harm to him.
So when you're unhappy, he'll do everything he can to amuse you. When he sees your sad face, he will always make you happy; When he sees you sullen, he will always find a way to make you laugh.
And this worry just shows how much a man cares and cares about women. Because for a woman, as long as she is happy, it is the greatest happiness.
So when a man loves a woman deeply, he becomes more and more afraid of losing her. Because I was afraid of losing her, I was also afraid that she would be unhappy.
- I'm afraid you'll be wronged
This is also why many men are easily moved by some details when facing women, or even ignore the feelings of the other party.
Women sometimes get angry because of a man's words, but in fact, it's just because of love. When a man loves you deeply, he will pay special attention to your feelings for fear that you will be wronged.
Sometimes when you are unhappy, he will cry with you; Sometimes when you are in a bad mood, he will accompany you to be sad.
But instead of feeling guilty and blaming himself for his unhappy woman like other men, he will worry more about you on the contrary.
In fact, women don't have to worry too much, because the man who really loves you will not worry about you because of some trivial things, but hopes to give you more love and protection. So when you meet such a man, you should cherish it.
- I'm afraid you'll come into contact with someone else of the opposite sex
Sometimes, we see some couples who are obviously very affectionate, but when it comes to the evening, they will have a lot of trouble. In fact, this is because men care too much about a woman and are worried that she will be snatched away by others, so they will always stick with her.
But in fact, the occurrence of this situation does not necessarily mean that the man does not love women, but that he loves you too much. Because the man who loves you deeply will be afraid of losing you, so he will be afraid of contact with other members of the opposite sex.
After all, how many people in this world can tolerate their women getting too close to others? So when a man is deeply in love with you, he will worry that you will have too much contact with other members of the opposite sex, and even be jealous.
So, if a man really loves you, he will worry that you will be snatched away by other members of the opposite sex. Of course, it is also a form of love.
- I'm afraid you won't want to spend time with him
If you love someone, you will be afraid of losing. Therefore, when a man loves a woman deeply, he is afraid that she will not be willing to spend time with him, because he is afraid that he is not secure enough.
Love needs companionship, and when a man loves a woman deeply, he will want to be with her all the time, so that he will not feel that there is something missing in his heart.
Because in his heart, you are the most important person, so he will care a lot about your feelings.
If you find that the man next to you starts saying to you, "I'm so afraid of losing you", it means that he doesn't love you anymore.